I hate it too. I've already told my mum not to mention it at Christmas Dinner, and my husband has reluctantly agreed to ask his mum too. He thinks I'm being weird about it, that it's nice for people to compliment me. And it is, if it's throwaway. But both mums go on and on and ON, and all I hear is, 'You really were extraordinarily fat before - like, monstrously! - but now you're more normal-sized and socially acceptable. Well done you, for being less of a fatty! You look soooooooo much better - god you looked really vile before, but you look LOVELY now there's less of you. Doesn't she look lovely....?'
Ugh.
Though having said that, I saw a client the other day I haven't seen in a while. She mouthed something to me in a busy office and I couldn't understand her, so asked her to repeat it. She mouthed again, still couldn't understand, so I apologised and said sorry, go again. 'HAVE YOU LOST WEIGHT OR IS IT CANCER?' Which really made me laugh. She followed it up with, you never know whether to compliment people or stay quiet/offer sympathy when they lose weight. Very true, Denise. Well done for being mindful.
I am plateauing again/entering another Bear Era. So fucking bored of being 16 stone something - yes, I am still a fatty. I get down to 16 stone 1 then go back up to 16 stone 5, over the course of a week, for the past 2 weeks. Nothing changes in what I'm eating, I'm maintaining a deficit, I know it must be water - meh.
But I am now back in size 16 clothes pretty consistently, and in fairness that was my mental first mini-target back in June - to be a size 16 by Christmas. So it's a win.
And I do also FEEL slimmer. My gym leggings are really baggy. My knickers are holding on with thoughts and prayers - though I'm refusing to buy more until I'm a 14, so I'm wearing size 22 pants atm. Fun times. Could probs do with new bras but again, holding off. I'm feeling pretty good about it all, in the round.
Not changing anything at Christmas. It's inevitable I'll eat more, but I don't plan to exceed my maintenance calories within that, and the idea of doing that doesn't stress me. If anything, I'm looking forward to a christmas without food noise.