Married/Sex question. Normal for me to feel this way the whole time during sex? much much TMI, sorry

[thestairs]

I'm married, sexually I only have one guy that is my husband. He is my first, and my only sexual partner. So please excuse me for my ignorance in sex.

Sex feels damn good. He he kiss alot during sex, he very caring in bed. I do vaginal orgasm during intercourse. I enjoy sex with my husband, no complain.

Here is my question below. This been on my mind, I always been wanting to ask this, but I'm kindda shy.
Please read below. I want to ask, it is normal for me to feel this way the whole time during sex? I wonder if what I feel is normal or not? TMI below..

Despite his 'down there' it just Too Longggg, like ridiculously long in length.
BUT sex feels damn good, it like he took me somewhere and bring me back. I mean I know I'm in bed with him, but it feels so good that I completely don't know where I'm at anymore.
It hard to describe, but like I completely lost it, I don't know where I'm at anymore. I don't know my surrounding, I don't even know that I'm in bed. ALL I KNOW and ALL I FEEL is his 'down there' he inside me and his thrusting.
Until he he ejaculate, he stop thrusting; that is when I get bring back and know that I'm in bed with him, lol

okay, let see how to word this another way. I understand that sex it the mind and the body.. And I do feel his body, I feel his 'down there' he inside me and his thrusting. And it feel so good that I completely lost it--to the point that I don't know where I'm at, I don't know my surrounding, I don't know I'm in bed. ALL I know and ALL I feel it his 'down there'.
When he ejaculate, he stop thrusting; that when he bring me back.. And I start to know the surrounding, and know that I'm in bed with him.
I understand that sometimes orgasm can be so intense that it make you feel that way.. BUT this is Not just during orgasm only, this is the during the WHOLE time during intercourse when he inside me.

And he the one that do all the work, I pretty much just lay there and he do all the work.. But afterwards I just want to sleep, I drift to sleep afterwards, it is normal?

I know this probably make zero sense.. But that is what I feel during sex, I'm just scare that there something wrong with me. I always wonder if I'm normal or not? He my first and I only sleep with him. So I don't have experience with anyone else for compared, what I know is just based on what he do only.
We a Vanilla couple, just the traditional sex between a man and a woman. I don't know why I feel like that the whole time during sex, it is normal?

Sorry, I use the word 'down there' instead of 'p'.. It just that I find it hard to write out the full 'p' or 'd' word out. Even IRL I can't find myself brave enough to say the "p' or "d" word. I guess I'm just shy when it come to sex, I'm sorry.

Well that should kill it off. Hardly anyone goes there...

Thank you Ms. Mod MNHQ,
I didn't know there was a 'Sex' section here in Mumsnet, I would have post here at first if I know there was a separate section for "Sex'.
I did click on the 'Talk" purple button on top look before I post, it have different talk topics, but I didn't see any separate section for Sex.
I post in the Relationship because my thread back in April in there. I didn't know there was a separate section for Sex related questions.
THANK YOU for move it here Ms. OP
Happy Holidays to you and your family.

Is English your second language or something OP?

Hi, I saw this thread before it was moved, and was appalled at many of the posts.

I am quite experienced (well, in my long ago youth) but at the age of 60 got together with my now DP following my divorce. I know that place you mean, I think - a feeling of not knowing where you are, and being consumed by intense sexual bliss. But I have only experienced this with my current lover. We mostly close our eyes, though sometimes I open mine to watch him orgasm. And he has the most erotic kiss I have ever known.

As to length of the male organ - I've really only known standard ones, but a friend has shared that she once found great difficulty with someone who was particularly well endowed. Your DP and you are communicating about this and he's being careful.

So I don't think there is anything to worry about.

I'm actually very happy that this post get move here, here people are more serious with their replies, I really appreciated it.

Thank you OnADarkDesertHighway, what you said exactly describe it. The whole time during sex all I can focused on his him and what he is doing to me, like all I can focused on is how good his 'down there' feel.
I try to not get lost in it too much, but I get carry away. I don't know what to do, beside blame his 'down there'? lol j/k

I do trust my husband alot. I married him, I trust him.. I do surrender to him during sex, I guess this helps me enjoy sex more?
What I do know is he loves me alot, I do love him too. Perhaps the 'emotional attachment' between us helps with the sex too?
And I'm sexually attracted to him. I'm attracted to the way he carries himself. I'm attracted to his 'strength of character', he does have one heck of strength of character.

I don't know about others; but to me in order to love a guy, I need to respect him first. I must must have respect for the guy in order for me to love him. And I do respect my husband.

The marriage so far have been so peaceful, too peaceful. He doesn't fight or argue with me, 95% of the time the let me have things 'my' way so I can be happy. He very patience and very understanding.
And he treats me really well, he is an awesome awesome husband.
I live a stable steady and comfy life, thanks to the husband.. He worries and secure everything He secure everything from emotionally to financially, I don't have much to worried. I live a life without much to worry, can this be part of why I enjoy sex?

I don't believe in 'magic p' though. What I believe is the connection between two people. The emotional attachment and the sexual attraction.

I live a life without much to worry, can this be part of why I enjoy sex?

It could very well be.

I didn't know there was a sex topic now

It's just a teeny bit marvellous

the stairs - it sounds as though you are very much in love with him and that when you have sex with him, you "lose yourself"in the passion i.e. forget where you are. I am like this during sex too when I am in love. Kind of get transported to a higher mental state. Its normal, believe me, and it sounds as though your husband is a good lover. Enjoy!!

Its very normal to fall asleep after orgasm too

It would be fun for you both if you experimented with being a bit more active as time goes on and you get more confidence, so you can both enjoy trying new things in bed

Your husband sounds great by the way and very considerate, does he have an unmarried brother whop I can meet?

the stairs - the feeling you are describing is also sometimes called "living in the moment", when we do something we enjoy (it could be sex, or playing music, or creating art), we can get completely lost in the present and in the experience and forget our surroundings. Its a great thing so enjoy it

After my husband died a few years ago, the only time I felt happy was when I was drawing. An art therapist explained to me that it was because when I was doing art, I was able to get lost in it, because I was enjoying it so much and it enabled me to temporarily forget my surroundings, my grief, my problems etc

It is a very good thing so you can cherish it without worrying

I'm really not entirely sure of what I just read.