Sex Drive clash :o)

[Littleblue]

If anyone who was on a previous thread reads this..the ironies rather amusing!..I'm seeing a lovely man..he's everything i could want , funny ,attractive and intelligent..
We "sing from the same song sheet"?BUT...he is apathetic in bed...very low drive , and the sex we do have is invariably instigated and driven by me...I have a very redblooded sex drive.How likely (given we have been together only a couple of months)is this to be an enormous problem long term?..

oh, just caught up on this thread

my kids are looking at me like this

I may have wet my knickers a little bit (sorry, BOF, I expect I am peri-menopausal and knicker-wetting is a bad, baaaaad sign )

am hoping for a bit of the ol' greasy pole myself actually, this evening...am getting shut of the kids

I do apolologise for the TMI

oh dear god...i only went offline for a wee while (note to self stop drinkng tea whilst on this thread)...i am certainly NOT texting him suggesting anal coning(or combing pmsl)..he has really small hands...i could end up as the worlds largest Marigold...and i'm realising i'm not quite the deviant i suspected i was ...i mean..what if he jumped at the suggestion??!!...if he turns out to be an anal fetishist it really is doomed!!

lol at wee...'anyfuckintenalady'...i might have too ...

oh christ this threads funny as fuck..i keep spotting bits..i just kinda barked laughter at the boxing glove..now even the dog thinks i've lost it...

I just got a message that he 'has no time for personal life atm'..i think i just got dumped!?

You've had a result there I think.

Saved me dealing i guess...bit stung tho!

Ah the power of mumsnet...

lol...IF i had done the dumping..yeah!

do you think he's lurking somewhere on MN and that's why he's got "no time"...too busy reading this thread??!!

Christ what a thought! lol..he's on my facebook,but hardly ever reads it..or his own for that matter..

Apparently we have a 'good friendship' going??..thats pc speak for 'your dumped' eh..dammit,i so wanted to get in there first..im far too much of a diva

Don't worry about getting in first,you've been the better person by letting him think the decision is entirely his.No reason why you can't still be friends.Now get out there a find yourself a indecent decent shag.

Can i opt for indecent please? .yeah i know,i spose the other sides due one..ive dumped the last 5 fellas ive been with in the last 10 years ..i was thinking marbles was a friendship more than a lover anyways...

That text wasnt 'that' strong......i really didnt stand a chance of a quality sex life there did i?!

Ding Dong...You're not wrong!