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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

How to make love to a trans woman

286 replies

PsychoPumpkin · 22/03/2018 10:08

Article link.

transsingleblog.wordpress.com/2016/04/25/make-love-with-transgender-females/

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TempusFugitive · 22/03/2018 10:35

They hate women because men dont buy their crap but they are all softly softly come road test me batting eyelashes to the men. Why dont they have the exhilarating experience of making love to each other? Or are they too inhibited?

Jux · 22/03/2018 10:36

Having sex with a transwoman who hasn't had a vaginoplasty isn't the same as having homosexual sex because you're having sex with a woman? A woman who has a penis and no vagina.

Yeeees.

LangCleg · 22/03/2018 10:36

Zero mention of female pleasure, which is obviously irrelevant.

That's what screams out, isn't it?! It couldn't possibly occur to this fool that actual women might say to their partners what can you do for me? rather than never anything but what can I do for you?. Absolutely no comprehension that a sexual relationship could, and should, be mutually fulfilling.

It's what you write, presumably, when you are steeped in sissification porn.

TerfingHell · 22/03/2018 10:37

I have a serious question.

Trans women usually have better proportioned bodies than cis-women, which helps during lovemaking.

How does better proportions help in lovemaking?

UndomesticHousewife · 22/03/2018 10:38

I really can’t see telling a heterosexual man who wants to have anal sex to do it with a trans woman because they are women just ignore the penis is going to make them go ok then if they either aren’t bisexual or are sexually attracted to trans women Confused

PsychoPumpkin · 22/03/2018 10:39

I don’t know, momo.

In an ideal world that’s exactly what trans people would do and a few years ago I thought that was the beginning and the end of it.

Some men and some women preferred to present as the opposite sex, it was harmless and I was happy that they were living as they wanted to live.

Then came CIS, TERF, Self ID, taking positions meant for women, rejecting third spaces, silencing women...

I’d love not to have a problem with the trans agenda but I do for the reasons listed above, and because I fear for my daughters, I fear for free speech.

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Basseting · 22/03/2018 10:41

sorry, i know it doesnt add anything to the discussion but i think my head just exploded with the stupidity and misogyny of this.

WonderLime · 22/03/2018 10:42

I’m confused how a trans-woman is on one hand is 100% woman, but at the same time something entirely different from a woman (different sexual appetite, less ‘frigid’, more ‘animalistic).

Either trans-women are the same as ‘cis’ women or they are not - both can’t be true at the same time. Hmm

Hypermice · 22/03/2018 10:44

Most men on this planet will not experience the transgender sex experience due to a combination of social conditioning and internalized inhibitions

Or cocks.

Genuine question: Do transwomen who identify as lesbian (ie ‘men who still want to have sex with women’) accept transwomen as partners then? Or is it only natal women/lesbians who are bad if they don’t like ladydick?

ShotsFired · 22/03/2018 10:45

The author didn't look too closely at the tags on the image they used, did they? Grin

www.shutterstock.com/image-photo/young-beautiful-pair-lovers-talk-bed-387937291

How to make love to a trans woman
Terfragette69 · 22/03/2018 10:45

Would love to hear what the 'twanzactivists' handmaidens have to say about this?? Fresh vagina. 😂😂

PsychoPumpkin · 22/03/2018 10:47

Elendon, no worries! If I’d just posted a link it would be a bit Hmm

I’ve heard of SCUM, (watched the last season of American horror story).

No, I’m positive no heterosexual man would have sex with a transwoman. Bisexual perhaps but no straight man is going to Look past the fact that their sexual partner has a penis.

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Elendon · 22/03/2018 10:48

Regarding LGB, which is sexual orientation, this is an interesting article.

www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-41498713

It's obvious that the majority HLGB is the H, though I would query the B. Bisexuality I think is much more prevalent.

ReanimatedSGB · 22/03/2018 10:48

I remember this article from its first appearance. My general view is that the writer is someone with a few issues and probably poor mental health. One unhappy, messed up individual. Who should simply be ignored by the vast majority of us.

PsychoPumpkin · 22/03/2018 10:49

Good question hypermice!

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PoorYorick · 22/03/2018 10:49

I know all there is to know about the crying game.

Elendon · 22/03/2018 10:50

Cross post again! Smile

RedToothBrush · 22/03/2018 10:51

'Better' is a phrase based on socialised expectations and values.

Unravel the concept from stereotypes of what a woman should be.

Noting of course that women want to reject the very concept of 'better' womens bodies.

Notsexistatall.

Elendon · 22/03/2018 10:51

Transwomen who identify as lesbian are heterosexual. Is my humble opinion on the matter.

AskBasil · 22/03/2018 10:51

I can't wait for them to start telling straight men that they're transphobic for not considering transwomen and that they're vagina fetishists for wanting the women they sleep with to be er... women.

Most straight men would rather put their penis into a vagina, than into an inverted penis. Harsh but fair.

Freudian · 22/03/2018 10:52

Speaking as a man - apologies if I'm not supposed to be in here.

I find this article repulsive. Some questions

What exactly is the ideal proportion for the female form ?
Why would a surgical wound made from inside out penis be more appealing than a REAL vagina.?
Why do these people pretend that heterosexual men even would consider this as an option ?
They are not women.... at all. They are deeply troubled men. Sex is 5% of a relationship why invite the chaos such a person is surrounded by into ones life ?

Im actually appalled that this narrative is being presented and poisoning our kids minds. How my young daughter and son will navigate this issue growing up concerns me a great deal.

CaptainCardamom · 22/03/2018 10:52

Wow that writer is very confused.

wtf is a better proportioned body anyway? How can they possibly know all about how a trans woman's freshly made vagina compares to all the natural vaginas? How can they possibly label all trans women as a class as being simpering in bed - they can't know that!

What a pile of guff.

PsychoPumpkin · 22/03/2018 10:52

Elendon, sorry, i’m Not sure I understand what you meant. Do you think bisexuality is more prevelant than heterosexuality or just that many ‘heterosexual’ people are actually bisexual and therefore the numbers of bisexual people are not truly represented?

I think a lot more people are bisexual than they’d let themselves admit.

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donquixotedelamancha · 22/03/2018 10:54

Oh god. I really hope that blog is a spoof. How can anyone who's spoken with a woman for 5 minutes believe this stuff? My favourite bit so far is the section explaining femininity.

[https://transsingleblog.wordpress.com/2016/03/05/transgender-women/]

Women have a deeply ingrained need to look elegant and fashionable.

Words that aptly and precisely capture femininity would be, your body makes you feel sexy, your face makes you pretty, your smile makes you gorgeous

Women do not walk or move slovenly

women don’t walk; they gracefully slide

I don't think this blog is remotely representative of the views of genuine transexuals who go to great effort to pass.

ButchyRestingFace · 22/03/2018 10:54

They don't half fetishise trans-women in that article. Hmm