This is such a bad look for Harry, it strikes the same whiny 'poor me' note as Spare...
At Balmoral, Harry was also not invited to a dinner that Charles had with Queen Camilla and Prince William and so he flew home early the next day, on September 9, says Scobie.
"When he arrived at Balmoral, Princess Anne warmly greeted him and led him to the Queen's room, where he spent a quiet moment privately paying his respects," Scobie wrote. "He had hoped to see his father—who had made it to Balmoral Castle in time to see his mother alive—to express his sympathies, but he was informed that Charles, William, and Camilla had already left for Birkhall together.
"Again, no invite was extended to Harry. That night after eating he retired to his room, exhausted by the day's emotional roller coaster," Scobie continued. "He was glad to have had a private moment to say goodbye to his grandmother, but there was no point in sticking around.
"With no offer to return with William and the others in the morning (all of his texts, including a thoughtful message about the loss of their grandmother, continued to be ignored), Harry booked his own British Airways ticket on the first available departing flight."
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