Married/Sex question. Normal for me to feel this way the whole time during sex? much much TMI, sorry

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I'm married, sexually I only have one guy that is my husband. He is my first, and my only sexual partner. So please excuse me for my ignorance in sex.

Sex feels damn good. He he kiss alot during sex, he very caring in bed. I do vaginal orgasm during intercourse. I enjoy sex with my husband, no complain.

Here is my question below. This been on my mind, I always been wanting to ask this, but I'm kindda shy.
Please read below. I want to ask, it is normal for me to feel this way the whole time during sex? I wonder if what I feel is normal or not? TMI below..

Despite his 'down there' it just Too Longggg, like ridiculously long in length.
BUT sex feels damn good, it like he took me somewhere and bring me back. I mean I know I'm in bed with him, but it feels so good that I completely don't know where I'm at anymore.
It hard to describe, but like I completely lost it, I don't know where I'm at anymore. I don't know my surrounding, I don't even know that I'm in bed. ALL I KNOW and ALL I FEEL is his 'down there' he inside me and his thrusting.
Until he he ejaculate, he stop thrusting; that is when I get bring back and know that I'm in bed with him, lol

okay, let see how to word this another way. I understand that sex it the mind and the body.. And I do feel his body, I feel his 'down there' he inside me and his thrusting. And it feel so good that I completely lost it--to the point that I don't know where I'm at, I don't know my surrounding, I don't know I'm in bed. ALL I know and ALL I feel it his 'down there'.
When he ejaculate, he stop thrusting; that when he bring me back.. And I start to know the surrounding, and know that I'm in bed with him.
I understand that sometimes orgasm can be so intense that it make you feel that way.. BUT this is Not just during orgasm only, this is the during the WHOLE time during intercourse when he inside me.

And he the one that do all the work, I pretty much just lay there and he do all the work.. But afterwards I just want to sleep, I drift to sleep afterwards, it is normal?

I know this probably make zero sense.. But that is what I feel during sex, I'm just scare that there something wrong with me. I always wonder if I'm normal or not? He my first and I only sleep with him. So I don't have experience with anyone else for compared, what I know is just based on what he do only.
We a Vanilla couple, just the traditional sex between a man and a woman. I don't know why I feel like that the whole time during sex, it is normal?

Sorry, I use the word 'down there' instead of 'p'.. It just that I find it hard to write out the full 'p' or 'd' word out. Even IRL I can't find myself brave enough to say the "p' or "d" word. I guess I'm just shy when it come to sex, I'm sorry.

I think she's taking the p.

But she can say ejaculate and intercourse.

And apart from a few exceptions her English is very good!

I put in my thread that it much much TMI, but I don't think my thread is that servere to the point of it be dirty or anything. I'm just trying to describe what I feel during sex. He is my first sexual partner, I really don't know anything about sex until him, I married him, he is my husband.

And I lost my virginity at the age 29, yes I know that is ridiculously late age. But I'm Chinese, I didn't grow up educated much about sex. I even admit I'm a prude in sex.

And I was NOT sexually abuse. I was still a virgin when I sleep with my husband.
My mother was controlling, she belittle me throughout my childhood. She verbally abusive and emotionally abusive to me. But not physical abusive, not sexually abusive at all. Do you become 'disassocation' from being verbally abuse?

I'm sorry maybe my English is not very good, but can someone explain to me what you mean by "out of it"?
I never use drugs before so I don't know what drugs is like, but I thought if you 'drugged' during sex, you won't feel much.

I do feel him, I feel his 'p' he inside me, I feel him thrusting. I feel him kiss me at the same time he thrust. That is feel right? Does that means I'm "out of it"?

What I don't know is where I'm at anymore. Like I don't knwo my surrounding, I just know the "feel" that his 'p' giving me. If this make sense, probably not.

About the exact inches of his length, I don't use a ruler to measure his 'p' so I don't know the exact inches. It just he really really longgggg, alot longer than average.
He is the type of guy that wear baggy clothes/baggy pants. Even with the baggy loose fitting pants he wear, you can see the bulge of his pants that he just 'long' down there. He not even erected and it already long, I admit it kindda scary.

I speak fluent English, I know what ejaculate and intercourse means.
What I'm not good at is the English 'grammars'. The verb tenses, the past tenses. My grammars is not perfect, but I know it understandable.

English and Vietnamese is my native languages. English is my third language.

Oh, and he can feel my vaginal orgasm. My husband said he can feel it when I orgasm. He can tell when I orgasm.
And I feel embarrassed that he can feel me orgasm. Do husband usually feels their wife orgasm?

Congratulations !

och, now your just trying to make us jealous with your well endowed partner who has a manly job and still insists on cleaning the bathroom whilst giving you amazing sex yes you are a lucky sod.

I got a bit lost when it turned out he can't be drugging you because he drives lorries, and he owns a penis with hallucinogenic qualities, but generally speaking, erm... Well done you?

I love a nice bit of invention.

If he's your first sexual partner, how do you know It just he really really longgggg, alot longer than average?

Just wondering....

This thread is great !!!!!!!!

Bollocks but great !!!

So your only source of sex information is the internet. As you haven't shagged anyone else you must have picked up average 'p' length from the internet?

How did you find the information if you can't type penis on a computer. You have a mighty fine search engine if it knows what you mean by 'p'

I'm not being facetious, genuinely curious as to how you know average 'p' length.

As an aside if you enjoy it then it really doesn't matter if it's normal or not.

Yes yes we get it, he thrusts.

Enough with the thrusting already

Where do you live OP ?
I'm going to look out for a manly trucker in loose joggers that shows his schlong !
That shags like a dream and cleans the kitchen and bathroom without being asked leaving me to just feed my Doodle !!

SAY PENIS FOR FUCKING FUCKSAKE

My husband said he can feel it when I orgasm. He can tell when I orgasm.
And I feel embarrassed that he can feel me orgasm. Do husband usually feels their wife orgasm?

Men hate it. They really, really hate it. Especially the ones with reallllly long penises. They can't stand it.

I don't need to search the internet about 'p'. Even here in this board, there alot of threads about sex, where posters talk about the average length of the male 'p', and there articles where talk about the average inches of the male 'p'.

I live in USA, I already talk about this back in my thread back in April. I post here in April before.
Posters and the Mod here say they don't discriminate anyone, it doesn't matter if I'm in USA or UK, they say I can post in here.

I don't know where in my post I show off anything. I was being accuse of that my husband 'drugged' me. So I talk about his job, his job required him passed random drugs test, that's all.
You accuse me, so I defend myself, that all to it.
I thanks everyone for the advice, I don't snark at anyone. It is other posters that snark at me.

This is a public board, I'm entitle to post here just like "You" entitle to.
If you find this thread of mine in any way violation of the mumsnet board rule, feel free to report it and let the Mod come here and read it themselves.

it's just a very weird thread. You have astounding, stratospheric sex with a large-membered guy who likes cleaning and you are worried about this?

In my thead I ask if it normal to feel that way during sex. When I first post this thread I wasn't that worried.
But now I am, since there posters in here clearly say that it NOT normal to be 'out of it' during sex. Read the previous pages, there posters said it not normal. So yeah, now I'm a bit worried. That's why I said next time I visit OB/GYN I will asked her if it something I should be concern about.

Normal can be all sorts of things. Some women don't have orgasms - for them that is normal. Some have lots - for them that is normal. Some have what sounds like a transcendental experience - for them that is normal.

I still think your husband must have a magic penis.

It's a weird thread but it's also quite funny!

"I still think your husband must have a magic penis."

Or a magic wand?