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Oh F*ck! What have I done? [sad]

355 replies

CompletelyShocked · 02/06/2010 08:23

Namechanged for this.

After being treated like shit by men for all of my life, I finally met the man of my dreams 2 years ago on a dating site. He moved in not long after we met, we get on brilliantly, he adores my DD, his family have taken myself and my DD on as their own etc...

Our wedding is all booked for next year in Cyprus, lots of family and friends booked to come with us - brilliant, life couldnt get any better!

Until yesterday, for some reason, I put his old username from the dating site into Google - and up came a Transsexual Dating site. I tried to view the profile of this member on the site but had to register to do so. So I did. There's no name on there but hometown, height, starsign, birthday etc. all match with DP . I then sent him a message from my new account on there just asking how he was doing and why he didnt have any pictures on there. He replied this morning (after getting up for work) that he needed to be discreet and was a bit shy.

I have replied again but he's at work all day so not sure he'll get on to reply (if it is DP!).

I'm pretty sure it is though, my heart is racing. What have I done? What if it is him? How do i bring this up with him? Maybe I shouldn't have snooped? Please help.

OP posts:
AnyFucker · 01/07/2010 19:34

I would blame her for settling for a liar

just because there is a child, does that mean she should suck it up (whatever the fuck it is )

she knows, to deny it now is just asking for more heartbreak in the long run, tbh

fyimate · 01/07/2010 21:12

Quite true, I just mean she may see it as the more "digestible" solution rather than facing her fears.

AnyFucker · 01/07/2010 21:13

ah, I see

it might be more digestable, but she is deluding herself

fyimate · 01/07/2010 21:28

Dammit, I wrote it right first time, googled it to make sure and "digestible" came up...

AnyFucker · 01/07/2010 21:49
Grin
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