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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

How to make love to a trans woman

286 replies

PsychoPumpkin · 22/03/2018 10:08

Article link.

transsingleblog.wordpress.com/2016/04/25/make-love-with-transgender-females/

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Wombman · 25/03/2018 05:26

There's plans to transplant uteruses into mtfs

OtterInDisgrace · 25/03/2018 05:27

Good luck with that.

speakout · 25/03/2018 09:01

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AngryAttackKittens · 25/03/2018 09:05

The whole "fresh" thing always makes me think of a tube of Pringles, which really isn't the most erotic analogy.

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AngryAttackKittens · 25/03/2018 09:11

It's really a pretty unpleasant idea, but try pointing that out and you'll be inundated with cries of transphobia. For the ones who expect lesbians to sleep with them (shudders).

speakout · 25/03/2018 09:15

Unpleasant but realistic.

PositivelyPERF · 25/03/2018 09:16

Oh gad, I wish I’d left this to read AFTER breakfast. 🤢

ErrolTheDragon · 25/03/2018 09:43

One of Rod Liddells pieces in the Sunday times this morning is on this subject. Another touches on Labour’s (non) AWS and yet another on a women's college barring staff from calling the students women.

go.mumsnet.com/?xs=1&id=470X1554755&url=www.thetimes.co.uk/article/nothing-proves-jeremy-corbyn-is-anti-semitic-just-everything-he-says-anddoes-sh0n23hg0?shareToken=af852b89b79b6e1e0a18f22783d11523

speakout · 25/03/2018 09:51

PositivelyPERF

Sorry.

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Tinycitrus · 25/03/2018 10:24

Transwomen- like women, but better...

Grin
AngryAttackKittens · 25/03/2018 10:26

It was the "implanted" bit that seemed really ghoulish to me, like they were taking the vaginas from corpses and putting them into TIMs. Which isn't actually happening, thankfully, but that's what it brought to mind, and you'd think they'd realize that as a mental image it's horrifying, but alas...

CircleSquareCircleSquare · 25/03/2018 10:36

Laser hair removal is generally preferred before this kind of surgery because it’s very difficult to deal with skin shedding and hairs when they now form part of a surgically formed cavity. Many people having this surgery are poorly advised or cannot afford this procedure, not to mention laser hair removal doesn’t work long term for quite a significant amount of people. Which leaves issues with collections of skin and hairballs.
As such this can obviously lead to infection and will need to be kept....erm...what’s the word...fresh.

AngryAttackKittens · 25/03/2018 10:38

I guess we can add "internal hairballs" to the list of "privileges" that cis women have.

AngryAttackKittens · 25/03/2018 10:42

The lack of, rather.

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LangCleg · 25/03/2018 10:54

So really, a great deal of this is a narcissist having to deal with the results of a cosmetic surgery that is, to put it mildly, considerably less sophisticated than advertised.

I suppose that's really why the ladypeen has such a PR campaign behind it! At least the peen part is authentic!

PositivelyPERF · 25/03/2018 11:04

like they were taking the vaginas from corpses and putting them into TIMs. Which isn't actually happening FFS don’t give them ideas. 🤫

AngryAttackKittens · 25/03/2018 11:11

And I get that about the disappointment, but trying to put other people down to make yourself feel better is a shitty thing to do. But narcisism, so.

speakout · 25/03/2018 11:13

And what actual physical pleasure is involved for the man with a fake vagina?
No ability to orgasm at all. Robbed of male sexual genital pleasure and unable to experience female sexual genital sensation.

There is the mental stimulation I guess- but how far does that go- simply to have a hole to give someone else pleasure?

I guess it works in some relationships- someone with paralysis perhaps or ED - couples have ways around this- but it's far from ideal.

I am not a man, so I can only imagine the mindset of someone happy to fuck a stoma.

LangCleg · 25/03/2018 11:25

And I get that about the disappointment, but trying to put other people down to make yourself feel better is a shitty thing to do. But narcisism, so.

Well, yes. It begs the question - what are surgeons telling these people? I mean, it's one thing to outline the best surgery can offer to a catastrophically dysphoric person so that they can alleviate chronic and acute distress.

But it's quite another to falsely advertise what can be achieved via surgery to an AGP man who exhibits male pattern abusive behaviour and attitudes. Not just because they won't get what they think will get and it will hurt them - but because the resulting narcissistic rage will present clear risk to women. As we are seeing playing out in every sphere of public life.

AngryAttackKittens · 25/03/2018 12:00

Yep. False advertising is a dangerous thing when the person being sold to has NPD.

numptynuts · 26/03/2018 20:14

A surgical opening accessing a section of transplanted colon.

Sounds so...."fresh" as to compared to my ordinary, boring self-lubing vagina.

Horrible article.

BeUpStanding · 26/03/2018 21:05

I feel quite sorry for whoever writes that blog. It's clearly an individual's personal (yet public) internet space for exploring their fantasies. It's so ridiculous I can't imagine anyone taking it seriously, least of all any trans people.