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Have I made a terrible mistake going blonde? (With pics)

192 replies

Sonjing · 13/10/2018 09:56

Just went from brown-ish to blonde a few days ago and I am really not sure I like it!! I am seriously considering to go back to the hairdresser and dye it darker again.

Mumsnetters, please give me your honest opinion! Should I stay blonde or go back to brown?

PS: I am terribly un-photogenic, so please forgive the odd facial expression in both images Grin

Have I made a terrible mistake going blonde? (With pics)
Have I made a terrible mistake going blonde? (With pics)
OP posts:
ramonaquimby · 13/10/2018 10:32

It looks like 2 different people?

GladAllOver · 13/10/2018 10:32

I think too many women go blonde when it doesn't really suit them.
But not you! You look great with blonde hair and you are so beautiful. Please keep it!

Elephantinacravat · 13/10/2018 10:34

You look amazing as both to be honest, but I love the blonde!

shirleyschmidt · 13/10/2018 10:35

You look fab either way but I far prefer the blonde! I love the contrast with your eye colour!

Cauliflowersqueeze · 13/10/2018 10:37

Prefer blonde as well. Lovely pics.

VioletCharlotte · 13/10/2018 10:40

You looks stunning in both pictures! Blonde is softer and brunette more edgy, but both are great.

WanderingTrolley1 · 13/10/2018 10:41

You’re stunning. I prefer dark.

PlatypusPie · 13/10/2018 10:45

It looks amazing, it really does.

. I think you might suffering from blonde adjustment shock - not a thing, just my description of what happened to me ! I had very dark hair, it started going grey very unevenly and my hairdresser used to do a very natural looking blend in for years. At one point, we decided to go blending to light rather than dark, with highlights and lowlights, until now it is a mid blonde. The first time it was truly blonde around my face was a bit of a shock - I looked like me but not me, iyswim. I realised my makeup had to change a bit and some of my clothing colour preferences looked ‘off ‘ as well.

You have made a much more sudden ( though very natural looking ) change and your brain is still going ‘ it’s me I’m looking at/ it’s not me I’m looking at’/who’s the blonde ? ‘

Give it some time.

spacefighter · 13/10/2018 10:50

You look great as a blonde!

ondablobo · 13/10/2018 10:51

I like both.

But, un-photogenic? Really?

MrsNacho · 13/10/2018 11:02

I prefer blonde but both look fab.

fabmabs · 13/10/2018 11:06

You look beautiful in both! I do think the brown hair photo is nicer because your eyes look amazing in it.

However as someone who was brown haired for 30y and then blonde for 15y I would say might need to experiment with make up a bit eg go for a dept store trial and see what someone who didn't know you as a brunette would use. I found this really useful

KaliforniaDreamz · 13/10/2018 11:08

Blimey you look great both ways!! Enjoy being blonde for a bit x

Sugarpiehoneyeye · 13/10/2018 11:08

You look stunning OP, stay blonde !
You're a very beautiful young woman.

CaMePlaitPas · 13/10/2018 11:09

Prefer the blonde OP!

BananaBreadHead17 · 13/10/2018 11:11

You look lovely either colour. You can get away with either where as I would look washed out dark. Lucky you! You’re stunning! Wish I photographed like that. X

Deeandwizzy · 13/10/2018 11:12

The blonde looks fab!

MoltonSilver · 13/10/2018 11:52

You are utterly gorgeous. You can carry off either colour easily.

Lucked · 13/10/2018 12:00

You have great bone structure and are very photogenic .

Agree brunette is edgier but the blnd is equally stunning.

Can I ask what lipstick you are wearing in the blonde photo?

Livpool · 13/10/2018 12:00

Both suit you but the blonde looks lovely xx

biffyboom · 13/10/2018 12:05

You are beautiful regardless, but I prefer the darker, and think that the blonde needs a cooler tone for your skin.

Sleephead1 · 13/10/2018 12:10

your gorgeous and both look lovley but my personal preference is dark

AlmaGeddon · 13/10/2018 12:11

You must think you are very attractive if you believe these photos are unphotgenic!!!

thefirstcut · 13/10/2018 12:13

As a hair stylist I would definitely keep you blonde. really suits you!

Littlechocola · 13/10/2018 12:14

You look gorgeous in both photos. If you are not a model you should definitely look into it. You have amazing bone structure and features.

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