How to make love to a trans woman

[PsychoPumpkin]

Article link.

transsingleblog.wordpress.com/2016/04/25/make-love-with-transgender-females/

He certainly sounds more like an angry man than a woman of any temperament whatsoever.

I don't mind at all if trans identified men go off with all the femininity and all the men who expect their partners to be feminine.

the bit about their fake vaginas being "virgin" and fresher and somehow better than ours because weve had ours for a number of decades cracks me up. Do they not realise that most of us have daily showers? and that our are made up of actual self lubricating muscle that we can grip with and control? I really cant imagine that that can be replicated.

I know it's not funny but I nearly splat out my tea at the suggestion that modern women have more issues than a transgender mtf

I'm not sure I've ever met anyone with more issues than the person who wrote that article, honestly. He doesn't just have issues, he has a subscription.

Unicorns, "goes to have a cup of tea and watch the British Bake off in peace" yes! That's the problem. Some men want the world to revolve around them, and a lot of women are now living for themselves. It no longer takes a couple working in a team to keep a home.

And women no longer have to suck up all the crap in silence to survive. The domestic violence, the drudgery, the sex being quite legal to take from you by force if you didn't give it willingly (while magazines told you about your wifely duty to let your body be used to meet your husband's needs), the subordination, the hours and hours it took every day to keep a house clean, clothes clean, people fed.... the Grandma's Song from Billy Elliot sums it all up. 'Seventeen - that was it, your life ended when you had a ring around your finger'.

Now women don't have to stay when they're unhappy. They are free to have standards of how they're willing to be treated, of the amount of drudgery they're prepared to suck up, how much they will enable and facilitate a male partner to have freedom they can't share in, the inequality they're prepared to absorb. (Although if you go to AIBU and relationships you'll always find women scolding other women for not being sufficiently doormatty enough to win Good Girl Patriarchy Cookies).

Flomper, the bit about the vagina really sums up the writers pea brained idea of what a vagina, and by extension "woman" is.

If you were to imagine that a vagina is just a sex hole, which gets worn out and battered by sexual intercourse, then you might imagine that your brand new "man-made" (pun intended) vagina is superior.

The author wouldn't be so reductive and hilariously silly about a synthetic liver or a prosthetic limb, because they understand these body parts have a function outside of his sexy dreams.

their sexy dreams, genuine typo, not anything else. X

Most of them think that a) we pee out of our vaginas and b) the clitoris is a stunted penis. So y'know. This one has as much anatomical understanding as you'd expect!

To be fair a lot of men and women also believe this, I guess it is up to us to ensure our kids have a better understanding of basic biology.

Non trans women are frigid are they? I didn't get that memo...

I do wonder if all the so-called men who would actually be looking for the sort of woman being described in that article, were to bugger off to date/fuck/abuse TWs and leave us awful cis-women alone, then life would be considerably better for us. In fact, the article is insulting to both women and men.

Perhaps if we were to encourage TWs to take those sort of men out of circulation?

So a Trans woman is 'fresher' with their 'implanted' vaginas?! I have never read such horseshit in my life.

Also, do they think men will fall for 'anal sex with a tanswoman who hasnt had surgery isnt the same as homosexual sex'....

@jux, greatbidea, although a trip to Thailand will show that many of them are already there. Many also married at home though sadly so not really out of circulation.

Damn it, my vagina's never been the same since I pushed a baby out of it - I suppose trans women'll never have that problem...

But you know what? Life doesn't have to be a sodding competition. Even if you grew up playing Who Can Piss The Highest.

(I know, I know, this is just some dick being a dick, and the article isn't necessarily representative of anything, and it's wrong to have a pile-on. But what a dick.)

Women who have had Vaginoplasty have a surgically implanted vagina that is fresh and may feel better than that of a cis-women.
Fucking hell!!!!
Because being a woman a having a hole which pleasures men right?!

Oh and being a woman is about having the right proportioned body... to appeal to men.

There's a certain type of transwoman who seem to think:
Sparkles, eyeliner and dresses = woman
Hole to sexually please men = woman
Body in the correct proportions to appeal to men = women

That leads me to another question: when transwomen have genital surgery, does the surgeon create vulva in addition to a vagina?

TerfsUp yes of course, bit how can a vulva be "created"
Cosmetically perhaps, functionally not.
Sad.

My poor stale fanny, someone left my cake out in the rain.

Is this relevant here? It's an interesting read, though long!

www.commentarymagazine.com/articles/the-disappearance-of-desire/

That article makes some very good points, pickle, sensible, not overstated and factual.

Hey. Someone said it before me and elsewhere, but if our stale old fannies and bodies are so lacking, let’s let the transwomen get on with repopulating the human race.

We may as well retire, seeing as transwomen - who ARE women, btw - can do it better.

I give the human race 50 years, max.

Hanging up my womb, cos it’s just not needed any more. Oh! Let’s think on that one!

All joking aside, I think we should be highlighting the whole procreation business when trying to deal with the TRA.