Well I don’t think that Harry has been treated very well by his family as it happens. It would have only taken a little bit of effort and advance thought to think about his future role, and what it would be once he was married, to head off all of these difficulties. Having been at the heart of the RF for years, he deserved to be taken seriously. But I don’t think anyone cared enough.
Harry will always be the monarch’s son or brother. Therefore central - in status if not rank - to the throne. It’s so unwise, not to mention unkind, to turn their backs on him and hope he goes away.
I think Charles tended to put the wishes of his former mistress ahead of those of his son or sons, and that hurt and rejection is now being played out several decades down the line.
I also don’t think it would have been a bad thing if they had been allowed a new roving ambassador role. Harry and Meghan are great at meeting and greeting. Why not do something different and modernise?
The “half in/half out” role was practised by the York sisters for years!
Lastly, I can’t understand how others cannot see how the establishment use the press and sm (including Mumsnet sometimes) and other means
to completely ostracise and turn their backs on anyone who challenges the status quo, in order to protect their own interests.
Harry and Meghan have been the focus of a complete annihilation job by the British press - it’s obvious that someone in power has pressed the “destruct” button - and I will always have sympathy for someone who is subject to that onslaught. It’s bullying in the most vile form.
I think Harry is brave to challenge the press. It may not be a wisest move for him but I think he has very few boats left to burn at this stage.
I think his accusations about the institution of the monarchy - about the briefing against them and the racism towards his wife - have some basis in truth but people don’t believe him because, contrary to popular belief, he has had to be quite circumspect about what he said and the reality is a lot worse than what he described!
If you read his book it bears virtually no relation to what has been written in the press and wasn’t hugely controversial. For example, his point about killing Taliban was exactly the opposite to how it has been reported. And then we see the incorrect version spouted on here again and again until
people believe it.
I sincerely hope Harry can carve out a role of substance for himself with Meghan at his side and I hope being rejected by an entire nation and his closest family do not result in disastrous consequences for him in terms of his morale and mh.