Hate is too strong a word. Indifference.
Yes, I agree with this. Just because we don't instigate an insurrection and violently overthrow the monarchy (although I'm guessing that this 'soft' power would quickly show its unrelenting fangs if anybody tried), they seem to dreadfully mistake this for unanimous love and fondness for them.
In all of this coronation planning, I can't help but see Charles as a kind of Rik figure from The Young Ones:
"Hey, everybody, I've had a bwwrrilliant idea - how about we all take this smmmashing opportunity to reflect on just how much we all love me and then all shout out together about just how wonderful I am.... guys?!"