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Bridesmaids and nipple covers

212 replies

Giraffe317 · 26/03/2024 19:45

I have 3 bridesmaids, all with the same ‘multiway’ dress. They look lovely but the fabric is so thin and clingy that without using the bandeau that comes with the dresses we have 6 nipples on show through the fabric. They understandably would rather not wear the bandeau if possible as it makes them look a bit frumpy/matronly and they’re all early 20’s with lovely figures. We’ve tried some of the tiny nipple covers but the only problem is now that you can’t see the nipples you can see the nipple covers!
Is boob tape an option to just tape the nipples down?! Or do we need some other type of nipple covers? Hit me up with your recommendations or ideas ladies please?

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SoupDragon · 31/03/2024 10:07

Topee · 31/03/2024 09:49

The dress will loosen over the course of the day, you really don’t feel very safe in them. I took mine off after the meal so I could enjoy the reception.

I hope you put another dress on 🤣

RampantIvy · 31/03/2024 10:09

We don't know the size and build of the bridesmaids, and they are only in their 20s, so may not have the humongous floppy boobs that many mumsnetters seem to have. There is a lot of projection going on in this thread.

Someone with a small back size and a D cup, for example, does not need support.

Scarletttulips · 31/03/2024 10:11

Have a look at Shein for stick on bras - dead cheap and work.

TiredMummma · 31/03/2024 10:16

Get them to wear a bralettte in similar colours - bigger or smaller, lacey that looks like part of the dress

Axx · 31/03/2024 10:17

Gosh they will be very low cut without any undies won't they? I would hate that at any wedding let alone my own.

Joon1209 · 31/03/2024 10:21

Could you get a local dressmaker to use the material from the three bandeau to add an extra layer of fabric to the inside of the bust pieces?

WitchWithoutChips · 31/03/2024 10:54

wecantbefriends · 27/03/2024 10:08

Not necessarily, I'm a 30D and never wear a bra, too restricting I hate them!

But I know I'll be a minority.

I quite like having my nips on show, it's quite empowering tbh. Everyone's so scared of showing a nip these days.

I would cover for a wedding though, absolutely.

OP, try a backless bra or stick on chicken fillets. They worked a treat for my bridesmaids (similar type fabric dress) I got my bridesmaids ones from Shein and they worked well and stuck for the whole day and night.

A 30D is a sister size for a 34B or a 36A so probably exactly the kind of size that pp had in mind.

kkloo · 31/03/2024 11:14

Ask the company.
They seem to be a popular product with good reviews so they've probably got lots of feedback.

Scarletttulips · 31/03/2024 11:16

Don't buy shein rubbish

Thats right, by the £15 ones form the local shops who shipped them in from the same company for one days wear.

BlondeAussie · 31/03/2024 11:16

Illpickthatup · 27/03/2024 09:30

They also claim to not be seen through compared to cheaper brands.

This is an EIGHTY FIVE DOLLAR dress. Very inexpensive for a Bridesmaid dress.
How cheap do you need to consider something as a "Cheaper brand"?

Todaywasbetter · 31/03/2024 11:16

Remember, it’s you that needs to stand out.

berksandbeyond · 31/03/2024 11:25

Honestly, I’d choose a dress with a less cheap fabric!

PlumpAndDeliciousFatcat · 31/03/2024 11:37

I can see you have had lots of helpful suggestions, OP, but tbh unless the wedding is literally next week I would seriously reconsider the choice of dress. I’m a decent seamstress and once spent an hour of a wedding trying to reconstruct a multi-way dress which had ripped catastrophically. The fabric is very very cheap and difficult to work with.

If changing the dresses isn’t an option then be warned that they go see-through under a camera flash, so make sure any nipple-covering solution is closely matched to the bridesmaid’s individual skin tone.

Sahara123 · 31/03/2024 11:52

Yes, I was thinking the same . I’m also a decent seamstress and would find trying to sew an extra layer of something into that thin, stretchy type of material almost impossible to do without it pulling, and stitches showing. I think it would be very difficult to do, and not necessarily cheap to get a seamstress to do it. My daughter had a bridesmaid’s dress altered and it cost more than those dresses !
I suppose I’d try the pear tape stuff recommended above but to be honest I’d try different dresses if you can.

Helenloveslee4eva · 31/03/2024 12:14

Stick on bra ?

Jk8 · 31/03/2024 12:15

I'm assuming the bridesmaids are quite short/stocky & the bandeau which on somebody taller would be unnoticable ends up looking like a sort of 'extra coverage' bit on Petite figures. Hence the matronly comment not that the girls themselves look older

Emmz1510 · 31/03/2024 12:18

Are you expecting it to be cold OP?
I’m kidding obviously. Could a good seamstress put in a couple extra layers of material? Strapless or multiway bra?
Not sure why you all chose such flimsy dresses with thin material and a bandeau that makes the girls look frumpy…..🤔

Allthatwegotisthispalebluedot · 31/03/2024 12:21

Aquamarine1029 · 26/03/2024 23:04

Agreed. The dresses look awful. Really unflattering.

Those women in the photo are gorgeous but all I can see is unsupported boobs. It isn’t a great look. I would be reconsidering the dresses OP, not sure a bit of tape is going to save the day.

Hadjab · 31/03/2024 12:21

These are brilliant. Because they are a sort of thin, stiffened fabric rather than silicone, you don’t get show through, and they actually hold breasts up well, depending on size, obvs:

https://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/product/B07R5RLV84/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_image?ie=UTF8&psc=1

Einszwei · 31/03/2024 12:22

I wore the same dress in a dark teal - I don't remember mine or any or the bridesmaids nipples showing. I wouldn't have thought they would in this colour too unless it's a outdoor winter ceremony?