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Sex Drive clash :o)

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Littleblue · 12/04/2010 09:55

If anyone who was on a previous thread reads this..the ironies rather amusing!..I'm seeing a lovely man..he's everything i could want , funny ,attractive and intelligent..
We "sing from the same song sheet"?BUT...he is apathetic in bed...very low drive , and the sex we do have is invariably instigated and driven by me...I have a very redblooded sex drive.How likely (given we have been together only a couple of months)is this to be an enormous problem long term?..

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AnyFucker · 12/04/2010 21:22

shiney...can you get 'em both in ?

on 2nd thoughts, don't answer that

RumourOfAHurricane · 12/04/2010 21:24

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Littleblue · 12/04/2010 21:24

you are a BAD BAD woman....LMAO!!

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RumourOfAHurricane · 12/04/2010 21:25

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Littleblue · 12/04/2010 21:26

ach...yours sounds MUCH more interesting...carry on

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JuJusDad · 12/04/2010 21:27

fwiw, I don't think it's a case of he's not that into you.

It could be that he just has a low sex drive, for whatever reason.

I do have a sneaking suspiscion that he's aware that it's low, based on what he says when drunk. There's a feeling of "I know this isn't right, and Littleblue you're so lovely to put up with it. Please put up with it."

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AnyFucker · 12/04/2010 21:29

very noble of you, shiney

particularly since His Nibs is here...oh, hello JJD, didn't see you lurking around there..

keep shtum, I get ya < taps nose >

sparkles22 · 12/04/2010 21:30

at least with small balls they don't slap against your arse in doggy style but I don't suppose they look good in a pair of speedos either...

JuJusDad · 12/04/2010 21:32

Bloody hell, AF, I'm not even lurking. I save that for the cult thread(s)

I'm trying to post helpful stuff.

Littleblue · 12/04/2010 21:32

SPARKLES!!!!!!!..fuck me i shot tea all over the damn keyboard then!!

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Littleblue · 12/04/2010 21:34

JJD...i think your right...nail on head

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BattyKoda · 12/04/2010 21:36

LB - I can see your thread has moved on, but I would to offer some words of caution...

If you continue with this man and his low sex drive, and your high sex drive, you will end up ringing a sex line.

AnyFucker · 12/04/2010 21:36

carry on JJD, you are doing a sterling job

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Littleblue · 12/04/2010 21:40

Batty..ive continued text sex that i should have cut off before (3 days ago)not good of me..not at all

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JuJusDad · 12/04/2010 21:41

BK = legend.

BTW, I agree with SGB, CoolFonz, and of course, Shiney on your thread, BK.

JuJusDad · 12/04/2010 21:41

*is

Littleblue · 12/04/2010 21:41

He's buried in his Uni work..if i text him that hes gonna think his iphone has a virus LOL

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AnyFucker · 12/04/2010 21:43

BK

Littleblue · 12/04/2010 21:43

I could say i'm confused and missing the point..but that sounds like a pun..

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Littleblue · 12/04/2010 21:44

Sex text guy is reconciled with his wife..after a few months of intense exchange..he lives a fecking long way away too...and 9 years younger....etc

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