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Married/Sex question. Normal for me to feel this way the whole time during sex? much much TMI, sorry

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thestairs · 07/12/2015 05:46

I'm married, sexually I only have one guy that is my husband. He is my first, and my only sexual partner. So please excuse me for my ignorance in sex.

Sex feels damn good. He he kiss alot during sex, he very caring in bed. I do vaginal orgasm during intercourse. I enjoy sex with my husband, no complain.

Here is my question below. This been on my mind, I always been wanting to ask this, but I'm kindda shy.
Please read below. I want to ask, it is normal for me to feel this way the whole time during sex? I wonder if what I feel is normal or not? TMI below..

Despite his 'down there' it just Too Longggg, like ridiculously long in length.
BUT sex feels damn good, it like he took me somewhere and bring me back. I mean I know I'm in bed with him, but it feels so good that I completely don't know where I'm at anymore.
It hard to describe, but like I completely lost it, I don't know where I'm at anymore. I don't know my surrounding, I don't even know that I'm in bed. ALL I KNOW and ALL I FEEL is his 'down there' he inside me and his thrusting.
Until he he ejaculate, he stop thrusting; that is when I get bring back and know that I'm in bed with him, lol

okay, let see how to word this another way. I understand that sex it the mind and the body.. And I do feel his body, I feel his 'down there' he inside me and his thrusting. And it feel so good that I completely lost it--to the point that I don't know where I'm at, I don't know my surrounding, I don't know I'm in bed. ALL I know and ALL I feel it his 'down there'.
When he ejaculate, he stop thrusting; that when he bring me back.. And I start to know the surrounding, and know that I'm in bed with him.
I understand that sometimes orgasm can be so intense that it make you feel that way.. BUT this is Not just during orgasm only, this is the during the WHOLE time during intercourse when he inside me.

And he the one that do all the work, I pretty much just lay there and he do all the work.. But afterwards I just want to sleep, I drift to sleep afterwards, it is normal?

I know this probably make zero sense.. But that is what I feel during sex, I'm just scare that there something wrong with me. I always wonder if I'm normal or not? He my first and I only sleep with him. So I don't have experience with anyone else for compared, what I know is just based on what he do only.
We a Vanilla couple, just the traditional sex between a man and a woman. I don't know why I feel like that the whole time during sex, it is normal?

Sorry, I use the word 'down there' instead of 'p'.. It just that I find it hard to write out the full 'p' or 'd' word out. Even IRL I can't find myself brave enough to say the "p' or "d" word. I guess I'm just shy when it come to sex, I'm sorry.

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thestairs · 07/12/2015 07:47

I know for sure he NOT drugged me.

He is a Tanker truck driver, he hauls gasoline an fuel liquid. He hauling 10,000 gallons of highly flammable gasoline/fuel, delivered 5-6 loads per day. He does work long hours.
His tanker truck driving job required perfect clean driving record, passed all drugs and alcohol test. Passed all background check, and passed random drugs test too.
He does not use drugs, he does not smoke, he does not drink.

I'm the one that cook, when he home from work I serve him food on the table and we eat dinner together. We go to bed together and wake up at the same time.
My eyes never leave the food from the time I put food on the table, to the time he eat it. How can he put drugs in it?

What I know is I love him.
I'm sexually attracted to him. I'm attracted to the way he carries himself. I'm attracted to his strength of character. He treats me really well, he secure everthing from emotionally to financially, I live a life without much to worry.

Eversince I married him, all I have to do is cook and wash dishes. He work long hours everyday, so I take over the cooking.
He does help me wash dishes when he home. He cleans the kitchen, do all the heavy cleaning and maintenance around the house. He voluntary do all the vacuum, and bathroom cleaning.. NEVER once he let me clean the bathroom; he wants to clean the toilet and restroom 'his' ways.

Welp, since he do everything around the house already, all that left for me to do is cooking and feed my little doodle, lol
And yeah give him sex, that about it.

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thestairs · 07/12/2015 07:51

okay, thank you. I will talk to my OB/GYN in the next visit.

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Jo4040 · 07/12/2015 08:00

Bloodyhell Grin

LoisPuddingLane · 07/12/2015 08:04

delivered 5-6 loads per day

oooo-er. You must be sore.

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thestairs · 07/12/2015 08:08

? I mean his fuel Tanker truck driving job, he hauls gasoline an fuel liquid. He hauling 10,000 gallons of highly flammable gasoline/fuel, delivered 5-6 loads per day. He work long hours.

I really appreciate all inputs and advice. I'm not arguing, anything is possible right? Including he 'drugged' me.
Next time I go to OB/GYN, I will ask her if what I feel during sex is normal or not. Thank you.

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RealityCheque · 07/12/2015 08:15

Drugged? Get a grip folks

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LoisPuddingLane · 07/12/2015 08:25

If it's normal for you, it's normal. This is really not a problem...

Cabrinha · 07/12/2015 08:34

Get a job.
It's not good for anyone to only have to cook for and have sex with their little doodle.

Through your job you might in time make some very good friends, good enough to talk to about sex.

It's not normal to not even be able type 'penis' on a thread where you've told it's fine to. 'P word' is ridiculous.

You found scarily passive.

Mermaidhair1 · 07/12/2015 08:36

Can I borrow your husband please?

SauvignonBlanche · 07/12/2015 08:43

Your writing style seems familiar OP. Hmm

LoisPuddingLane · 07/12/2015 08:46

Oh is the doodle the 5-6 deliveries a day person? I thought it might be a dog. One of those cross breeds.

LoisPuddingLane · 07/12/2015 08:49

If you've only had this one lover, how do you know his penis is too long? Ridiculously long? It could be an average dong, but with magic powers.

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thestairs · 07/12/2015 08:50

I have a job, I work M-F, I have Sat-Sun off. Eventhough I make much much less than my husband, but I have a job.
And Doddle is a little dog, like a little Poodle dog.

I don't know why some posters would jump to the conclusion like my husband 'drugged' me, and I don't have a job. I never mentioned about drugs, or mentioned about my job in my post.

And in my Chinese culture, we weren't grow up educated much about sex. I grow up without taught about sex, and I'm not comfortable with write the word 'p'. I'm sorry if I write the 'p' word bother you.

To "SauvignonBlance", I did post here before, but it was back in April.
I have a thread back in April, where I talk about my husband have baby fever. And we trying to save up money to buy a small fore-closured house.

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thestairs · 07/12/2015 08:55

He my first and only sexual part. But I'm not dumb, I know the 'average p' length. He is much longer than the average length. I know inches, I'm not that dumb.

And Doddle is a little dog, like a little Poodle dog. It my dog, I don't have any children yet. This is my pet, I didn't think having a little poodle dog is that strange.

To "SauvignonBlance", I did post here before, but it was back in April.
I talk about childhood with a my mother that was very controlling and verbally/emotionally abusive.
My mother didn't approved my husband. And I got alot of pressure on my Chinese side of the family, because my mother completely cut me off after I got married.
It back in April, 8 months ago, didn't think anyone would remember my writing style. Must be my not so good grammars, English is my third language, sorry.

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LoisPuddingLane · 07/12/2015 08:56

The average penis length varies greatly between cultures. Anyway, it's good if you like a long one. Can't stand them myself, it feels like my ovaries are being attacked.

Cabrinha · 07/12/2015 09:02

Ah, sorry about the Doddle comment - I thought you were calling your husband your little Doddle!

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thestairs · 07/12/2015 09:06

It is okay Ms. Cabrinha,
English is my third language, I know sometimes I don't come across clearly enough in my posts. My apologize to you.

I work a minimum wage job, because I don't have any college degree. I didn't go to college, so minimum wage job is what I qualify for. But I do have a job.

Thank you for everyone replies, I really appreciated all of it. I'm not ruling out any possibilities, including my husband somehow 'drugged' me, and I'm not sexually normal.

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metimeisforwimps · 07/12/2015 09:15

If you trust him, and you feel safe, it sounds great. I think because you have a good relationship its perhaps easy for your mind and body to be completely present during second. Just make sure he enjoys it as much as you Wink

metimeisforwimps · 07/12/2015 09:16

Second = sex sorry!

Dipankrispaneven · 07/12/2015 09:23

Suggestions of drugging are ridiculous. What drug starts working the moment a man enters a woman and stops working as soon as he climaxes and withdraws?

BartholinsSister · 07/12/2015 09:23

Just how long is this p thing that he has?

KitKat1985 · 07/12/2015 09:24

Well, I'd say it's quite unusual to feel that 'out of it' during sex, but in all honesty as long as you are enjoying yourself and have a happy relationship, then it doesn't really matter.

goodnightdarthvader1 · 07/12/2015 09:25

This thread is weird. Lots of repeated sections too.

Thaila · 07/12/2015 09:26

I think this is a wind up!

EvaBING · 07/12/2015 09:26

How long is his schlong?

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