Married/Sex question. Normal for me to feel this way the whole time during sex? much much TMI, sorry

[thestairs]

I'm married, sexually I only have one guy that is my husband. He is my first, and my only sexual partner. So please excuse me for my ignorance in sex.

Sex feels damn good. He he kiss alot during sex, he very caring in bed. I do vaginal orgasm during intercourse. I enjoy sex with my husband, no complain.

Here is my question below. This been on my mind, I always been wanting to ask this, but I'm kindda shy.
Please read below. I want to ask, it is normal for me to feel this way the whole time during sex? I wonder if what I feel is normal or not? TMI below..

Despite his 'down there' it just Too Longggg, like ridiculously long in length.
BUT sex feels damn good, it like he took me somewhere and bring me back. I mean I know I'm in bed with him, but it feels so good that I completely don't know where I'm at anymore.
It hard to describe, but like I completely lost it, I don't know where I'm at anymore. I don't know my surrounding, I don't even know that I'm in bed. ALL I KNOW and ALL I FEEL is his 'down there' he inside me and his thrusting.
Until he he ejaculate, he stop thrusting; that is when I get bring back and know that I'm in bed with him, lol

okay, let see how to word this another way. I understand that sex it the mind and the body.. And I do feel his body, I feel his 'down there' he inside me and his thrusting. And it feel so good that I completely lost it--to the point that I don't know where I'm at, I don't know my surrounding, I don't know I'm in bed. ALL I know and ALL I feel it his 'down there'.
When he ejaculate, he stop thrusting; that when he bring me back.. And I start to know the surrounding, and know that I'm in bed with him.
I understand that sometimes orgasm can be so intense that it make you feel that way.. BUT this is Not just during orgasm only, this is the during the WHOLE time during intercourse when he inside me.

And he the one that do all the work, I pretty much just lay there and he do all the work.. But afterwards I just want to sleep, I drift to sleep afterwards, it is normal?

I know this probably make zero sense.. But that is what I feel during sex, I'm just scare that there something wrong with me. I always wonder if I'm normal or not? He my first and I only sleep with him. So I don't have experience with anyone else for compared, what I know is just based on what he do only.
We a Vanilla couple, just the traditional sex between a man and a woman. I don't know why I feel like that the whole time during sex, it is normal?

Sorry, I use the word 'down there' instead of 'p'.. It just that I find it hard to write out the full 'p' or 'd' word out. Even IRL I can't find myself brave enough to say the "p' or "d" word. I guess I'm just shy when it come to sex, I'm sorry.

Well no, I wanted sexual experience while I was a virgin. I wasn't magically activated by a penis.

Duty or not, legally you don't have to have sex just because you are married.

Is this the biggest non problem ever in the history of relationships?

How can you say where and not penis?

Oh, I can't say it.

I'll try again - whore.

How can you say whore and not penis ?

ooh thrust me in my down there with your longggggggg p.

okay, I guess it a 'me' problem then. I want to test his patience, so I make him wait.
I just don't have high sex drive. I want to be friends with him first, get to know him well, know his childhood, know his family, know his friends.
Get to know him well first.
And we have a huge cultural difference between us, so I want to take time for us to know each others culture.
We both very upfront with each others, we lay everything out on the table for each others to know. There no surprises. When we dating, we both know exactly what we getting into.

okay about his 'p' length. I don't take out the rule to measure him. But let say your palm, if you close your palm, it like 3 inches right? He at least 3 of that palm, so he at least 9 inches, or a bit more.
I heard that those with 9-10 inches down there, it like 5% of the country population. I dunno, he just very long.

He lean body type, He 6'1" and weight 170 lbs. He very lean, I don't know if that play a part in why his down there is too long? Are lean skinny guys down there longggger than average?

SMH.

I'm not a boy, I don't know anywhere in my post sound like a boy. Please point it out.

If you have Paltalk Voice Chat, feel free to come there, I will get on the microphone and let you hear my voice. I can even speak Chinese and Vietnamese to you.
In Paltalk, there Chinese chatroom. I do go there to listen to Chinese news from my homeland.

Penis size is not really related to height. And it's not often an indicator that great sex will follow. You obviously just fit really well.

I might be dumb, but I know how a 12 inches ruler look like.

I did read a thread where a woman say that the average penis size is like half the ruler, 6 inches right?

He much longer than half the ruler. At least a 9, even a 10
It just really longggg. And I heard that it only 5% in the country population of men to that 9-10 inches down there.

I don't know UK measurement, but here in USA, we use inches, and feet.

The fact that you're posting about mind-blowing sex on a site called MUMSNET, not even on the sex board, with a bunch of strangers, acting quite cliche, can't say penis but can say orgasm, cervix, 'thrusting', etc., and are acting all innocent about normal sexual things that wouldn't be a normal problem in a normal person's eyes ... all leads me to believe you're not who you say you are.

Assuming you ARE who you say you are, your sex life is awesome and there is no problem. Congrats.

And the length is just making my eyes water. I'd much prefer shorter and substantial.

I post here because in April I have a thread here in the relationship section.
Since I have an account here, so I log back in and post this thread. I don't know if this site have a Sex category section.

I post in 2 site. This site is UK
There a site that I'm frequent in, it a Baby Center site.

In there I give Live Chinese and Vietnamese translation. Alot of posters there post Chinese postcards images, Chinese words Tattoo, Chinese articles, Chinese painting, and ask me to translate them.
And I did help them, there a whole thread in there that I give live translation in both Vietnamese and Chinese.

I not sure if I can link other site link to here, I don't think I'm allow to do that. But if you want, I can send you the link in a message for you to go read it. My username there also thestairs.

You don't have to prove it me, love, I'm not the forum police. I just think something's fishy is all.

"I'm worried because my husband is great and we have mind-blowing sex and his 'p' is really longgggggg." Yeah, ok.

Anyway, I'll stop derailing, you get back to talking about your 'problems'.

Like Lois, I prefer shorter. (Although sadly my husband is NOT shorter, at all.) It's just another 'porny' detail that seems written from a teenager's perspective.

Ms. LoisPuddingLane, I also think his 'down there' it really longgggggg.
I don't know what to do, I do love him, and we married. I'm not going to leave him just because of his 'down there' length.

Unless he cheats on me or abuse me, then I will leave. But so far he an awesome husband.
Thank you for spare your time give me advice. I know everyone time is precious, so I really appreciate it. Thank you

I think I know what you mean OP. My DH has a long "p" too and it does hurt sometimes even though I'm very experienced (wild teenager!)
You say you tend to stick to one position? Maybe you could try some different ones? There are certain positions I can't do with my DH because it's hurts too much.
I think it's lovely that you're having amazing sex with a loving husband after some of the other stories that I read on here. Keep experimenting and see what suits you both!

I'm still not entirely sure what the problem is that we are advising on. You seem to have a great life. Are you worried that it's all too great?

Waiting for the discussion to turn to girth. His 'p' is so thickkk .

My DH has a long "p" too

FFS, it's catching.

If you are five feet one inch and his PENIS is ten inches, it must fill you almost to your ribs. You must have a very capacious V.

goodnightdarthvader

My husband had a massive cock. Better?

Well, not really. What's wrong with penis? Do you make up euphemisms for your elbow too?

I know I can't link anything outside this forum. But I can link an old thread of mine from Mumsnet right?
Here is my thread back in April when I talk about breakthrough bleeding from my Birth control pills, and about we want to buy a small house.

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/2362869-Married-husband-have-baby-fever-BUT-What-would-you-do-if-you-in-my-situation

That thread was back in April. Everything I say in there is exactly the same as here. Everything from my childhood, to his job, to English is my third language.
I just didn't talk about his 'down there'.

Please don't reply in that thread, it an old zombie thread 8 months ago. But I link it to prove that I'm not lying, I post here before back in April, like I say.