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Sex Drive clash :o)

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Littleblue · 12/04/2010 09:55

If anyone who was on a previous thread reads this..the ironies rather amusing!..I'm seeing a lovely man..he's everything i could want , funny ,attractive and intelligent..
We "sing from the same song sheet"?BUT...he is apathetic in bed...very low drive , and the sex we do have is invariably instigated and driven by me...I have a very redblooded sex drive.How likely (given we have been together only a couple of months)is this to be an enormous problem long term?..

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MamaGlee · 12/04/2010 16:33

God imagine how mortified the poor bloke would be if he read this thread

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Malificence · 12/04/2010 16:34

Shiney, believe me, I'm on half rations atm, DH has a back injury and I'm having to be very gentle with him, it's getting somewhat frustrating, but he is still trying.

MamaGlee · 12/04/2010 16:35

yes do send that text

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Littleblue · 12/04/2010 16:37

LOL!!!!!!..i texted the other day i would need 'tender handling' wink when we got together..he texted back that i shouldnt work so hard grrrr... i'm fucking rolling at the thought of sending a hard core text!

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MamaGlee · 12/04/2010 16:38

send it! Maybe he's holding back and really he's a raging sex beast and he's scared of frightening you off when he gets going!

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MamaGlee · 12/04/2010 16:39

htat is his leetle balls

oh god you should SO~ namechnage to littleblueballs

Littleblue · 12/04/2010 16:39

He's so PC..the shock might kill him!..ive been sexting away..to distract myself lol..just cut that off (again) tho..dont believe in an ideal man anymore

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Littleblue · 12/04/2010 16:40

sexting a cyber buddy..not littleballs lol

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MamaGlee · 12/04/2010 16:41

In all seriousness thogh, if I couldn't send that text to my man, he wouldn't be my man for long

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Littleblue · 12/04/2010 16:44

I was trying to go gentle on him..i'm well versed in hardcore (so to speak)..he's not shy in so much as just not 'sexual'..he's made a few jokey "carry on" remarks if he's had a skinful...nothing moistening

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MamaGlee · 12/04/2010 16:45

LOL at feathery stroker

I once said to ex "will you stop faffing around FGS"

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Littleblue · 12/04/2010 16:47

Erm coughs..cyber buddy is another story...quite a long one tbh lol....theres another thread knocking around about him , in short,he is now reunited with his wife..so i wont play 'hide the cyber sausage' anymore...weve been buggering about in IM for several months

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Littleblue · 12/04/2010 16:48

'feathery stroker'..now i am choking!!! PMSL!!! 'stop faffing" fucking hell..what a bunch of oversexed harpies we are!!

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MamaGlee · 12/04/2010 16:49

he'd been stroking featheringly for abou 15 minutes and I was BORED (and pissed)

Littleblue · 12/04/2010 16:49

`i find these people on the internet shiny ..and they find me...

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Littleblue · 12/04/2010 16:50

Yep mama..i know that one..."Just get on with it"

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MamaGlee · 12/04/2010 16:51

I finished with the poor bloke when I'd sneakily read a magazine as he took me from behind

I knew then that it was over