Anal sex

[feelinghothothot]

Any real advice on how to enjoy this without biting the pillows? I've tried it a couple of times but I know dp would love to do it more. I'm also keen to get into it. Lube, toys - can someone steer me right?

[gatewalker]

If you don't need it, NoMore, then fair enough. Though, as you know, a friction-based tear in the rectal area can be serious in a way that it simply isn't in the vagina. It might work for some, but for most I would suggest it does not.

[EhricLovesTheBhrothers]

Why would it be smug? Your arse doesn't self lubricate so if you aren't using lube you're likely to tear the skin. Anal fissures aren't fun! (Never got one from anal but childbirth)

[Redglitter]

gatewalker Having done it this way many times we've found the 'natural lube' my partner seems to produce is enough. It's not something that we do very often or for very long. We usually prefer to move on to other things

[FluffyMcnuffy]

A cock that produces natural lube .

Well I never!

[SurfBoredCat]

I really enjoy anal but think it takes a really considerate partner and some 'training' to get used to it. I can orgasm just as easily through anal now as I do through vaginal sex but like everything, it's a matter of preference! I've never enjoyed it with anyone else the way I do with my current partner but that's true of all things sexual!
My first tip would be: don't do it if you're not into it but if you do want to persevere then I'd say use lots of lube when you start out but maybe have him finger you first and/or use a butt plug. I also find that missionary is easier than doggy style as long as your partner is considerate!
FWIW my partner lets me 'peg' him so all is fair in our relationship!

[NoelHeadbands]

Nomore I'm not sure why anyone would be smug about having a naturally slippery arsehole. That is a weird thing to brag about.

Dying laughing at the phrasing of this

[Meepandyoup]

To me it just felt like doing a massive poo, that kept going back in.
Howling here.

[Redglitter]

lol Fluffy I was struggling to think how to describe it. If we're taking our time at things my partners cock tends to be really really wet - so much so if it is that works instead. if it's not then we use lube but it's just never been as effective I think he tends to use too much. Anyway it works for us

[GinUpGirl]

I really enjoy it. I find that something in my bum makes my clit more sensitive, so I use a vibe and have DH go at it. The feeling is through the roof.

I am well trained in bum fun and it has taken much practice. I douche first, and stretch myself out with various toys before a penis is possible.

[UnknownMoniker]

redglitter I was with someone who's cock self lubed once too.

[gamerchick]

You have to dilate it first.. If you just go in hammer and tongs without any or much prep then it will hurt.

[Redglitter]

unknownmonkier I'm glad you know what I mean. I've never experienced it in the past until my current partner. Certainly handy at times

[UnknownMoniker]

It was a surprise, when I first found out, but yes it did come in handy

I found it was nothing like cum, it wasn't white or thick, it was clear and.... well... err.. lube like, also his was very slightly sweet.

[Redglitter]

Yes!! That's why I didn't want to describe it as precum cos it's totally different and yes ehm tastes different too

[Koalafications]

To me it just felt like doing a massive poo, that kept going back in.

[Koalafications]

[ouryve]

If you don't like it, don't do it. Your DH can get his kicks in other ways.

[SteamTrainsRealAleandOpenFires]

You mean "pre-cum"?

[SteamTrainsRealAleandOpenFires]

Oops draott*.

*didn't read all of the thread.

[WaltJunior]

I found it was nothing like cum, it wasn't white or thick, it was clear and.... well... err.. lube like, also his was very slightly sweet

Sweat maybe?

[GlitzAndGigglesx]

Fucking hell I meant to click a thread above this and I'm about to eat

[Redglitter]

No most definitely absolutely nothing like sweat

[UnknownMoniker]

Walt Urgh God no,

it came out the hole, if you gentle squeezed you'd see it ooze over. It's texture real is lube like.

[horseygeorgie]

I haven't done it for years (although to be far, i haven't had sex for years either!) but with my ex DH i loved it. we had to take it veeery slowly as he was quite large and with lots of clitorial stimulation but it was mind blowingly good.

[UnknownMoniker]

Just googled it and I think it was precum this guy had, it looks similar to some of the pics, its just he had load and loads of it, still a perfect natural lubricant

But I've never come across it (like what he had ) before or after, Yes I've seen some men have had precum but not nearly as much, plus thicker and just before they cum.