Married/Sex question. Normal for me to feel this way the whole time during sex? much much TMI, sorry

[thestairs]

I'm married, sexually I only have one guy that is my husband. He is my first, and my only sexual partner. So please excuse me for my ignorance in sex.

Sex feels damn good. He he kiss alot during sex, he very caring in bed. I do vaginal orgasm during intercourse. I enjoy sex with my husband, no complain.

Here is my question below. This been on my mind, I always been wanting to ask this, but I'm kindda shy.
Please read below. I want to ask, it is normal for me to feel this way the whole time during sex? I wonder if what I feel is normal or not? TMI below..

Despite his 'down there' it just Too Longggg, like ridiculously long in length.
BUT sex feels damn good, it like he took me somewhere and bring me back. I mean I know I'm in bed with him, but it feels so good that I completely don't know where I'm at anymore.
It hard to describe, but like I completely lost it, I don't know where I'm at anymore. I don't know my surrounding, I don't even know that I'm in bed. ALL I KNOW and ALL I FEEL is his 'down there' he inside me and his thrusting.
Until he he ejaculate, he stop thrusting; that is when I get bring back and know that I'm in bed with him, lol

okay, let see how to word this another way. I understand that sex it the mind and the body.. And I do feel his body, I feel his 'down there' he inside me and his thrusting. And it feel so good that I completely lost it--to the point that I don't know where I'm at, I don't know my surrounding, I don't know I'm in bed. ALL I know and ALL I feel it his 'down there'.
When he ejaculate, he stop thrusting; that when he bring me back.. And I start to know the surrounding, and know that I'm in bed with him.
I understand that sometimes orgasm can be so intense that it make you feel that way.. BUT this is Not just during orgasm only, this is the during the WHOLE time during intercourse when he inside me.

And he the one that do all the work, I pretty much just lay there and he do all the work.. But afterwards I just want to sleep, I drift to sleep afterwards, it is normal?

I know this probably make zero sense.. But that is what I feel during sex, I'm just scare that there something wrong with me. I always wonder if I'm normal or not? He my first and I only sleep with him. So I don't have experience with anyone else for compared, what I know is just based on what he do only.
We a Vanilla couple, just the traditional sex between a man and a woman. I don't know why I feel like that the whole time during sex, it is normal?

Sorry, I use the word 'down there' instead of 'p'.. It just that I find it hard to write out the full 'p' or 'd' word out. Even IRL I can't find myself brave enough to say the "p' or "d" word. I guess I'm just shy when it come to sex, I'm sorry.

Thank you Ms. LoisPuddingLane. You have given me great advice, I really appreciate it. THANK YOU

Why are you sharing these intimate details? we really do not need to know. There is no point to what you are saying as you don't appear to have a problem. And most posters are telling you that but you insist on telling us more detail.

I answer the questions direct to me, like how many inches is my husband down there.
A posters ACCUSE me of watch porn, so I have to reply to it and say I do NOT watch porn, and there no Damn PORN in China. Porn is BANNED in China.

And I was accuse of teenager boy porn something. Which I find it ridiculous, because we very Vanilla. Beside his down there, there NOTHING else inside me. That must sound so much like porn eh?

You accuse me, so I defense myself, that all.

I was raised in a family with no sex education and no sex allowed before marriage blah blah but you get to know from your girlfriends and become aware of sex in your teens anyhow. Heck, I was not even allowed to have a boyfriend even when I was 24. We can't say that your experience is not true, it is your experience after all. But how you could not know where you are?? I think you have fantasised about sex in your mind too much. Your version of how you feel during sex is over the top and you feel the same way every single time?? I guess I'm being jealous, wish I was so blissfully unaware.

You sound like you have never come out of virgin mind state, surely you have had the forbidden fruit now, the craze should lessen with time? For me, it's not normal to not know where you are, irrespective of being taught sex education or not and irrespective of how many partners you have had or don't.

I'm on this site as having relationship problems. Surely I wouldn't be here if the problem was I felt 'out of it' with my awesomely awesome husband who cleans the toilet .

But to other posters, I had never heard some words until I was 19. I used to read lingerie as ling-a-ree and have to make an effort to say it correctly now because I only read it and never heard it until I saw an ad for lingeries. Some things just get ingrained, may be she can't say penis but everything else. Totally get that. Still think poster is either very naive or a troll.

You need to branch out a bit OP, try a few new things, then you can come back and tell us all about it.

It'll make a change from all that thrusting which to be honest can get a bit boring and send you off elsewhere in your head.

I think that's the answer.

Ok, stairs, the language barrier is getting in the way. I never accused you of watching porn (which there's nothing wrong with, by the way, I watch porn). I said you sound like a teenage boy writing a porn fantasy. That's two very different things. And no one asked what's been in your vagina, ok?

And yes, you are indeed correct, calling a poster a troll is a violation, so I'm sure my posts will be deleted shortly, as I've already said.

How old were you when you emigrated to the U.S ?

And I'm sure if you go to China, you will find plenty more girls that are like me.

Aha, that's the role play here, isn't it? Innocent Chinese girl entranced by magical longggggg p.

Why not watch some porn and watch how the women orgasm, with or without a guy with a longgg 'down there'. Then you can compare.
Btw you used the word 'penis' in your post today at 11:56.

I join Mumsnet since April 2015 (8 months ago),
I post a link of my background thread that I post here 8 months ago.
See the link in page 7, it will answer all your questions.

I will NOT say the word 'p', and there nothing you can do to make me type it out or say it. Just like I can't make you do anything that you don't want.

I guess I will go back to my Baby Center U.S site now.
This will be my last posts. Thank you to those who sincerely give me advice.
Happy Holidays to all.

Also, according to the April thread, OP emigrated to the US when she was 12 years old. Is now 30. And still types / talks like a caricature.

Actually, after a quick Google and nose around Babycenter, I think OP is genuine. I think she's just a bit ... odd. I won't repost what I read here but I think it's safe to say, OP, that there is nothing wrong with your husband. Stop looking for problems.

Oh OP. You are just saying basically the same thing in each and every post, then asking leading questions. It's tiresome.

Thank you Ms. goodnightdarthvader1, no problem. Thank you for give me your advice, regardless snark or not, I really appreciate and grateful for all advice. Because I know everyone time is precious.

If anyone is a member in Baby Center US site. In Baby Center the group call: All In the Family.
I'm an active poster in there. There a huge thread there where I disect my husband and disect my marriage into millions of pieces, try to find a problem in it.
And there this thread too, I post this exactly same sex questoin in there.

I been an active member in Baby Center, I have almost 40 threads and almost 2,000 posts in there.
Include threads where I give LIVE CHINESE and Vietnamese translations in there.

NO, I'm not a boy. No Boy would have over 2,000 posts in Baby Center.
I join Baby Center because me and my husband plan to TTC in 2016. I join because it an U.S site, and I can help with things like pregnancy and raise baby.

Anyways, I know this is a UK forum. But I join here since April, since I already have an account, so I log back in to post this thread.
I didn't think this thread would turn out like this. But anyways, thank you. Happy Holidays to all.

This is why troll hunting isnt allowed. OP is a genuine poster, granted she posts in a unique way but she has explained her reasons why, english not being her first language but she has had to defend herself several times from being called a liar/troll. If you suspect the op is lying, press the report button and fuck off. You are not the thread police. why should she have to defend her post because some of you are . Its not her problem that your closed minds cant accept someone not fitting into your defined norms.

harrassed (sp), I told her specifically she didn't have to defend herself to me. I also said I wasn't the thread police. So thanks for telling me what I already know.

Having read the threads on babycenter though, the OP has a history of posting intimate details about her marriage and the "terrible" things her husband does, and the posters ALL say she's exaggerating, the problem is her. She's now concerned her sex life is dysfunctional.

It's not about fitting into defined norms, it's about taking a post at face value and going "Err, this doesn't look right". If you tell me this thread didn't seem like TMI sexual humble-bragging, I'll eat my hat.

I can't read that OP, terrible English!

This thread is really really odd.

OP kissing during sex is normal even when he is thrusting.

Falling asleep after sex and being sleepy when you have come a lot is normal. This applies when you have sex during the day as well as before you go to sleep at night.

If the sex is good you ain't gonna be thinking about other things during it. You will be focused on your DH and what he is doing to you.

Stop stressing about your sex life. You enjoy it and your husband enjoys it. It is normal for you so it does not matter if it is different to other posters experiences. Sex is different with different men and experiences differ from person to person.

Bizarre!

OP, would speaking to a sex therapist help alleviate your anxieties? Perhaps having a face to face conversation with a professional would enable you to get to the root of the problem rather than repeating yourself in writing. Although I'm not quite sure what the problem is.
I find it strange that you are unable to write the word penis but are able to disclose very intimate aspects of your relationship in detail repeatedly.

Good luck OP, I hope you find answers to what you are looking for.

Hi, we're moving this thread over to our Sex topic now.