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Tabbytiger122 · 17/09/2026 12:36

I am currently reading Russsll Myers Catherine & William. Enjoying it but one thing that stands out is how the Middletons have never put a foot wrong.
Carole was not from an aristocratic background nor was Michael but they raised their kids not to put a step wrong. Kate also had embarrassing family members (Uncle Gary) but she still invited him to the wedding which was the right thing to do & it nipped the media scandal in the bud & took the wind out of any sails.. Meghan invited none of her extended family or her dad & it caused massive media speculation.
Kate was born for royal life & is a natural. Very proud of our future queen. Her parents did an amazing job.

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Tabbytiger122 · 18/09/2026 08:17

aCatCalledFawkes · 18/09/2026 08:12

I with you on some of your posts but I think this is clutching at straws. Her sister is unhinged, she wrote a book about M being a pushy princess, did countless interviews about her, tweets about her etc.... And then wonders why she's cut out of her life. Samatha Markle I think is pure evil, I'm not surprised she wasn't invited.

It was thd first article I linked, there's loads in the same vein.. my point was where was Doria's side of the family? Where were any of the Markles? Where were her old school or college friends? Neighbours? It's all very odd! Then to invite the Clooneys who said they didn't know them 🤔

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aCatCalledFawkes · 18/09/2026 08:23

Tabbytiger122 · 18/09/2026 08:17

It was thd first article I linked, there's loads in the same vein.. my point was where was Doria's side of the family? Where were any of the Markles? Where were her old school or college friends? Neighbours? It's all very odd! Then to invite the Clooneys who said they didn't know them 🤔

To be fair her Dad was meant to be walking her down the aisle but pulled out because he had had a heart attack just after the staged photos incidents that her sister set up for him. And to top it off he published the let she wrote him and carried on giving interviews about her.

I'm not a huge Meghan fan but I think her Dad is a waste of space as is Samantha.

simpsonthecat · 18/09/2026 08:35

I agree. Her family, excluding Doria, are awful. Her half brother donned a wig, blacked up his face and did a youtube vid mocking her.
Samantha, her sister, changed her name to Markle as soon as Meghan met Harry... all to cash in.
Yet the OP is asking 'where were her family?' at the wedding? Seriously???

This thread needs renaming. It's nothing to do with Kate and the Middletons unless there is fawning over Kate. It's yet another thread to insult and demean Meghan

There are plenty of other threads to insult Meghan if that's your thing. The PR ones are up to number 40. That's 40,000 posts 🤣😂

OneLilacHedgehog · 18/09/2026 08:40

Yes Catherine (why are you calling her Kate?) has made herself into a bland public clothes horse. I think that is what the royal family want. A woman with no opinions or obvious personality. I am sure that's not the real Catherine. But it's sad that she is the ideal woman.

BunnyBunbunbun · 18/09/2026 09:38

Nothing bland about this!
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/nFrDfmOOEFc

I don't need to hear the personal opinions of people who are in apolitical positions of state. All we ever hear today are people ranting about their opinions. In particular when your part of your role is to highlight different communities around the country - the focus should be on them, not your opinion on Palestine or Trump.

Before you continue to YouTube

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/nFrDfmOOEFc

PrincessofWills · 18/09/2026 09:46

PapayaMarmalade · 17/09/2026 20:09

They call her lazy because she and William are highly lazy compared to their elderly relatives.
In 2025 (after her cancer) Kate did 68 engagements. William did 202. Charles did 535 and Anne did 478.

They also do the bare minimum otherwise. Charles learned French and Welsh. William and Kate have not. They talk about wanting to do charity work ‘behind the scenes’ but as non experts their sole value is in bringing visibility and money to a cause.

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They are quite rightly concentrating on bringing up their family.

PrincessofWills · 18/09/2026 09:48

ItsAlwaysTwins · 17/09/2026 21:05

I think Kate is perfect for her role. She’s thin and photogenic and smiley. She is completely and utterly bland and inoffensive and has fulfilled her brood mare role nicely.

She’s a terrible public and off-the-cuff speaker, but that is hardly ever required so it doesn’t really matter. Turn up, smile and repeat. 10/10.

She's easy to talk to and engaging, which is probably why she has been such a success.

LipglossAndLies · 18/09/2026 09:50

This is turning into some weird fan fiction ...you cannot possibly know what any of them think. You speak as though you have intimate details and have been privy to conversations and decisions as though you are close to them.

You have no idea how often and who Meghan talks to. Why her family members other than Doria did not attend the wedding, there could be a multitude of perfectly sound reasons, visas, the date, health, individual didn't want to be on camera etc. Yet you comment as though you know.

Maybe go join a fan fic forum, you seem to be good at spinning tales.

Jimsaidpeoplearestrange · 18/09/2026 09:52

simpsonthecat · 18/09/2026 08:35

I agree. Her family, excluding Doria, are awful. Her half brother donned a wig, blacked up his face and did a youtube vid mocking her.
Samantha, her sister, changed her name to Markle as soon as Meghan met Harry... all to cash in.
Yet the OP is asking 'where were her family?' at the wedding? Seriously???

This thread needs renaming. It's nothing to do with Kate and the Middletons unless there is fawning over Kate. It's yet another thread to insult and demean Meghan

There are plenty of other threads to insult Meghan if that's your thing. The PR ones are up to number 40. That's 40,000 posts 🤣😂

this is so true.people do like re writing history .

OneLilacHedgehog · 18/09/2026 09:55

PrincessofWills · 18/09/2026 09:48

She's easy to talk to and engaging, which is probably why she has been such a success.

She seems fine. Not particularly brilliant at engaging with people like Diana was, but fine.

Tabbytiger122 · 18/09/2026 09:57

simpsonthecat · 18/09/2026 08:35

I agree. Her family, excluding Doria, are awful. Her half brother donned a wig, blacked up his face and did a youtube vid mocking her.
Samantha, her sister, changed her name to Markle as soon as Meghan met Harry... all to cash in.
Yet the OP is asking 'where were her family?' at the wedding? Seriously???

This thread needs renaming. It's nothing to do with Kate and the Middletons unless there is fawning over Kate. It's yet another thread to insult and demean Meghan

There are plenty of other threads to insult Meghan if that's your thing. The PR ones are up to number 40. That's 40,000 posts 🤣😂

Where was Doria's side? Where were her childhood & college friends? Why invite the Clooneys who she had never met?

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simpsonthecat · 18/09/2026 09:59

Jimsaidpeoplearestrange · 18/09/2026 09:52

this is so true.people do like re writing history .

Yep, there's quite a fanbase for Thomas "Give Daddy the money" Markle on here. It's only because he has spoken out against the couple. No other reason. If it was a person they liked, their father, they would wipe the floor with him

OneLilacHedgehog · 18/09/2026 09:59

PrincessofWills · 18/09/2026 09:46

They are quite rightly concentrating on bringing up their family.

George is full boarding. Charlotte at minimum sometimes boards. William has referred to her boarding. Louis is 8 and has a nanny.

They never work during school holidays except for fun things like Wimbledon.

So during school times they can apparently do very little because Charlotte may only be in school and not boarding, and Louis at 8 needs a nanny and both parents to care for him when he is not in school.

Tabbytiger122 · 18/09/2026 09:59

LipglossAndLies · 18/09/2026 09:50

This is turning into some weird fan fiction ...you cannot possibly know what any of them think. You speak as though you have intimate details and have been privy to conversations and decisions as though you are close to them.

You have no idea how often and who Meghan talks to. Why her family members other than Doria did not attend the wedding, there could be a multitude of perfectly sound reasons, visas, the date, health, individual didn't want to be on camera etc. Yet you comment as though you know.

Maybe go join a fan fic forum, you seem to be good at spinning tales.

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Not spinning tales? Where was everyone from her side? No childhood or college friends? Her niece who she was apparently very closely didn't even make the cut.

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U53rName · 18/09/2026 10:01

CoffeeCantata · 18/09/2026 07:20

The Middleton family invited Meghan to stay with them more than once - she refused.

They also offered for Doria to stay with them over the wedding period - also refused. M had no intention of making friends with C - she was a rival, to be targeted and destroyed, firstly because M knew she would always have to defer to her and secondly because she knew H had been so fond of her.

Meghan had Catherine in her sights even before she met her - she had to be destroyed, which M set about with wide-eyed, faux innocence.

It makes me smile when people pretend M was an innocent, helpless little victim. I don't know how your choose your friends if you can misjudge someone so badly. She's one of the most incredible pieces of work I've ever seen operating!

Meghan had Catherine in her sights even before she met her - she had to be destroyed

😂 She’s not The Terminator.

arnold schwarzenegger terminator GIF by Todd Rocheford
Tabbytiger122 · 18/09/2026 10:02

simpsonthecat · 18/09/2026 09:59

Yep, there's quite a fanbase for Thomas "Give Daddy the money" Markle on here. It's only because he has spoken out against the couple. No other reason. If it was a person they liked, their father, they would wipe the floor with him

Thomas "paid thousands for my daughters education " yet has never met his grandchildren or son in law..
Poor A&L no relationship with their first cousins, their uncle, aunt in law, none of Meghan's family barr Doria... it is all utterly dysfunctional.

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OneLilacHedgehog · 18/09/2026 10:02

BunnyBunbunbun · 18/09/2026 09:38

Nothing bland about this!
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/nFrDfmOOEFc

I don't need to hear the personal opinions of people who are in apolitical positions of state. All we ever hear today are people ranting about their opinions. In particular when your part of your role is to highlight different communities around the country - the focus should be on them, not your opinion on Palestine or Trump.

Her public persona is bland.
William has spoken out about his political opinions. Do you think he was wrong to?

simpsonthecat · 18/09/2026 10:02

Tabbytiger122 · 18/09/2026 09:57

Where was Doria's side? Where were her childhood & college friends? Why invite the Clooneys who she had never met?

She had long time college friends, other friends, and Suits friends at her wedding. (names can be provided). That won't of course suit your Meghan bashing thread.
The wedding was 8 years ago, I really don't care why she asked the clooneys !

simpsonthecat · 18/09/2026 10:04

Tabbytiger122 · 18/09/2026 10:02

Thomas "paid thousands for my daughters education " yet has never met his grandchildren or son in law..
Poor A&L no relationship with their first cousins, their uncle, aunt in law, none of Meghan's family barr Doria... it is all utterly dysfunctional.

Please ask MN to rename your thread because this is nothing to do with Kate and her parents

VanessaSanessa · 18/09/2026 10:05

Well this has turned into a Meghan bashing thread under the guise of talking about Catherine.

I think W&C are the height of lazy and privileged.

I think H&M are batshit.

However if I was looking for a role model for my daughter, it would definitely not be Catherine who comes from a life of privilege and being cosseted. At least Meghan worked, had an independent life, lived away from home, made her own money.

I honestly see nothing in C to warrant the fawning she gets, it's bizarre. Same with her sister. At least her brother tried to work, so what if he failed and good on him for doing that reading at C's wedding, it can't have been easy.

CurlewKate · 18/09/2026 10:09

BunnyBunbunbun · 18/09/2026 09:38

Nothing bland about this!
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/nFrDfmOOEFc

I don't need to hear the personal opinions of people who are in apolitical positions of state. All we ever hear today are people ranting about their opinions. In particular when your part of your role is to highlight different communities around the country - the focus should be on them, not your opinion on Palestine or Trump.

Tell me what’s not bland about this? Is it the wrong video-this is a woman hitting a hockey ball-yes?

BunnyBunbunbun · 18/09/2026 10:10

OneLilacHedgehog · 18/09/2026 10:02

Her public persona is bland.
William has spoken out about his political opinions. Do you think he was wrong to?

Which political opinions were those? Did he say who he votes for? What he thinks of Trump? Whether Israel should be boycotted?

OneLilacHedgehog · 18/09/2026 10:11

VanessaSanessa · 18/09/2026 10:05

Well this has turned into a Meghan bashing thread under the guise of talking about Catherine.

I think W&C are the height of lazy and privileged.

I think H&M are batshit.

However if I was looking for a role model for my daughter, it would definitely not be Catherine who comes from a life of privilege and being cosseted. At least Meghan worked, had an independent life, lived away from home, made her own money.

I honestly see nothing in C to warrant the fawning she gets, it's bizarre. Same with her sister. At least her brother tried to work, so what if he failed and good on him for doing that reading at C's wedding, it can't have been easy.

I think Catherine does what the royal family want. I just think it's so sad that what they want is a bland clothes horse with no visible personality and whose only hobbies are sport, and taking photos of her kids and nature,. Her persona is like an identikit princess.

Tabbytiger122 · 18/09/2026 10:11

simpsonthecat · 18/09/2026 10:04

Please ask MN to rename your thread because this is nothing to do with Kate and her parents

It started out that way when I said that Kate's parents have been incredible throughout Kate's time in the royal family & a great support to her & William. Russell Myers book Catherine & William praises the Middletons discretion & support.

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OneLilacHedgehog · 18/09/2026 10:12

He spoke out in support of Gaza.

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