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Sex Drive clash :o)

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Littleblue · 12/04/2010 09:55

If anyone who was on a previous thread reads this..the ironies rather amusing!..I'm seeing a lovely man..he's everything i could want , funny ,attractive and intelligent..
We "sing from the same song sheet"?BUT...he is apathetic in bed...very low drive , and the sex we do have is invariably instigated and driven by me...I have a very redblooded sex drive.How likely (given we have been together only a couple of months)is this to be an enormous problem long term?..

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Littleblue · 12/04/2010 21:45

Shit no...its a matching set

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Littleblue · 12/04/2010 21:46

gawd..i didnt post that did i?

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AnyFucker · 12/04/2010 21:46

aww, I was hoping the lack in the balls dept would be made up for in other ways...

has he a very long tongue ?

< hopeful >

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Littleblue · 12/04/2010 21:47

dont know..only seen a bit of it once...

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Littleblue · 12/04/2010 21:49

now i have guilt..i need therapy lol...poor man!..his sons are Goliaths,it all works..but hes 'modest' in stature...small hands etc..

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Littleblue · 12/04/2010 21:50

in bed...none..out of it hes fab..he cooks,tidies up..even puts the ruddy loo seat down!

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sparkles22 · 12/04/2010 21:51

has he got a big cock though?? this has never been confirmed...lol

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Littleblue · 12/04/2010 21:51

Hes a very intelligent man...hugely creative,i love that side of it..makes the lack of intimacy more frustrating tbh

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Littleblue · 12/04/2010 21:52

scroll back sparkles...re 'matching set'?

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LoveJules3 · 12/04/2010 21:53

So him, plus a well hung guy with a rampant libido and you're set for life!

sparkles22 · 12/04/2010 21:53

God the messages are going up so fast I am having information overload!

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JuJusDad · 12/04/2010 21:58

been reading this Mainly seems load of, er, bobbins, but there would appear to be anecdotal evidence that:

a) male genitalia generally come as a matching set
b) small testes correlate to low sperm count

I would guess they also correlate to low testosterone, low self-esteem, etc...

It's quite likely he's been dumped before over this, but you know what? You're not the right person for him, and he's not the right person for you.

So if you do stay with him, that's only going to become increasingly apparrant / problematic.

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Littleblue · 12/04/2010 22:00

LOL!..the guy in wales had the sexclick(has)..but back with wife...end of

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AnyFucker · 12/04/2010 22:00

JJD..you are incorrect there, sorry

Low sperm count does not correlate with low testosterone at all

PeppermintPasty · 12/04/2010 22:02

his sons are goliaths?? i take it they're too young? sorry, i couldn't help it when i read that. i'm now deeply ashamed. .

it's your fault anyway, was only lurking but i've been laughing so loud my dp has stopped tiling the bathroom. dammit. (big balls btw).

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Littleblue · 12/04/2010 22:03

Jjd..your right..we agreed this earlier i think..i had guessed that his low drive was due to a low testosterone level...ive lived with the other end of that spectrum..he has 3 kids btw..so it works (damn me to hell)

Do count blessings..SO do..he needs a woman with feck all sex drive..happy days

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AnyFucker · 12/04/2010 22:03

PP...did he tell you to say that ?

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Littleblue · 12/04/2010 22:04

LMAOO!!!!..his sons are strapping 6ft 4 lads..younger tho..than my eldest son..so of NO interest ...damn i love mumsnet at night

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PeppermintPasty · 12/04/2010 22:05

alway AF, always... Bit of a social problem TBH!

JuJusDad · 12/04/2010 22:06

AF - I did say I would guess...

I stand corrected, and stand by the rest of my post

sparkles22 · 12/04/2010 22:06

maybe you should suggest ball augmentation...dogs can have them cosmetically put back when they have the snip and I am sure men can get them on the NHS if he asks!! This might boost his self esteem in turn making him feel like a sex god and taking all his years of pent up frustration out on you :O)