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What do you think of this Ghost Wedding Dress?

196 replies

RubiesandRose · 16/03/2022 13:43

I’m getting married in September, we are both mid-fifties and have been married before. It’s a small register office wedding with immediate family, followed by a family meal and then an evening party with family and friends. I have toyed with a mid length wedding dress but not really feeling it and my fiancé after chatting about the wedding is hoping to see me in a full length dress.

I really liked this Ghost dress online and managed to order it with a 10% discount. It’s a small which looked tiny on the hanger, and I still can’t believe it actually fitted. It needs a good steam, but does it suit me and my figure or is too hippy?

I like simple styles and unfussy necklines, definitely no plunging fronts. I’m wearing heels in the photo but would get a very slightly higher pair which would lift the length.

I don’t want to make the wrong decision, so would appreciate honest (but kind) thoughts please.

What do you think of this Ghost Wedding Dress?
OP posts:
Knackeredmommy · 18/03/2022 09:04

It really suits you, you look lovely 😊

sageandbasil · 18/03/2022 21:09

Gorgeous!!

DarlingDarwin · 18/03/2022 21:16

You look beautiful! What an amazing figure. Your fiancé is a lucky person.

Coronado2 · 18/03/2022 21:17

It looks beautiful

AuraBora · 18/03/2022 21:19

I love the bottom half, really suits your (fabulous) figure. I'm not so keen on the sleeves but that's just personal taste (I.e. it wouldn't be for me).
I think if you like it go ahead, certainly don't need to worry that it's unflattering on your tummy and hips!

GeneParmesanPrivateEye · 19/03/2022 20:58

How about a birdcage veil? I love those, especially in short hair.

Ikeameatballs · 20/03/2022 08:55

It’s gorgeous!

inheritancetrack · 20/03/2022 09:15

Honestly it's awful. Neckline so unflattering, lumpy in the middle, sleeves dreadful, material looks hot and scratchy.

Not read any other comments as I didn't want to be dissuaded from my view!

inheritancetrack · 20/03/2022 09:16

You have a lovely figure so anything would look nice, except this lol.

Blossomtoes · 20/03/2022 09:17

@inheritancetrack

Honestly it's awful. Neckline so unflattering, lumpy in the middle, sleeves dreadful, material looks hot and scratchy.

Not read any other comments as I didn't want to be dissuaded from my view!

So you just wanted to piss on her chips. What a delight you are.
inheritancetrack · 20/03/2022 09:29

@Blossomtoes She asked what it looked like! It's my honest opinion, but if you prefer, yes it looks gorgeous....

GregBrawlsInDogJail · 20/03/2022 10:01

It's beautiful. Fits you great and your figure looks bodacious.

toomanydogsandcats · 20/03/2022 20:49

Sorry but I agree. I can't believe all these simpering comments. It's not offensive but it's not a greatly flattering look. It's obviously not the right dress for anyone who isn't completely flat stomached. Sorry but it looks awful and that's the truth.

ReeseWitherfork · 20/03/2022 20:56

It's obviously not the right dress for anyone who isn't completely flat stomached.

So not the right dress for anyone really then?

Those of us who have said OP looks amazing do genuinely think that... We're not just lying so we can make a stranger look shit on her wedding day. Just clearly not subscribe to the same impossible beauty standards.

toomanydogsandcats · 21/03/2022 15:55

I agree. It's not the right dress. That's not mean. The OP asked for opinions. It's not sisterhood to simper

MuddlingThrough1724 · 21/03/2022 16:25

Most important is how you feel in it!

I think it looks amazing on you and if it's is comfortable, even better!

DameHelena · 21/03/2022 16:28

@toomanydogsandcats

I agree. It's not the right dress. That's not mean. The OP asked for opinions. It's not sisterhood to simper
'simper'? Hmm

It's not 'sisterhood' to sneer at other women's genuinely given comments. Who are you to decide that those of us who say it looks nice are somehow not being truthful?

As for it not being 'the right dress for anyone who isn't completely flat stomached', what rubbish. a) hardly anyone is and b) this dress is about having curves and loving them.

NeedleNoodle3 · 21/03/2022 16:36

I think the OP looks lovely, when I saw the photo I was like wow she looks great.

Jericha · 21/03/2022 16:42

I think it's completely gorgeous. I wouldn't have sparkles or a belt on the dress, it's perfect as it is. Do like the idea of an interesting but understated hairpiece.

Margaretmatcher · 21/03/2022 17:00

You look absolutely beautiful it really suits you it is a yes from me. Hope you have a fantastic day x

GregBrawlsInDogJail · 21/03/2022 17:31

I never, ever blow smoke up people's arses about them looking grrrrreat if I don't think so. The dress is not something I'd choose for myself, but it's a beautiful dress and I think it flatters OP very well, and I'm proper cool and shit.

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