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Tabbytiger122 · 17/09/2026 12:36

I am currently reading Russsll Myers Catherine & William. Enjoying it but one thing that stands out is how the Middletons have never put a foot wrong.
Carole was not from an aristocratic background nor was Michael but they raised their kids not to put a step wrong. Kate also had embarrassing family members (Uncle Gary) but she still invited him to the wedding which was the right thing to do & it nipped the media scandal in the bud & took the wind out of any sails.. Meghan invited none of her extended family or her dad & it caused massive media speculation.
Kate was born for royal life & is a natural. Very proud of our future queen. Her parents did an amazing job.

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aCatCalledFawkes · 18/09/2026 10:14

Tabbytiger122 · 18/09/2026 10:02

Thomas "paid thousands for my daughters education " yet has never met his grandchildren or son in law..
Poor A&L no relationship with their first cousins, their uncle, aunt in law, none of Meghan's family barr Doria... it is all utterly dysfunctional.

So what if he paid thousands, she was the child, he was her parent and the grown up. My kids fathers have both paid for them, it doesn’t make them great men or entitle them to anything.

FFS paying and good parenting isn’t the same thing. You have some very dysfunctional views.

StormGazing · 18/09/2026 10:14

I’m just pleased William was allowed to find a mate for himself rather than Charles who had, in essence, an arranged marriage which just didn’t work! I think he allowed William to find his own way with love and that’s the best way. Thenmiddletons are just a pretty decent hardworking middle class family who did well for themselves. Good for them!

Tabbytiger122 · 18/09/2026 10:14

VanessaSanessa · 18/09/2026 10:05

Well this has turned into a Meghan bashing thread under the guise of talking about Catherine.

I think W&C are the height of lazy and privileged.

I think H&M are batshit.

However if I was looking for a role model for my daughter, it would definitely not be Catherine who comes from a life of privilege and being cosseted. At least Meghan worked, had an independent life, lived away from home, made her own money.

I honestly see nothing in C to warrant the fawning she gets, it's bizarre. Same with her sister. At least her brother tried to work, so what if he failed and good on him for doing that reading at C's wedding, it can't have been easy.

Look at the way she has treated her family especially her father... she is no role model for my children!
Look at the way Ham have treated their own children, moving them accross to start at a new school & pulling them out after two days!

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simpsonthecat · 18/09/2026 10:16

Tabbytiger122 · 18/09/2026 10:11

It started out that way when I said that Kate's parents have been incredible throughout Kate's time in the royal family & a great support to her & William. Russell Myers book Catherine & William praises the Middletons discretion & support.

Please read your posts. The first few were sycophantic adoration of Kate, then you couldn't resist dragging "Mrs Ham" (your words) into the conversation saying she was bullying and Kate knew

Please do not try and deny this is a Meghan bashing thread because it is obvious to anyone with half a brain cell

Comtesse · 18/09/2026 10:18

marlboro · 17/09/2026 21:36

This thread can’t be for real?

It is truly nauseating.

Autumnwalks1313 · 18/09/2026 10:20

I don’t get the mindless adoration of the Royal family and in particular Kate/Catherine.

I’m sure that she is a perfectly nice person, and she is a good fit for the role.

But the role is mainly to turn up at places liking polished, smiling and waving, never having any opinions and generally just being very bland. She looks like she probably has an eating disorder, although it could be crohns. There are rumours that William had an affair. They are mainly living off taxpayers money for doing very little in the grand scheme of things.

I just don’t see why they are people to be admired and adored. There are many more talented people, people doing great work and keeping the country going. Yet people idolise figureheads.

The hatred towards M&H is utterly deranged. Meghan is probably a diva and Harry a very damaged man from his dysfunctional upbringing. They have made fools of themselves but they don’t deserve the hatred and I do believe that they were probably given bad press down to W&K feeling threatened by them initially as they were once very popular next to bland boring K&W.

Ultimately Kate has done nothing wrong but also nothing worthy f being so adored.

Hellohelga · 18/09/2026 10:22

twocornichons · 17/09/2026 17:33

I don’t think they’ve been a huge asset to the crown at all ! Illness aside ( and this is before she became unwell) Kate could have done an awful lot more to help Meghan who was being bullied by the press - all whilst spearheading an anti bullying campaign ! Oh the irony .. luckily I don’t want to read about them but an asset they clearly are not

They are very popular with the British public. That makes them an asset.

OneLilacHedgehog · 18/09/2026 10:23

simpsonthecat · 18/09/2026 10:16

Please read your posts. The first few were sycophantic adoration of Kate, then you couldn't resist dragging "Mrs Ham" (your words) into the conversation saying she was bullying and Kate knew

Please do not try and deny this is a Meghan bashing thread because it is obvious to anyone with half a brain cell

Yep. It was always destined to be. Even supporters don't have much to say about Catherine. Even media articles about Catherine always mention Meghan to try and generate reader interest.

Hellohelga · 18/09/2026 10:25

BobMortimersSmile · 18/09/2026 06:25

Kate is much thinner and unwell looking than Princess Diana.

She’s had cancer, what do you expect?

Autumnwalks1313 · 18/09/2026 10:25

Tabbytiger122 · 18/09/2026 10:14

Look at the way she has treated her family especially her father... she is no role model for my children!
Look at the way Ham have treated their own children, moving them accross to start at a new school & pulling them out after two days!

This is completely bizarre.

Catherine has never had a proper job in her life. She went straight from university to belt in the Royal family. We know very little about her really.

As for Meghan, she fell out with her father after he went to the press, and he and her step siblings did nothing but go to the press. Which in itself is horrible.

Families fall out, we the public will never really know the full truth about any of it.

The fact that people act as though they actually know these people personally is mental.

ElonAteMyHamster · 18/09/2026 10:27

The breathless adoration from the OP is hilarious 😂.

GoodGirlFaith · 18/09/2026 10:28

They both worked in aviation, these people are strong and hard working and taught to 'keep up appearances'.

But I am sure that there was also a LOT to learn about being a royal for Catherine.

simpsonthecat · 18/09/2026 10:32

Autumnwalks1313 · 18/09/2026 10:20

I don’t get the mindless adoration of the Royal family and in particular Kate/Catherine.

I’m sure that she is a perfectly nice person, and she is a good fit for the role.

But the role is mainly to turn up at places liking polished, smiling and waving, never having any opinions and generally just being very bland. She looks like she probably has an eating disorder, although it could be crohns. There are rumours that William had an affair. They are mainly living off taxpayers money for doing very little in the grand scheme of things.

I just don’t see why they are people to be admired and adored. There are many more talented people, people doing great work and keeping the country going. Yet people idolise figureheads.

The hatred towards M&H is utterly deranged. Meghan is probably a diva and Harry a very damaged man from his dysfunctional upbringing. They have made fools of themselves but they don’t deserve the hatred and I do believe that they were probably given bad press down to W&K feeling threatened by them initially as they were once very popular next to bland boring K&W.

Ultimately Kate has done nothing wrong but also nothing worthy f being so adored.

Oh my! You put it so well. Totally agree. I just don't get the mindless adoration of the Wales's.
The children are adorable, but I don't think they should be in the public eye so much.
W&K are lazy but at least they are trying at the moment. I wonder why...
They are just extremely rich aristocrats to me.
Kate is perfectly acceptable, she is the ideal 'have no opinion' royal trophy wife. She might be thoroughly nice, who knows, there is a way for her to be portrayed by the media, and they fall into line with that.

Of COURSE Meghan was never going to fit in! She is not what they want within the royal family for a myriad of reasons. I think they have been treated abominably at certain times and have become the proverbial punch bag. Very many people make a hell of a lot of money disparaging them. Of course they don't help themselves at times, but reporting on them is so skewed. Meghan was blamed for an nasty mum selling screenshots of a mums group school WhatsApp to the Sun!

Yes the breathless adoration of Kate is sooooo funny!

Autumnwalks1313 · 18/09/2026 10:33

OneLilacHedgehog · 18/09/2026 09:59

George is full boarding. Charlotte at minimum sometimes boards. William has referred to her boarding. Louis is 8 and has a nanny.

They never work during school holidays except for fun things like Wimbledon.

So during school times they can apparently do very little because Charlotte may only be in school and not boarding, and Louis at 8 needs a nanny and both parents to care for him when he is not in school.

I agree.

Their teen and pre teen are in boarding school. The youngest has a nanny.

They have servants, they don’t do much work.

Can anyone tell us what they actually do that’s so valuable and worthwhile? Most of us out here are working in full time jobs as well as bringing up our families, doing all our own housework and ferrying our own children around without drivers and convoys. All while doing essential jobs to actually keep the country running and paying tax to keep the Royal family on their positions.

bingobangs · 18/09/2026 10:35

Sycophantic nonsense!

bingobangs · 18/09/2026 10:36

@Autumnwalks1313 but, but they have amazing intuition 🙄

CurlewKate · 18/09/2026 10:36

Funny how Mumsnet is always -and often rightly-in favour of people detaching themselves from toxic members of their family. Apart from the DofS. Who is lambasted for it.

CurlewKate · 18/09/2026 10:38

Hellohelga · 18/09/2026 10:22

They are very popular with the British public. That makes them an asset.

Really? In what way?

Tabbytiger122 · 18/09/2026 10:39

Autumnwalks1313 · 18/09/2026 10:25

This is completely bizarre.

Catherine has never had a proper job in her life. She went straight from university to belt in the Royal family. We know very little about her really.

As for Meghan, she fell out with her father after he went to the press, and he and her step siblings did nothing but go to the press. Which in itself is horrible.

Families fall out, we the public will never really know the full truth about any of it.

The fact that people act as though they actually know these people personally is mental.

But what about Doria's family?!! They also spoke out about their confusion about not being invited to the wedding.. The niece that she was apparently very close to got no invite.. yet she invites the Clooneys who she never met!
You can't defend the indefensible, actions speak louder than words.
Poor A&L now have no relationship with their extended family either thanks the Hams actions.. and so the cycle continues. It's very sad.

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VanessaSanessa · 18/09/2026 10:40

Tabbytiger122 · 18/09/2026 10:14

Look at the way she has treated her family especially her father... she is no role model for my children!
Look at the way Ham have treated their own children, moving them accross to start at a new school & pulling them out after two days!

All valid points but why not set up a thread about H&M then.

Tabbytiger122 · 18/09/2026 10:42

bingobangs · 18/09/2026 10:36

@Autumnwalks1313 but, but they have amazing intuition 🙄

So all the Markles are toxic & all Doria's side are also toxic? It doesn't take a mathematician to work out the common denominator.

There was a huge deal made at the time as to how poor Doria was the only family member of Megs to be invited & she looked so lonely sat alone in the church.

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U53rName · 18/09/2026 10:42

aCatCalledFawkes · 18/09/2026 10:14

So what if he paid thousands, she was the child, he was her parent and the grown up. My kids fathers have both paid for them, it doesn’t make them great men or entitle them to anything.

FFS paying and good parenting isn’t the same thing. You have some very dysfunctional views.

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”I paid for my child, therefore I have every right to sell staged photos to the paparazzi and to sell my child’s personal letters to the tabloids.”

Tabbytiger122 · 18/09/2026 10:42

CurlewKate · 18/09/2026 10:36

Funny how Mumsnet is always -and often rightly-in favour of people detaching themselves from toxic members of their family. Apart from the DofS. Who is lambasted for it.

So all the Markles are toxic & all Doria's side are also toxic? It doesn't take a mathematician to work out the common denominator.

There was a huge deal made at the time as to how poor Doria was the only family member of Megs to be invited & she looked so lonely sat alone in the church.

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Autumnwalks1313 · 18/09/2026 10:43

And I’m not a H&M fan. I think their behaviour at times has been ill judged and done themselves no favours. They were very popular at first and have made themselves looked spoiled if not deranged.

However there probably is some truth in some of their complaints and ultimately the hate and constant comparing Meghan with Kate is even more deranged and childish from grown adults.

Usually if I dislike a celebrity/famous person that must I try to just avoid them.

I actually read people on here saying how H&M are not welcome in this country. As though it effects them personally.

Don’t worry Sue, they won’t be moving in next door to you.

ElonAteMyHamster · 18/09/2026 10:45

Tabbytiger122 · 18/09/2026 10:42

So all the Markles are toxic & all Doria's side are also toxic? It doesn't take a mathematician to work out the common denominator.

There was a huge deal made at the time as to how poor Doria was the only family member of Megs to be invited & she looked so lonely sat alone in the church.

So this isn’t breathless adoration of Kate but just another opportunity to have a go at Meghan? Would it be worth taking up a hobby? 😍

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