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Bridesmaids and nipple covers

212 replies

Giraffe317 · 26/03/2024 19:45

I have 3 bridesmaids, all with the same ‘multiway’ dress. They look lovely but the fabric is so thin and clingy that without using the bandeau that comes with the dresses we have 6 nipples on show through the fabric. They understandably would rather not wear the bandeau if possible as it makes them look a bit frumpy/matronly and they’re all early 20’s with lovely figures. We’ve tried some of the tiny nipple covers but the only problem is now that you can’t see the nipples you can see the nipple covers!
Is boob tape an option to just tape the nipples down?! Or do we need some other type of nipple covers? Hit me up with your recommendations or ideas ladies please?

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fozwomble · 26/03/2024 19:47

Could you try adding a layer of opaque fabric in the bust section?

marlfield · 26/03/2024 19:48

Can they not just wear strapless bras?

MumMumMumMumMumMumMum · 26/03/2024 19:50

I don't understand what the bandeau is and why it can't be worn?

Ponderingwindow · 26/03/2024 19:50

How much nipple are we talking about. Can you actually see the nipple through the fabric or are you just bothered by the general shape of the nipple? If it’s just the shape, ignore it. We used to not care. I don’t know why women started worrying about this.

Cas112 · 26/03/2024 19:51

I would personally try boob tape, go on a website called perky pears, they do loads of different boob tape, nipple covers etc xx

DigitalDust · 26/03/2024 19:54

MumMumMumMumMumMumMum · 26/03/2024 19:50

I don't understand what the bandeau is and why it can't be worn?

Same. Presumably this is why the dress comes with a bandeau?

Giraffe317 · 26/03/2024 19:56

DigitalDust · 26/03/2024 19:54

Same. Presumably this is why the dress comes with a bandeau?

It does but it’s totally optional. We all (mums included) feel that the bandeaus make the girls look a lot older than they are and slightly matronly. They don’t feel as good wearing the bandeau and I want them to feel comfortable, we’ll go with it if we have to but it’s a last resort really

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Giraffe317 · 26/03/2024 19:57

Ponderingwindow · 26/03/2024 19:50

How much nipple are we talking about. Can you actually see the nipple through the fabric or are you just bothered by the general shape of the nipple? If it’s just the shape, ignore it. We used to not care. I don’t know why women started worrying about this.

We’re not ‘bothered’ as such, it’s just we don’t want nipples to be the obvious draw of the eye in the photos

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Giraffe317 · 26/03/2024 19:58

Cas112 · 26/03/2024 19:51

I would personally try boob tape, go on a website called perky pears, they do loads of different boob tape, nipple covers etc xx

Fabulous I’ll have a look thank you!

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sleepyscientist · 26/03/2024 19:58

Can you link the dress OP? What about buying another dress and using the fabric to add some structure to the one you have

NCForQuestions · 26/03/2024 20:00

What's the problem with a multi way bra?

OnTheRoll · 26/03/2024 20:02

Chicken fillets kind of stick on bra?

DrJoanAllenby · 26/03/2024 20:03

A cardigan.

I'm old fashioned though! 😂

SparrowFeet · 26/03/2024 20:03

Have you looked at Neats covers? I'd be surprised if they showed through?

DigitalDust · 26/03/2024 20:05

DrJoanAllenby · 26/03/2024 20:03

A cardigan.

I'm old fashioned though! 😂

I was thinking about suggesting a thermal vest!

isthismylifenow · 26/03/2024 20:05

The stick on bra?

Agree, I don't think it's quite right having the outline of 6 nipples in a wedding photo shoot.

35965a · 26/03/2024 20:06

Get better dresses?

EmilyPlay · 26/03/2024 20:07

Are they not wearing bras?

DeathStarCanteenGal · 26/03/2024 20:08

if it's just the photos you're concerned about ask your photographer to edit any sign of nipples out in post production?

BreakfastAtMimis · 26/03/2024 20:13

Oh my god, get them different dresses, no-one wants their nips on show all day!

Giraffe317 · 26/03/2024 20:15

sleepyscientist · 26/03/2024 19:58

Can you link the dress OP? What about buying another dress and using the fabric to add some structure to the one you have

This is a link to the dress https://www.infinitydress.com/en-gb/products/dark-green-multiway-infinity-dress
as you can see from the photos the bandeau isn’t mandatory and we’re looking at having a cross-back which would mean any sort of bra with a ‘back’ isn’t possible

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honeyandfizz · 26/03/2024 20:16

https://perkypear.com/collections/all

I second Perky Pear. I got married a few years ago and my wedding dress cut right down to my naval. These stayed in place all day, not sure they would hold a large boobs but at 34D they held me well. Pricey but worth the money.

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FriendlyNeighbourhoodAccountant · 26/03/2024 20:19

Unless anyone is particularly busty you could try a lace up stick on bra?

sleepyscientist · 26/03/2024 20:19

I would speak to seamstress about using the bandeau to add a few layers to what will in effect be the cups or buy another dress for that purpose.

DigitalDust · 26/03/2024 20:20

I actually prefer the look with the bandeau, but can see if you’re having more of an open back it wouldn’t work.

You can get backless bras, though. Would that be an option? Or even something like this

https://www.johnlewis.com/john-lewis-low-back-bra-strap-almond/p2257584