Looking for fashion for my thick waist, big boobs and weight gain

[babysnark123]

I'm about a size 16 now. My jeans are baggy on the legs but right around the belly. I just have nothing that fits anymore. Any ideas? I'm a 34L boobs now. Probably size 18.

Yes I love nuteral tones

Hi I am a 36L ordered from bravissimo - find their own bras fit best for me (not panache or flirtelle), brastop - who are often cheaper and also Curvy Kate. You will need to order a few to get the right shape and fit 😊

Maybe look at Carys Whittaker on social media, that might be the lady you were talking about who tries on clothes in her underwear! She has big boobs and a bit of a tum but her outfits are amazing.

No this lady had dark hair but she's amazing and I love her style.

Why not ditch the actual bra & wear a very Stretchy pull on type bra

Hi I've been to the store and ordered and tried every one. They don't fit my boobs, they aren't the right shape or too small. The only bra that fits me semi decently is the one in wearing.

I have exhausted every option available. I'm not new to having big boobs and do anything possible to be comfortable

Going braless isn't an option

same proportions, peri tum in last couple of years has meant my waist is a full dress size larger than the rest of me - almost in tears trying on every jean in M&S, as for them to fit around my waist they skimmed right over my bum making it look flat as a pancake. Then discovered these which have a decent bit of stretch so hug / skim in the right places !
www.fatface.com/style/sv037272/e52058

I have big boobs and tummy.
my go to jeans are Next Lift Slim and shape in straight or bootcut.

https://www.next.co.uk/style/su849135/f25507
Tops I like a blouson or balloon hem effect. https://www.next.co.uk/style/su830437/h91117
Have you looked at Melyr?
https://www.melyr.co.uk/products/vivienne-ruched-batwing-v-neck-lipstick-red

Taking on board your bra comments, I have found Bra Stop to have a wider range of back and cup sizes than Bravissimo. I like Flirtelle as a brand, those bras hoick me up more which gives a good separation between boobs and belly, and that reduces the visual blockiness of my torso. I know people are focusing on your bras, which you don't want, but my experience is once I got a bra that properly shifted them away from my stomach, I had a better shape in my clothes.

Clothes wise - what about barrel leg trousers? Not quite as drastic as full wide legged jeans/trousers but give definition, look easy to wear and on trend. I have seen many folk on Instagram talking about them. I think Cos have a pair of maroon barrel leg trousers that are v popular, and they look v wearable. The colour isn't too heavy.

Tops, I know people go on about tucking in tops, but if I do, all I see in the mirror is BOOBS then legs. And I don't want that. I wear tops either fully untucked, or I tuck them in tight, then pull out so I can move. Prefer untuck though.

I loved wearing wrap tops, my old favourites that I still wear are Jojo Maman Bebe pregnancy wrap tops (my youngest is 11) or some i got in GAP a hundred years ago. Unlikely to have any in shop now, but possibly try Vinted if you want something temporary as you change shape.

I also remember a few years ago loads of folk buying a Hush dress that sounds similar to the M&S jersey tie waist dress. Again, Vinted could have some?

Good luck. I've been where you are and found it frustrating.

It’s not very exciting but I spotted this, and they have some really nice dresses too. Also do petite lengths

https://liveunlimitedlondon.com/products/black-flutter-sleeve-pleat-front-top?utm_content=Facebook_UA&utm_source=facebook&variant=56573835641207&fbclid=IwdGRjcAQSq1RleHRuA2FlbQEwAGFkaWQBqy9uNDbionNydGMGYXBwX2lkCjY2Mjg1NjgzNzkAAR566I8O05nydkap2AarKee7FnGDsk-40pLCeXf_YIv6FiQVXvUR2aBpVdrr7A_aem__jH6aSW_SLutJo0vXGpG0A&campaign_id=120236351523300338&ad_id=120236351523280338&utm_medium=paid&utm_id=120236351523300338&utm_term=120236351523290338&utm_campaign=120236351523300338&media_type=image

What about a personal shopper in a big department store?

they’re suppose to be trained to dress your shape, age, style etc.

thats what I would start with, and they will tell you what clothing to look out for for your shape etc.

if you’re in a position were no bra on the market in the UK fits you then I would be looking at a reduction personally.

—- I’ll grab my coat ….. 😬

NHS won't pay for it and why would I butcher myself

Thanks. The issue is the bras don't fit. I'm a 34M but they aren't the right shape etc

Yes the flat bum omg

So you're an L cup but also a K and also an M depending on how much you want to put others suggestions down.... got it

Go and get and fine a M cup. You can often find an L cup. So I make do with a smaller bra. I've shown pictures

And that's why you don't like any of your clothes because nothing will fit right without a properly fitting bra. A quick google search shows up a fair few retailers who do an M-cup (as others on this thread have directed you to). But of course you've already tried every M cup bra in the history of the world...

I won't be replying any further. I'm absolutely astounded at the way you've spoken to posters who have genuinely tried to help.

That's cool but do I really have to tell you all again that bras don't fit. Just drop it FFS

Thanks. I've done one at JL once and it wasnt great. Will try again but it finding the time. I know what suits me, to a degree, it's just finding it

Far to big tbh

Wow. Need the attention and jealous? We aren't the ones posting photos of out boobs on MN. And jealous???? 😂

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