I have still somehow managed to get positive female attention when at my most overweight, poor and scruffy looking. I really don't recognize this blanket description of women at all.
I mean sure I'm sure some women are shallow, just as some men are creepy, but if your type happens to be exclusively shallow women, then you've got the problem.
If you behave like nothing more than a set of cock and balls, you're objectifying yourself as much as your objectifying women. Have some self respect and maybe more women will have respect for you.
Also if you are open and relaxed people will approach you more. I have a particularly close female friend, who will poke fun at me in that when we're out and she pops away for a moment she'll almost always come back to find me nattering with someone.
If you're moving through a room exclusively talking to all the good looking women, it actually looks a little absurd, and tells anyone all they need to know about you. If however you just relax and speak to a wide variety of people (who are open to it obvs!), then that sends out an entirely different message. People notice.
You'll also find more people approach you and I'll bet you a pound to a penny eventually one of them will be these stunners you covet so bloody much, no matter what you look like.
However be warned, I'll leave you with one of the arguments of Socrates if you love something as ephemeral and impermanent as beauty, when that beauty fades so does your affection. If you love something more robust like mind or soul it can last as long as you do. Yes it's nice to be desired, but it's not the only facet of the human experience. Grow up and learn about the others...