Married/Sex question. Normal for me to feel this way the whole time during sex? much much TMI, sorry

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I'm married, sexually I only have one guy that is my husband. He is my first, and my only sexual partner. So please excuse me for my ignorance in sex.

Sex feels damn good. He he kiss alot during sex, he very caring in bed. I do vaginal orgasm during intercourse. I enjoy sex with my husband, no complain.

Here is my question below. This been on my mind, I always been wanting to ask this, but I'm kindda shy.
Please read below. I want to ask, it is normal for me to feel this way the whole time during sex? I wonder if what I feel is normal or not? TMI below..

Despite his 'down there' it just Too Longggg, like ridiculously long in length.
BUT sex feels damn good, it like he took me somewhere and bring me back. I mean I know I'm in bed with him, but it feels so good that I completely don't know where I'm at anymore.
It hard to describe, but like I completely lost it, I don't know where I'm at anymore. I don't know my surrounding, I don't even know that I'm in bed. ALL I KNOW and ALL I FEEL is his 'down there' he inside me and his thrusting.
Until he he ejaculate, he stop thrusting; that is when I get bring back and know that I'm in bed with him, lol

okay, let see how to word this another way. I understand that sex it the mind and the body.. And I do feel his body, I feel his 'down there' he inside me and his thrusting. And it feel so good that I completely lost it--to the point that I don't know where I'm at, I don't know my surrounding, I don't know I'm in bed. ALL I know and ALL I feel it his 'down there'.
When he ejaculate, he stop thrusting; that when he bring me back.. And I start to know the surrounding, and know that I'm in bed with him.
I understand that sometimes orgasm can be so intense that it make you feel that way.. BUT this is Not just during orgasm only, this is the during the WHOLE time during intercourse when he inside me.

And he the one that do all the work, I pretty much just lay there and he do all the work.. But afterwards I just want to sleep, I drift to sleep afterwards, it is normal?

I know this probably make zero sense.. But that is what I feel during sex, I'm just scare that there something wrong with me. I always wonder if I'm normal or not? He my first and I only sleep with him. So I don't have experience with anyone else for compared, what I know is just based on what he do only.
We a Vanilla couple, just the traditional sex between a man and a woman. I don't know why I feel like that the whole time during sex, it is normal?

Sorry, I use the word 'down there' instead of 'p'.. It just that I find it hard to write out the full 'p' or 'd' word out. Even IRL I can't find myself brave enough to say the "p' or "d" word. I guess I'm just shy when it come to sex, I'm sorry.

The OP reads to me like a thinly veiled my BF has a huge wanger boast...

okay I look up the word diassociating meaning, it said when your mind is full, like you think of other things during sex, like you think of kids, house work, etc..
diassociating, means just not want to be there with your partner, afraid to feel, afraid to let go.

This does NOT describe me at all.
My brain does not think about house work or other stuff. I'm not afraid to feel, because I feel him alot.
I let myself go during sex, because I trust him.

My brain don't know where I'm at. But my brain sure know what he doing, I mean all my brain can concentrate on is his 'down there'.
okay, now I sound ridiculous, I should blame his 'p' then.

Is there another meaning to the word disassociating?

Ridiculously long wang. Wraps around his leg.

Huge wanger with teleportation capability. A Tardick.

OP, I think I understand what you mean and it is perfectly normal, if not a common occurrence for everyone. Sometimes when I'm having sex with DH I feel "out of it" in the sense that the feeling is so intense it goes beyond what is purely pleasurable and feels almost like an out of body experience - I feel weightless, dizzy and visualise really vibrant colours, even if my eyes are closed, like I'm transcending myself and no I don't take drugs! You're lucky if this happens to you every time you have sex, I certainly don't think it's anything to worry about!

okay, now I sound ridiculous - I can't argue with that.

'Tardick'.

I want a magic wang too. Life is so unfair.

honestly OP, if youre enjoying sex, and your husband is enjoying it too, and noones coming to any harm, then there is nothing for you to ask the doctor about. Its not something anyone is going to fix, or even try to.

You could ask him to stop with all the thrusting, if it worries you.

All sounds perfectly fine to me. Most women would kill for the kind of sex yr having.

Do not worry about it. You are normal and very lucky. Enjoy yr lovely husband and keep having plenty of fantastic sex.
Oh and well done on being fluent in 3 languages, you write better english than some ive seen on here x

The word "thrusting" is taking on a life of it's own in my head.

We do talk about sex. I tell him that he hit my cervix. And he all worried that he might hurt me, he would ask "Does it hurts?" if he see my face show uncomfortable, he won't continue do it. If he see my face show pleasure, he keeps continue doing it.
It like that, I guess he a caring and attentive lover in bed?

He looks at my eyes, look at my face during sex to see if I enjoy what he do.
He caring in bed. He make sure I orgasm first before he does.

Do men look at your eyes and face during sex? And kiss at the same time while getting it on down there?

He knows he my first, so he gentle and caring. He knows my Chinese culture, I'm not used to initiate sex. He say it fine, he doesn't mind do all the initiating, he likes to be dominant.

Indeed, sinber. I'm also concerned that I'll never be able to view the letter P in the same way ever again.

Is your husband from a culture that is generally sexually inexperienced too? Or has he more experience?
Do his 'p' thing hurt you?

Your thread has taken Me to somewhere else too op and I want to go home😩

The kissing at the same time often depends on height. A man much taller can have difficulties kissing while - er - thrusting.

He just have 2 relationships prior to met me. So he have experience, he wasn't a virgin. I was a virgin.

He 30 years old and have 2 relationship, that is darn low on the sexual bar, he not a man-whore or anything, lol

We live in the same neighborhood, I'm the girl in his neighborhood. Due to our close distance, it wasn't hard to get to know each others.
When he chase me, I want to take it slow, so we were friends for 2 years, and he waited. I'm glad I take it slow because I get to know him well, get to know his family, his friends.
After 2 years I agree to be his Girlfriend. And I still wasn't ready for sex, so I make him wait 1 more year, 1 year into our committed relationship before I give him sex, he waited.
He respectful, he didn't rush me into sex, he waits till I'm ready.

Well,now he no longer have to wait, we married him, I'm his wife now, so I can't say I want to take it slow and hold sex from him, lol

When I first sleep with him it does hurt, but my OB/GYN say it normal.
But then it hurt less and less, and now it feels ridiculous good. I guess I'm adapt to his size?
His 'down there' it just longggg, so he does hit my cervix. It feel a bit uncomfortable when he hit my cervix, but he gentle. He kiss alot during sex, so I guess that make up for it.
His down there does feels really good. Can it be because I love him so the connection is more so it feels more good?

He a foot taller than me. But like I say, we very Vanilla. We do like 2-3 possition during sex and that it. He always on top, because in missionary position, he kisses alot.
Or when I lay flat on my back, he still on top and he kiss my neck and my back. I dunno, he just find a way to kiss me.

You can say cervix, but you can't say penis?

I really don't get the point of this thread.

He kisses you while fucking you. That's normal. I have no idea why you think it wouldn't be.

I'm impressed you waited three years. I find it hard to wait three dates.

Just to be clear though, marriage does not mean you have to have sex. You say 'I'm his wife now, so I can't say I want to take it slow and hold sex from him.' Marriage does not mean he has your consent to sex whenever he likes. Although from the sound of it, you don't mind that much, what with it being amazing...

Well, my friend tell me that her SO closes his eyes when he have sex with her, like he close his eyes and feel it down there.
And I also heard other women say their SO don't kiss during sex. And there even women that say they DON'T like to be kiss during sex.
I don't know, I'm just confuse.

Really, does it matter what other people do?

Like I say, I was a virgin. I have ZERO sexual experience before him.
So wait to have sex is not a problem to me, because I never know how sex feel like.
I mean if you know sex feels damn good, you want sex. But if you a virgin never know what sex feels like, then there no drive for you to want sex. If this make sense?

I know marriage doesn't give him the consent to have sex with me whenever anytime he wants. But I was raise in the traditional Chinese culture that it is my 'duty' to give my husband sex.
I know this don't make sense to westerners, but it make sense to China people.

But if you a virgin never know what sex feels like, then there no drive for you to want sex. If this make sense?

No, it doesn't make sense. Otherwise no one would every have sex because everyone starts as a virgin. Presumably people have sex because they start off masturbating and realise it feels good.

The most abnormal thing you have posted on this thread is that he likes to clean the bathroom :o