Were you not in the UK at the time of the building tensions of reality and H&M's dreams of becoming philanthropic billionaires that would turn up for balcony appearances?
It was everywhere that they wanted apartments at Windsor Castle at the Queen's personal favourite residence. They had been known to entertain the Clooneys so again that was their intention of entertaining "new friends" that could be useful for their future plans.
It was known that they wanted a separate court apart from the W&K and didn't want to live at KP any longer, both of which happened. Not sure why you don't recall it from the actual events of the time or can't look it up yourself - there are countless examples of the tensions being caused with M not understanding she's a "civil servant with a tiara" and a relatively boring day job of doing what is expected of the role (which they'd said no need to take on that role, just get married and find your feet).
M grand ideas about raising Hollywood money for H&M's future direction was known to be being researched long before they announced they were leaving RF.
H did nothing to explain to M how unimportant they are as regards the RF and what the role constitutes.
The requests from Meghan advisors were also widely reported at the time as causing tension - are you not able to look any of that up yourself, or how come you are so unaware of what was being widely reported at the time here?
I see why lots of the H&M supporters are gullible as to the new presented version of events as they were paying no attention at the time. If they were aware of all the news at the time then the political and constitutional repercussions of the ridiculous ideas of the RF becoming a celebrity foundation with US links.
Irrespective of how ridiculous their ideas are, it's not their show to change anyhow. Even if W&K wanted the things H&M wanted, it wouldn't happen.
None of it was ever, ever going to happen. H&M were always going to be unhappy with what was on offer and now twist "no" you can't do that (ie politically and constitutionally impossible) to being about being "jealous" or "racism" or .....whatever gets trotted out.
H is an appalling weak and vain character for not letting M know all this in very clear terms, he thought the UK are stupid enough to forgive anything of him. He was an official representative of the UK and now he's not.
www.harpersbazaar.com/celebrity/latest/a28758899/meghan-markle-prince-harry-live-windsor-castle/
www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/reports/a25304081/meghan-markle-prince-harry-move-windsor-splitting-households-prince-william/
www.telegraph.co.uk/royal-family/2019/12/10/meghan-markle-using-sabbatical-make-charity-project-biggest/
www.telegraph.co.uk/royal-family/2021/04/02/harry-meghan-talks-video-platform-year-megxit/
"The Duke and Duchess of Sussex were discussing projects with a billion-dollar backed US streaming service a year before they stepped down as senior members of the Royal family, it has emerged.
The Sussexes had a series of meetings with Quibi, a now-defunct rival to YouTube, from early 2019 until after they dropped their 'Megxit' bombshell in January last year.
The Duke returned from the so-called Sandringham Summit to meet executives from the short video platform in London as plans for him to provide content apparently reached advanced stages.
In their interview with Oprah Winfrey, the couple said that they “didn’t have a plan” upon leaving the Royal family, but The Telegraph has learnt that they had talks with executives of the £1.3 billion start-up before their son Archie was born in May 2019.
The discussions are understood to have led to tensions with Palace staff fearful they would be accused of “cashing in” on their status, and because the couple were predominantly consulting Meghan’s US-based team of advisers"
Perhaps have a look at some of the links - you'll see many others of similar ilk - explaining that the RF are meant to be a steady backdrop to political and domestic life.