Do you seriously think it is 'admirable' to use your father's terrible anguish from being bullied so much he did not think he would 'survive' his school experience to tell the world a man, that is now King btw, carries a teddy bear?
Do you think that was right to 'sell' his father's deeply private information for tens of millions?
His mother had multiple affairs very early on in the marriage, and created alot of the 'hell' you describe herself, or have you conveniently forgotten the truth?
His father did all he could to be a good parent, by the sounds of it, even in Harry's words. None of us are perfect, including you. I am sure your dc could list your faults to the world if they wanted to.
Selling and exploiting your family for money is never ever admirable.