Married/Sex question. Normal for me to feel this way the whole time during sex? much much TMI, sorry

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I'm married, sexually I only have one guy that is my husband. He is my first, and my only sexual partner. So please excuse me for my ignorance in sex.

Sex feels damn good. He he kiss alot during sex, he very caring in bed. I do vaginal orgasm during intercourse. I enjoy sex with my husband, no complain.

Here is my question below. This been on my mind, I always been wanting to ask this, but I'm kindda shy.
Please read below. I want to ask, it is normal for me to feel this way the whole time during sex? I wonder if what I feel is normal or not? TMI below..

Despite his 'down there' it just Too Longggg, like ridiculously long in length.
BUT sex feels damn good, it like he took me somewhere and bring me back. I mean I know I'm in bed with him, but it feels so good that I completely don't know where I'm at anymore.
It hard to describe, but like I completely lost it, I don't know where I'm at anymore. I don't know my surrounding, I don't even know that I'm in bed. ALL I KNOW and ALL I FEEL is his 'down there' he inside me and his thrusting.
Until he he ejaculate, he stop thrusting; that is when I get bring back and know that I'm in bed with him, lol

okay, let see how to word this another way. I understand that sex it the mind and the body.. And I do feel his body, I feel his 'down there' he inside me and his thrusting. And it feel so good that I completely lost it--to the point that I don't know where I'm at, I don't know my surrounding, I don't know I'm in bed. ALL I know and ALL I feel it his 'down there'.
When he ejaculate, he stop thrusting; that when he bring me back.. And I start to know the surrounding, and know that I'm in bed with him.
I understand that sometimes orgasm can be so intense that it make you feel that way.. BUT this is Not just during orgasm only, this is the during the WHOLE time during intercourse when he inside me.

And he the one that do all the work, I pretty much just lay there and he do all the work.. But afterwards I just want to sleep, I drift to sleep afterwards, it is normal?

I know this probably make zero sense.. But that is what I feel during sex, I'm just scare that there something wrong with me. I always wonder if I'm normal or not? He my first and I only sleep with him. So I don't have experience with anyone else for compared, what I know is just based on what he do only.
We a Vanilla couple, just the traditional sex between a man and a woman. I don't know why I feel like that the whole time during sex, it is normal?

Sorry, I use the word 'down there' instead of 'p'.. It just that I find it hard to write out the full 'p' or 'd' word out. Even IRL I can't find myself brave enough to say the "p' or "d" word. I guess I'm just shy when it come to sex, I'm sorry.

Fair enough. We are just struggling to see what your problem is. You have a lovely husband and great sex. I should have such problems!

Few posters ask the length of his down there. I try to answer.
The truth is I don't take out the rule to measure him, I really don't know his exact length.
But if use your palm, if you close your palm, it like 3 inches. He at least 3 of that palm, so he at least 9 inches, or a bit more. So that make hm 9-10 inches.
I know it ridiculously long, as I said in my post, he just really long.

For those who call me a teenager boy. That thread was back in April, that is 8 months ago.
If you call me a boy now, that means my thread back in April is a boy too. Feel free to point out anywhere in my thread back in April sound like a boy?

Why over-suspicious in everything? Do you read this thread? I get snark and attack alot in this thread. It not like I'm having alot of cheers and have supporters in this thread.

Anyways, thank you for all the advice given to me. I really appreciate this site. I learn alot from everyone here. Thank you

I think we are over-suspicious because you don't actually seem to have a problem.

Please stop saying "down there", it's a penis.

Different People Like Different Things™

Some like kissing, some don't, some like eyes open, some like eyes closed. Some like long (long only has one g btw), some like short. Some like thick, some like thin.

The only thing we can all agree on is no one likes a smug arse.

Or a smug down there.

TheFirstNoel get away, no one likes thin.

I never watch porn before, so I don't know what porn is.
I also never use toys before. I don't even use lube.
I don't use tampoons, I only use pads.

Beside his 'down there', there NOTHING else that inside me.
I don't let him finger me, I don't let him give me oral sex, because I feel that his lips doesn't belong down there.
I guess it a cultural thing.

Sure you don't have to believe it, but this is the truth. And I'm sure if you go to China, you will find plenty more girls that are like me.

But what is the problem? I don't GET IT.

That's nice dear.

I started this thread ask if what I feel during sex is normal or not. I never say it a problem.
The thread going back and forth and all kinds of questions were asked, so I reply. REPEATED questions ask me, so I have to repeated answer it.

Are down there porn that long? I don't know, I never watch porn. Porn in USA have, but porn sites in CHINA is BANNNED! Even Youtube is banned in China, let alone porn.

We a very Vanilla couple. NO anal, NO oral, NO finger. Just the basic P in V sex. I guess that sound like porn eh?

I wish I was a teenager. I am a 30 years old woman who start to be sexually active at the age of 29

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LOL! I'm sorry if you find that trolling.
But with all due respect, I'm entitle to write anything I want. Just like "YOU" entitle to write anything you want.
If I don't feel comfortable say the word "p" then I don't say it, simple as that.
If you find any of my posts in any way violate Mumsnet rule, feel free to click report it, simple.

And you've had multiple answers saying yes, it's probably normal.

Although he wants to work a bit harder in my opinion. No finger or oral? pfftt.

Is this a USA problem? Perhaps a forum closer to home might understand what your actual problem is.

Any American MNers care to enlighten us.

You don't get to dictate me what word I comfortable use or not.
I do NOT say the word P or D, I do NOT write the word P or D
I say the word "down there' if I want, I'm entitle to. Thank you.

OK, say down there. Say thrust. Say whore. Say whatever the fuck you like. But do tell us why you have a problem. We've said your sexual experience is within the normal range.

Since I was ask by Ms. LoisPuddingLane, so I will answer her questions okay.
His finger does touch my vagina, but outside. His finger NEVER go deep all the way inside my vagina. You know what I mean?

I won't let him give me oral. He wants to, he said he promise it won't hurts. He even want to kiss my down there, but I won't let him. Because I feel that his lips doesn't belong down there.
It a cultural issue, and I'm working on it. Maybe one day I will feel comfortable to let him go down on me.

You still don't say what the problem is. Given that all this is relatively normal. Ish.

I'm bored now anyway. If you actually want some advice, do let us know.

I'm not familiar with mumsnet rule, because I only post 2 threads here, 1 thread back in April (8 months ago), and 1 thread now.

But deliberately call someone a troll without prove, using personal attacks. I dunno if that considered a violation of the rule or not.
Because in the U.S forum, call a posters a troll, is a direct vio.

I don't know where I say I have a problem in this thead, I ask if it normal.
The thread go on, questions was ask so I have to reply to answer. That all.

I can't just talk to myself, because the questions direct to me, so I have to answer it.

If you think I'm trolling, then don't reply to the thread, let it died. It very simple.