Sex Drive clash :o)

[Littleblue]

If anyone who was on a previous thread reads this..the ironies rather amusing!..I'm seeing a lovely man..he's everything i could want , funny ,attractive and intelligent..
We "sing from the same song sheet"?BUT...he is apathetic in bed...very low drive , and the sex we do have is invariably instigated and driven by me...I have a very redblooded sex drive.How likely (given we have been together only a couple of months)is this to be an enormous problem long term?..

PMSL!!!!!!!!!!!!

Why am i suddenly seeing one of those executive toys from the 80's?

Gibran..you really do make sense..but look at it another way,if for example he was passionate something which i was only mildly interested in on occasion..(a suitable analogy escapes me...if there could be one)I might make a token effort,out of courtesy etc..yeah?but my hearts not in it..i just dont think he has it in him..he just isnt wired that way...as a man with a relatively low drive compared with your wife,as you say,you can empathise with your wife/situation..but for me this is a bit more fundamental...im veryhighly sexed..i can't help it i just 'am'..we are polar opposites,theres bugger all middle ground to find...

too much emphasis scuse' ;)

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I feel rotten now...poor man,he's so nice!...such a shame sex/intimacy matters..but it does!

is this familiar?

is this ?

sorry, couldn't help it. Poor sod. And poor you.

But you know this relationship's headed nowhere. Bloody shame, but you can't be with someone with such a paucity of intimacy.

BLOODY NORA!!! you GITS LMAO!!!..jujusdad..male i take it?
I'm glad you see it re intimacy...i might be a nutter but i'm a very loving one..and it feels like stony ground.

Do you think the cycling might have eroded his tackle? Perhaps suggest a more padded saddle? Or one with an aperture so things can dangle a bit?

HAHAHAHA!!!!!!...erm,eroded tackle..what an image i didnt need ...think pickled walnut...close enough

TBH I think the man is basically Just Not That Into You. WHy not suggest simply being friends with him, if he's pleasant company but rubbish in bed and not interested in expending any effort at sex? Then you can enjoy the nice companionship and are free to shag anyone else appealing you run into.

actually....a saddle with an 'aperture' is worse in my minds eye.....eugh!! cue 'last turkey in the shop'

Been real lifing, Shiney

SGB..he says i'm the woman he's been waiting for lol..a dream come true etc etc...when hes mashed.....im erring to friendship..doesnt feel like the beginning of something significant..

in text..dwunk...yeah i know,hes not that drippy in real time!

shiney...you and JJD ?

Yes, I'm male.

You know..i 'guessed'