Married/Sex question. Normal for me to feel this way the whole time during sex? much much TMI, sorry

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I'm married, sexually I only have one guy that is my husband. He is my first, and my only sexual partner. So please excuse me for my ignorance in sex.

Sex feels damn good. He he kiss alot during sex, he very caring in bed. I do vaginal orgasm during intercourse. I enjoy sex with my husband, no complain.

Here is my question below. This been on my mind, I always been wanting to ask this, but I'm kindda shy.
Please read below. I want to ask, it is normal for me to feel this way the whole time during sex? I wonder if what I feel is normal or not? TMI below..

Despite his 'down there' it just Too Longggg, like ridiculously long in length.
BUT sex feels damn good, it like he took me somewhere and bring me back. I mean I know I'm in bed with him, but it feels so good that I completely don't know where I'm at anymore.
It hard to describe, but like I completely lost it, I don't know where I'm at anymore. I don't know my surrounding, I don't even know that I'm in bed. ALL I KNOW and ALL I FEEL is his 'down there' he inside me and his thrusting.
Until he he ejaculate, he stop thrusting; that is when I get bring back and know that I'm in bed with him, lol

okay, let see how to word this another way. I understand that sex it the mind and the body.. And I do feel his body, I feel his 'down there' he inside me and his thrusting. And it feel so good that I completely lost it--to the point that I don't know where I'm at, I don't know my surrounding, I don't know I'm in bed. ALL I know and ALL I feel it his 'down there'.
When he ejaculate, he stop thrusting; that when he bring me back.. And I start to know the surrounding, and know that I'm in bed with him.
I understand that sometimes orgasm can be so intense that it make you feel that way.. BUT this is Not just during orgasm only, this is the during the WHOLE time during intercourse when he inside me.

And he the one that do all the work, I pretty much just lay there and he do all the work.. But afterwards I just want to sleep, I drift to sleep afterwards, it is normal?

I know this probably make zero sense.. But that is what I feel during sex, I'm just scare that there something wrong with me. I always wonder if I'm normal or not? He my first and I only sleep with him. So I don't have experience with anyone else for compared, what I know is just based on what he do only.
We a Vanilla couple, just the traditional sex between a man and a woman. I don't know why I feel like that the whole time during sex, it is normal?

Sorry, I use the word 'down there' instead of 'p'.. It just that I find it hard to write out the full 'p' or 'd' word out. Even IRL I can't find myself brave enough to say the "p' or "d" word. I guess I'm just shy when it come to sex, I'm sorry.

If you are having great mind blowing sex why are you worried? As long as you're enjoying yourselves then it's all fine.

And please, practice saying/writing penis. Especially if you ever have a son. Penis isn't a dirty word and children should be taught the correct names for their body parts.

Thank you and I'm sorry, English is my third language so sometimes I not sure if I get the correct meaning of the word.
You see when someone said: Mind-blowing sex, mind-altering sex. The word 'Mind' lead me to think it mind only, NOT the body.

BUT I do feel his body, like I say ALL I feel is his 'p' he inside me and his thrusting. And it feel so good that I completely lost it--to the point that I don't know where I'm at, I don't know my surrounding, I don't even know I'm in bed. ALL I know and ALL I feel it his 'p'
When he ejaculate, he stop thrusting; that when he bring me back. And I start to know the surrounding, and know that I'm in bed with him.

It scary, because my mind it like completely lost during sex with him, I don't know where he take me, I just don't know where I'm at anymore, I don't even know myself. ALL I know is his 'p' he inside me.
I know this not simply just orgasm, because I feel this throughout the whole time during intercourse. I don't know if it normal to feel this way or not.

So he has a magic penis?

This sounds like a case of La Petit Mort so there's no point in going to the doctor but as long as your partner knows how to perform CPR you should be Ok.

Welcome to Mumsnet!

No, he does not have a magic 'p'.
We do love each others ALOT. Perhaps it because we love each others the sex it really good? I really don't know, I'm confuse myself.
He the first guy I leepwith, I don't have experience with anyone else for compared, what I know is just based on what he do only.

Thank you for all advice. Happy Holidays to everyone. I'm sorry if this thread bother anyone or cause any inconvenient.

#humblebrag

Penis penis penis!

I'm still not sure what the problem is. His penis takes you to wonderful places and brings you back. Sounds great to me.

No, I SWEAR I'm not humble brag. I'm really confuse because he is the first guy I sleep with, I really don't know what sex suppose to be like, I don't have anyone else for compared.
I'm sorry if it come across as humble brag. Sorry if this thread bother anyone. Happy Holidays to all.

Yes it's perfectly normal. Don't worry.

Although it is normal to lose yourself during sex, in the sense that you are 'in the moment' and enjoying yourself, it is not normal to be so out of it that you don't know where you are!

Are you for real?

Maybe it's a language thing but I find your post very odd.

I'm dead serious. That is what I'm worry too that I'm not very normal.
What I post above in my OP post is exactly what I feel during sex.
Perhaps I'm just not normal, I do think it weird that why I make this thread to ask.

You could look up disassociation and see if it applies.

Cock, willy, penis, dong, John Thomas - go ahead and use whatever you want here, swearing is also encouraged.

Anyway, what is the problem exactly?
That you fall asleep after sex?
Hardly unusual.

Could be hitting your vasovagal nerve (sp?). It gives a sensation like no other

Do you think there's a chance that your husband is drugging you?

It's not normal in the sense that I don't think it's common to feel like this during intercourse. However it doesn't sound pathological either, in fact it sounds very nice!
OP I think you should read a lot of romantic fiction - start with Mills and Boon and move on to Jacky Collins I'm old and it's a long time sense I read anything like this so suggestions welcome it will give you a few ideas on how to be a little less passive.

Alaugh I was wonderng if OP is being drugged too?
OP try initiating sex at a time when there is no way he could have shoved something in your mashed potato and let us know if it was any different.

He kiss alot during intercourse. I don't know if this play a part in why it feels so good?
He thrusting down there, but up there he kissing my lips, neck, shouders, breast at the same time. He thrust and kiss at the same time, if this make any sense?

Anyways, I guess I'm just not normal. I do vaginal orgasm during sex.
I heard that women don't 'always' get vaginal orgasm. But I do get vaginal orgasm, weird.

Lucky you OP!

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Maybe open your eyes the next time and you'll know where you are.

I'm not sure what you think the problem is but it sounds like you really enjoy having sex with your husband. That's all!

OP, it is not normal to not know where you are during sex.

I suggest you go and see your GP. You might also like to ask him/her to test you for drugs.