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Is Meghan a narcissist?

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Clbs · 28/09/2025 08:20

I keep seeing these reels and social media smears on Meghan being a narcissist and abusive partner to Harry. She certainly doesn't seem overly popular with the royal family or understood the expectations of her as a royal when she married him.

I'm by no means a royalist or a fan of Megan's. But I'm the same age as Harry so always felt I could relate a little to him. I haven't read his book or watched the netflix docs.

The main thing that doesn't sit quite right for me is they wanted a 'private life' and then done anything but. Did Megan use Harry's desire for privacy to isolate him from his family and friends?

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Spectre8 · 14/10/2025 23:18

AtIusvue · 14/10/2025 07:44

As has already been said on here, this is just another rebrand. Its embarrassing how quick she’s moved to try and get her Vogue cover, now that Anna has left.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15187681/Its-Meghan-Markle-3-0-duchess-set-tongues-wagging-shes-plotting-Sussex-relaunch-holds-cosy-meeting-new-editor-US-Vogue.html

Also she’s been away from the kids 9 days now for all these shallow shenanigans

Its not a fact she is rebranding. The whole article reeks of we suspect she is based on a photo taken with her and someone from vogue I mean its speculation at its finest. Yet here you are as per usual presenting it as though its a fact.

Unless those on here have spoken to her and confirmed she is where is their evidence she is? Other than a photo..I mean seriously thats so laughable

Trinner · 15/10/2025 00:00

Spectre8 · 14/10/2025 23:18

Its not a fact she is rebranding. The whole article reeks of we suspect she is based on a photo taken with her and someone from vogue I mean its speculation at its finest. Yet here you are as per usual presenting it as though its a fact.

Unless those on here have spoken to her and confirmed she is where is their evidence she is? Other than a photo..I mean seriously thats so laughable

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Again - a surprising response from you - as surely this is a very positive situation - whether the final outcome is a front cover or double page spread - the fact that she is important enough that she can command a meeting with the new editor of Vogue is a spectacular achievement. Why are you not delighted for her?

prelovedusername · 15/10/2025 08:41

Also she’s been away from the kids 9 days now for all these shallow shenanigans

I had to quote this because the hypocrisy about her parenting - actually both of them - is off the scale. It is truly sickening.

PinkPanther57 · 15/10/2025 08:56

prelovedusername · 15/10/2025 08:41

Also she’s been away from the kids 9 days now for all these shallow shenanigans

I had to quote this because the hypocrisy about her parenting - actually both of them - is off the scale. It is truly sickening.

Where’s the hypocrisy?

Trinner · 15/10/2025 10:00

prelovedusername · 15/10/2025 08:41

Also she’s been away from the kids 9 days now for all these shallow shenanigans

I had to quote this because the hypocrisy about her parenting - actually both of them - is off the scale. It is truly sickening.

But it’s not hypocrisy to either of them. I don’t think they are advocating being a SAHM. How do we not know that the DCs are with them or that they flew home for the weekend.

Both H&M had a specific blueprint for parenting from their own experience. Both raised by mainly strangers in a communal environment - PH away at boarding school from 8, nanny’s before that. MM hanging around a film set after school whilst her DF worked or a ‘latch-key’ kid. Both Thomas as Diana probably consciously improved on their own upbringing and H&M on theirs.

JSMill · 15/10/2025 10:42

prelovedusername · 15/10/2025 08:41

Also she’s been away from the kids 9 days now for all these shallow shenanigans

I had to quote this because the hypocrisy about her parenting - actually both of them - is off the scale. It is truly sickening.

I have to say the amount they apparently leave their dcs isn’t great. I couldn’t believe how long they left Archie, who was just a baby, in Canada in the UK when they returned in early 2020. I know lots of people who have the money to afford around the clock childcare do it but I have seen the results of that personally and it is not exactly a recipe for happy, healthy children.
(Yes I know HMQ did it to Charles and Anne but at least they were with family in
addition to nannies. She was widely criticised for it later on anyway.)

NormaMajors1992coat · 15/10/2025 10:57

Plus QE2 did have quite a significant job that she took extremely seriously - H+M have no such excuse.

Spectre8 · 15/10/2025 11:10

JSMill · 15/10/2025 10:42

I have to say the amount they apparently leave their dcs isn’t great. I couldn’t believe how long they left Archie, who was just a baby, in Canada in the UK when they returned in early 2020. I know lots of people who have the money to afford around the clock childcare do it but I have seen the results of that personally and it is not exactly a recipe for happy, healthy children.
(Yes I know HMQ did it to Charles and Anne but at least they were with family in
addition to nannies. She was widely criticised for it later on anyway.)

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But you cant say 100% though can you only what you hear about. They don't advertise every single thing about their lives, the kids could have gone over dor a few days. How do you know? You don't.

And that is one time was she regularly leaving her baby? Or that is a one off period of time.

You have no clue whether her children are happy or not...Just taking snippets you hear about and spinning your own conclusion

Teeteringpiles555 · 15/10/2025 11:29

Serenster · 12/10/2025 19:16

Such a facile argument. On that basis no-one could have any kind of opinion about anybody who died before they were born. Would kill history as a discipline!

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Oh come on! People are speculating about her parenting without knowing what arrangements she has in place when she travels, and btw, I think bringing the children in to this sort of thread is pretty low. She might be a great, energetic and motivated parent for all we know!

Posters are saying H & M are going to divorce with to date no proof of any such thing. There is talk of her wanting to marry a billionaire and no one can know her motivations or intentions unless you are a personal friend.

So its not s facile argument at all!

Even when we think we have formed an intelligent opinion after watching an interview or Netflix snippet, or after reading opinion pieces in newspapers, every single one of them has been edited with a slant to make as much money as possible, and as we all know, negativity tends to sell much better than puff pieces!

jumpingthehighjump · 15/10/2025 12:12

Teeteringpiles555 · 15/10/2025 11:29

Oh come on! People are speculating about her parenting without knowing what arrangements she has in place when she travels, and btw, I think bringing the children in to this sort of thread is pretty low. She might be a great, energetic and motivated parent for all we know!

Posters are saying H & M are going to divorce with to date no proof of any such thing. There is talk of her wanting to marry a billionaire and no one can know her motivations or intentions unless you are a personal friend.

So its not s facile argument at all!

Even when we think we have formed an intelligent opinion after watching an interview or Netflix snippet, or after reading opinion pieces in newspapers, every single one of them has been edited with a slant to make as much money as possible, and as we all know, negativity tends to sell much better than puff pieces!

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Well said. I have seen the children used to make a point time and time again. I don't like it.

They come across as loving committed parents and we have no idea whatsoever what their arrangements are.

Spectre8 · 15/10/2025 12:22

Let me also add that Will and Kate have left their kids alone for numerous tours...when they went to Pakistan in 2019, the trip to Jamaica in 2022 and alot of times when it comes Earthshot related trips.

Oooooohhhh nooo look how bad they are at parenting leaving their kids behind so much, must be a recipe for disaster as their kids cant be happy well or well adjusted cos they have been left so much... JSMill..you must surely agree with me about this too...

chunkybear · 15/10/2025 12:24

jumpingthehighjump · 15/10/2025 12:12

Well said. I have seen the children used to make a point time and time again. I don't like it.

They come across as loving committed parents and we have no idea whatsoever what their arrangements are.

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Loving and committed parents eh?! … so why are they plastering them all over SM? … it’s to use them for what they can wring out of them.
at least the likes of PPP/Balenciaga, when Megain writes her usual word salad garbage, in this case as ….
“They have worked closely together, collaborating on design for key moments on the world stage.”
at least they can set the record straight with what actually happened … she grifted a
ticket. It’s ‘hilarious’ that they go on about the safety of children, to parents who have lost their children, on SM, yet they pimp out their own kids!
honestly, despicable parents, and what a de-lu-lu Duchess of bullshit! As always, trying to jump on someone else’s hard work and bandwagon - and there’s some gossip going around that she wants to be on Vogue front cover too - I’ll wait to see what the actual story is on that as it unfolds

chunkybear · 15/10/2025 12:29

Spectre8 · 15/10/2025 12:22

Let me also add that Will and Kate have left their kids alone for numerous tours...when they went to Pakistan in 2019, the trip to Jamaica in 2022 and alot of times when it comes Earthshot related trips.

Oooooohhhh nooo look how bad they are at parenting leaving their kids behind so much, must be a recipe for disaster as their kids cant be happy well or well adjusted cos they have been left so much... JSMill..you must surely agree with me about this too...

We’re not talking about W&K, albeit they’re working for king and country on those tours, the children are home, surrounded by their family, Nannies and let’s not forget security. They also don’t harp into the world, well the 2 Netflix viewers, about how they are such wonderful parents, bullshit about writing emails every day so they can read them when they’re older, they get on with their official jobs

AtIusvue · 15/10/2025 12:39

Spectre8 · 15/10/2025 11:10

But you cant say 100% though can you only what you hear about. They don't advertise every single thing about their lives, the kids could have gone over dor a few days. How do you know? You don't.

And that is one time was she regularly leaving her baby? Or that is a one off period of time.

You have no clue whether her children are happy or not...Just taking snippets you hear about and spinning your own conclusion

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Except Meg did tell us.

She told the audience at the Fortune event -that she went to Paris, flew back to California to see the kids for a couple of hours then flew out to NYC with Harry.

She was away for 10 days with a quick stopover on day 4 to pick up Harry.
No the kids were not with Meghan at any point of the trip. Otherwise she would have bleated on about that too

AtIusvue · 15/10/2025 12:40

And she left her kids to go ‘influencing’ and chat about Tik Tok ffs

chunkybear · 15/10/2025 12:44

@AtIusvue - I’d put money on her lying about popping home

Teeteringpiles555 · 15/10/2025 12:48

chunkybear · 15/10/2025 12:29

We’re not talking about W&K, albeit they’re working for king and country on those tours, the children are home, surrounded by their family, Nannies and let’s not forget security. They also don’t harp into the world, well the 2 Netflix viewers, about how they are such wonderful parents, bullshit about writing emails every day so they can read them when they’re older, they get on with their official jobs

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The point is that no one would say that about William and Kate would they? They wouldn’t dare write it on here for a start! There would be howls of outrage when they probably leave their dc just as much if not more. And I would join the outraged tbh because bringing the children in to a thread like this, and judging parenting skills without any basis for comment, is imho highly inappropriate.

And yet it’s absolutely fine to say that about M & H apparently?

Meghan’s mother has behaved in a dignified and impeccable way since the wedding. How do you know the children are not with her?

And do you really think that H & M don’t have nannies?

As for getting on with jobs; at least Meghan is attempting to earn her own money!

QueenieBeeSmith · 15/10/2025 12:49

And yet here you are op discussing Meghan and what prof do you have that she’s abusive - none I expect

NormaMajors1992coat · 15/10/2025 12:49

Teeteringpiles555 · 15/10/2025 11:29

Oh come on! People are speculating about her parenting without knowing what arrangements she has in place when she travels, and btw, I think bringing the children in to this sort of thread is pretty low. She might be a great, energetic and motivated parent for all we know!

Posters are saying H & M are going to divorce with to date no proof of any such thing. There is talk of her wanting to marry a billionaire and no one can know her motivations or intentions unless you are a personal friend.

So its not s facile argument at all!

Even when we think we have formed an intelligent opinion after watching an interview or Netflix snippet, or after reading opinion pieces in newspapers, every single one of them has been edited with a slant to make as much money as possible, and as we all know, negativity tends to sell much better than puff pieces!

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Love that even you include “to date”…

BemusedAmerican · 15/10/2025 12:53

The main criticism about W & C is that they spend too much time with their children. Let's be consistent here. 😁

Typo

NormaMajors1992coat · 15/10/2025 12:54

jumpingthehighjump · 15/10/2025 12:12

Well said. I have seen the children used to make a point time and time again. I don't like it.

They come across as loving committed parents and we have no idea whatsoever what their arrangements are.

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Do you mind Meghan using the children to promote herself and her business? Or just people talking about it?

JSMill · 15/10/2025 12:56

If K&W travel without the dcs, it is for state business, not to be f&£king influencers or to receive fake awards. Last time W went to Eartshot, K stayed behind to support George in school exams. K & W clearly try to arrange their engagements so they can do as much of the childcare as they can (W confirmed this in his Apple tv interview) and get called workshy, including by many on this forum.

chunkybear · 15/10/2025 13:09

Teeteringpiles555 · 15/10/2025 12:48

The point is that no one would say that about William and Kate would they? They wouldn’t dare write it on here for a start! There would be howls of outrage when they probably leave their dc just as much if not more. And I would join the outraged tbh because bringing the children in to a thread like this, and judging parenting skills without any basis for comment, is imho highly inappropriate.

And yet it’s absolutely fine to say that about M & H apparently?

Meghan’s mother has behaved in a dignified and impeccable way since the wedding. How do you know the children are not with her?

And do you really think that H & M don’t have nannies?

As for getting on with jobs; at least Meghan is attempting to earn her own money!

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Earn money off the back of using and/or abusing others! She works just like a parasite works!

jumpingthehighjump · 15/10/2025 13:17

You are very vitriolic. Meghan is a parasite who abuses?

Par for the course I suppose.

I can't imagine loathing someone so much to call them 'an abusing parasite'.