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Anyone looking to lose 100lbs plus... Part 6!

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honeysucklejasmine · 27/08/2018 10:02

Hello, welcome to the sixth instalment (wow!) of the ‘Anyone looking to lose 100lbs plus …’ thread smile

If you want to read them (but by no means feel obliged!), the previous threads are here:

Part 1 www.mumsnet.com/Talk/weight_loss_chat/2812619-anyone-looking-to-lose-100lbs-plus-in-2017

Part 2 www.mumsnet.com/Talk/weight_loss_chat/2920520-Anyone-looking-to-lose-100lbs-in-2017-Part-2

Part 3 www.mumsnet.com/Talk/weight_loss_chat/3045244-Anyone-looking-to-lose-100lbs-plus-in-2017-18-Part-3

Part 4 www.mumsnet.com/Talk/weight_loss_chat/3193507-Anyone-looking-to-lose-100lbs-plus-Part-4

Part 5 www.mumsnet.com/Talk/weight_loss_chat/3271618-Anyone-looking-to-lose-100lbs-plus-Part-5

We’re a very friendly, supportive group, and all at different stages, but we’re all seeing some real changes in ourselves and our attitudes to food. It’s a long old road, but it helps to chat along the way

Collectively, we’ve lost an incredible…......... 🌟 1205.75lbs 🌟 since the start of the first thread in Dec 16, which is amazing!

We tend to weigh in on Fridays or Saturdays, but feel free to join in at any time, with whatever weight loss method you think works best for you. Some of us have lost more than others, but we're all in this together, so if you're losing, gaining or staying the same, it's nice to have some inspiration to keep going.

We’re always welcoming to newcomers, but as with the previous thread(s), I’ll add one caveat - we’re all here because we are trying to lose a LOT of weight. If you’re looking to lose the last half stone, or even two or three stone, this might not be the thread for you. Good luck with your goals, but you may find more support with in threads with people who have similar goals to you.

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Quandary2018 · 17/01/2019 21:58

It definitely does get easier sneeze. I used to spend my evenings once the kids were in bed mindlessly stuffing my face, my days off work were very similar too- once the kids were at school I’d get myself back in my pjs and eat until it was time to pick them up

I knew it was unhealthy, I knew I wasn’t doing myself any favours but laying on the sofa and eating all day was my way of coping with the absolute misery of my life- abusive, cheating husband who was never around but when he was we were all on egg shells and then the last 2 years since he left have been just as hard to adjust to not being on edge, not having to worry about his moods etc
I decided enough was enough and I had to feel my feelings instead of eating them and it wasn’t pretty. I cried and cried til there were no more tears and then I dry sobbed until I slept. Since then I have on the whole been able to not turn to food for comfort, I’m still tempted to but I can distract myself with some cleaning or a book or on really bad days I just go to bed early
Take it Day by day, it will get easier and it will be worth it

sneezeandclench · 18/01/2019 05:59

Oh Quandary thank you so much for writing all that. Yesterday was difficult too but I managed to get through without going over my calorie allowance. I find any time I am on my own a challenge as I am definitely a sneaky eater and was used to diving into the fridge as soon as the door banged shut behind the last person to leave the house.

I have been told to have periods of bed rest for the forseeable future for my lymphoedema in my legs so I will have to find ways to entertain myself without food being involved. I've bought an echo dot for the bedroom so I can listen to music and torture Alexa Grin. I just need my lovely DD to set it up for me as I am not in the least bit techy.

On to my weigh in....drum roll please.
starting weight - 36 stone
current weight - 33st 12lb
pounds lost - 30 lb

I lost 19 lb this week which just goes to show how much water I have been carrying due to my heart failure. The peeing has finally slowed down now so I should have a more accurate weight loss next week. I know it is a lot to lose but I am so big that it doesn't even notice yet.

I have ordered a fruit and veg box to be delivered every week seeing as I am finally eating loads of fruit and veg Smile. I also have a musclefood delivery due today of chicken breasts and other lean meats. I am so determined this time to try and get healthy, I owe it to my family but mostly I owe it to me.

FATEdestiny · 18/01/2019 07:54

Weigh Day for me

Weight on 1st Jan 2017: 17st 8.5
Weight on 22nd Dec 2017: 9st 9
Weight on 1st Jan 2018: 10st 4
Weight today: 9st 10

Weekly loss: 3lb

So I've nearly lost the hefty amount I gained over Christmas.

I've actually lost 6lb this week, because I put on 3lb after my very big 15 mile run last weekend. But that must have been water weight as my muscles repaired, it went within 3 days.

I like weighing every day so that I see these changes happening in real time.

13lb until I have lost HALF MY BODY WEIGHT!!

theredcarandthebluecar · 18/01/2019 08:37

Can I join in? I'm two weeks into doing a combination of slimming world and logging everything via my Fitbit and am 12.5lbs down. With 70 odd to go! I've been walking 3 miles five times a week and so far finding it relatively easy going. Tomorrow night will be tricky as we're going out for a friends birthday to a chinese restaurant- I've already offered to drive to save empty alcohol calories but need to think about what to eat! Fate - can you tell me how the calorie deficit thing works - I'm generally under 1k cals per day and 2.5-3k out - is this about right?

HoneysuckIejasmine · 18/01/2019 09:33

Hi thered, welcome. Have a look at the tdee calculator (tdeecalculator.net) and it'll let you know an appropriate calorie intake depending on your height and weight. I'm 5'6", tend to burn around 2600kcals a day and mfp gives me 1200 a day to eat. But I've already lost over 6 stone so that has decreased slowly, down from about 1800 to start with.

At Chinese - vegetables, especially in light sauces, tomato based dishes, nothing in batter obviously, and nothing too carb heavy. Usually I'd have a chow mein but that's essentially noodles fried in oil. These days I'd order a hot and sour soup, a vegetable or chicken dish in a light sauce (maybe ginger and garlic?) and split some rice with someone. No prawn crackers. (Or I'd say "sod it", order what I wanted, and eat less for rest of week )

HoneysuckIejasmine · 18/01/2019 09:34

tdeecalculator.net

Boiled rice, obvs, not fried.

howhowhow · 18/01/2019 14:23

Please can I join? I started on 2 Jan at 15 stone 13lb (I nearly died as I thought I was about 14 stone). I'm currently 15 stone 3lbs so am on track for a stones loss in the next week or so.

I'm doing bsd. It's relatively easy other than the fact I keep thinking about food!! When it's going well I seem to be losing nearly a lb a night.

I'm 41 and have steadily put on weight over the last decade. I want to get back to about 10.5 stone. I'm 5ft 8inches.

Ps sneeze your progress is amazing! Be proud of yourself.

WitchDancer · 18/01/2019 16:36

I've weighed in on the electric scales today and it says I've gained 4lb. That will teach me to get excited over a big loss last week - I just hope it was my old scales being inaccurate! Hey ho, it's the start of a fresh week again.

Well done everyone else!

theredcarandthebluecar · 18/01/2019 17:27

Thank you honeysuckle, that's a really interesting site.

I feel so motivated at the moment and slightly terrified of it all going horribly wrong!

HoneysuckIejasmine · 18/01/2019 19:41

Hi howhow. What's bsd? Never heard of that. But you've made a good start!

Witch always keep your weighing conditions the same. Mine are Saturday morning, post feeding baby, post loo, pre shower. 😂

Thered as Fezzes likes to say that each year is made of 365 opportunities. If one goes wrong, no worries, you've got plenty more!

I am currently sat on the bed eating chocolate, with 7,000 steps still to do today. Eugh. I hate winter.

WitchDancer · 18/01/2019 19:49

Thank you for that advice Honey. I'll use the electric ones from now on as I think they're a lot more accurate

Quandary2018 · 19/01/2019 07:48

Weigh day and another 2.4lbs gone forever!

I’ve really stepped up the exercise this week- literally-I’ve done around 6000 steps more each day than last week with the exception of Thursday when I really wasn’t feeling well and decided to listen to my body and have a day off- still did 10000 steps that day just nothing extra.

My left knee isn’t too happy with me at the mo, not when I’m exercising or walking, more when I climb into bed or sit down. Will have to keep an eye on it

I am so close to the 2 stone mark I had hoped it would happen this week, hopefully next week instead!

Hope you’ve all had good weeks

Start weight: 260.8lbs
Current weight: 234lbs
Loss this week: 2.4lbs
Total lost to date: 26.8lbs

HoneysuckIejasmine · 19/01/2019 11:08

Weigh in today. Had a lovely lie in and then a slow morning, very nice.

Lost this week: 3.50lbs Shock
Lost to date: 90.25lbs
To lose: 22.50lbs

I am thrilled!

Quandary2018 · 19/01/2019 12:30

Well done honesysuckle! That’s brilliant!

Jes11 · 19/01/2019 18:29

Hello everyone. Well done on all the losses. I have had a stressful fortnight but stuck to my healthy eating. Weighed in this morning at 20st 13lb. So I have lost 4lb over the last fortnight.

howhowhow · 19/01/2019 18:56

Bsd is the blood sugar diet. It's low carb but only 800 cals a day. I'm finding it relatively easy. I just need the weight gone and I'm a bit of an all or nothing person. I'm in week 3 now and for the past few days have been losing a pound a day. I need to up my water intake I think. Can't wait to get under 14 stone. (Am still over 15 at the mo!).

AnotherOtter · 20/01/2019 06:52

I'm up 1.6lbs on last week so still a pound under target and 106lbs lost in total. I don't know why my weight is up this week as been sticking to 2.2-2.3k calories and did over 30k steps three times and over 20k steps the other days as lots of running and walking. Bollocks to it, will see what happens over the next few weeks, the main news is that I had a fantastic parkrun and did really well following a pacer (runner in a hi vis vest who does the course in a set time). I am astounded that my body could run that fast and keep up with all these people who looked like proper runners. I have hated and despised my body for a lot of my life and turns out that with two years of actual proper care, it can do wonders. I read a Canadian-American dietitian called Michelle Allison's blog and this feeling reminds me of this quote from her: "Your body is not an object, not a sculpture based on some universal and enduring Platonic ideal of beauty - it is a living creature, an animal in your care that needs care and compassion, that suffers and dies if neglected." I only managed to stick to a long term diet once I had called a truce with my body and stopped actively hating it. Took a lot of work. I see a lot of posters hating on their bodies in this subforum and they seem, like me, to get nowhere. Life really is too short for that.

How are you, moonlight? Wishing you all the best for the funeral tomorrow Thanks Hope it all goes smoothly and you can take a little comfort from saying goodbye, as heartbreakingly sad as it will be. Take care and keep in close contact with your midwife. Remember you can post whatever you like here maybe not Brexit and we will support you any way we can.

Well done on getting past the halfway mark, slithy. Really starting to get real now!

Welcome Candle and hiphop.

How was your spa day, Cult? Fuck any prick that tries to give you attitude for being in a swimsuit in an imperfect body. None of their goddamn business and just plain rude!

Brilliant conversation between sneeze and Quandary about dealing with difficult situations and emotions without using food. An essential skill to learn. We've talked about coping strategies before, can't remember which thread, so might be worth a read back if you have time.

Absolutely phenomenal weight loss, sneeze, you are doing so well!

Well done on your loss, FATE, and very impressed with your long runs too.

Welcome theredcar. It's tempting to eat as little as possible to lose the weight as fast as possible but it can be counterproductive for two reasons. Firstly, it's hard to get all your nutrients in less than 1400 calories without a hell of a lot of effort (as told to me by an NHS dietitian). For example, a woman of child bearing age needs 15mg iron and 30g of fibre (plus lots of other things). To meet both of those targets you need to eat quite a variety of different food. Secondly, many people find too severe a calorie restriction triggers binging which is obviously counterproductive. Biggest cause of bulimia and binge eating disorder is crash dieting. Dieting is not always a risk free, benign activity.

Welcome how.

Well done honey, Quandary and Jes on your losses. Doing great!

Good thing Mumsnet doesn't charge by the word Grin Take care all and KOKO Thanks

fezzesarecool · 20/01/2019 09:57

Start 278

Last week 183
Week 39 Exercise Week 35 Calorie counting
This week 182

Week loss -4
Total loss -95

Goal 136lb
Left to lose 47lb
Start to lose 142lb

Woohoo, one pound! Very happy with that, literally on 13stone and hoping to be officially into the next bracket soon!

Well done everyone, koko

fezzesarecool · 20/01/2019 09:58

Oops, got my tracking wrong (very excited with this week’s result 😂) try again!

Start 278

Last week 183
Week 39 Exercise Week 35 Calorie counting
This week 182

Week loss -1
Total loss -95

Goal 136lb
Left to lose 47lb
Start to lose 142lb

Woohoo, one pound! Very happy with that, literally on 13stone and hoping to be officially into the next bracket soon!

Well done everyone, koko

BrokenWing · 20/01/2019 10:40

Can I join as a new starter? So many of you on this thread have such huge losses and I am in awe of your success. I want some of that!

I have 96lbs to lose to be at the very top end of a healthy BMI. I have no idea what my end target weight will be once I get there as that in itself is a mammoth task!! Another target is to get off the high blood pressure meds I was started on a couple of months ago.

I started on 1st January and have lost 7lb so far (weighing on a Tuesday at the moment). Staying simple with MFP too help me with portion control and cutting a way out of control snacking habit. I need to lose a couple of stone before even thinking about some exercise.

I haven't joined any clubs like WW or SW yet but not totally against the idea later. Keeping track of lbs lost with my fabulous excel chart which plots 1 year to get to the start of a healthy BMI (I have rejigged and improved so many times to take my mind off snacking!!!) but only with a consistent 2lb a week loss which I'm not even sure is realistic!

Anyone looking to lose 100lbs plus... Part 6!
moonlight1705 · 20/01/2019 11:32

Hello all - just checking in with you to see how it is going. Well done on so many fab losses and getting back to it after Christmas.

Broken loving your excel chart - may have to do one similar soon.

Another stupidly I don't think I realised how difficult it is to get all your nutrients in less calories - that is an interesting thought.

Honey wow, you are really rocking it at the moment and seem to be taking control.

fezze brill result, you are doing so well and it will feel so good when you can write 12st something Smile

I'm ok at the moment, with my family this weekend so haven't even bothered to weigh myself. I'm not looking forward to the funeral but in a way it signals and end to this rubbish few weeks and hopefully get me excited about the next.

I went to have my 38 week scan and baby is off the charts in terms of growth so they are trying to suggest induction. I am a little wary as there seems to be no good reason why I should be induced this early so am waiting until at least the 40 week mark before I panic. I wonder how much weight I will lose after giving birth Grin

hereforthelonghaul · 20/01/2019 13:40

Another newcomer Blush

Hi everyone. I have loved lurking on this thread and decided to come out of the shadows.. It's not like I can hide well anyway 😁

I weigh around 260 pounds and need to lose about half my body weight. I saw a photo of me the other day and was horrified. I definitely have reverse body dysmorphia.

At the moment I'm just getting back to a sensible food plan which is working well. I capture it all on mfp. I can lose weight comfortably on 1700 cals.

Its really refreshing to read the progress of people with lots of weight loss. Normally people leave by this stage so thank you!

HoneysuckIejasmine · 20/01/2019 16:53

Hello broken! Excellent excel work, love the colour gradient trend line. 🤓 Great weight loss start too! You may find 2lbs a week a tall order after a while, so don't get disheartened if it takes longer than a year. In January 2020, your body is going to be significantly smaller than it is now!

Hi here, well done for coming out of the shadows! I also think a strength of this thread is that the big losers stick around, and that everyone is very ordinary. Ordinary people showing it can be done without a legion of support staff and a 5hr a day gym habit.

I went out today for a nice walk. Did 9km in the end. Would have been further but the kids protested. Oh well, next time!

HoneysuckIejasmine · 20/01/2019 16:57

Moonlight I hope it goes well tomorrow, will be thinking of you.

AnotherOtter well done on the Parkrun victory.

Fezzes FX for new stone bracket next week!

howhowhow · 20/01/2019 22:50

I've gone all flabby on my tummy. Might this be a Woosh due? Hope so.