Another thread about sex - I've been asked if I would try something new.

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Anal sex.

Never done this. Terrified that it will hurt but I am curious iyswim.

Have any other ladies out there tried it?

I really need advise on this one before I go for it. Please help.

Can't be bothered to name change.

Use lots of lube and patience. It does hurt yes.

You need to have trust with your partner and make sure that he takes it out as soon as you say.

My dp loves it best.
I like it too. It doesnt hurt, but it isnt always very comfortable.
Are you adventurous in the bedroom? If so, try using a vibrator at the same time - sends me wild!
TMI ALERT TMI ALERT

Yes it hurts

no it not worth it

yes he will want it again and again if you let him

And fgs if you agree make sure u go toilet and have a bath 1st!

Why isnt there a sex section? It is much needed.

Yes, have bath first.

he can reach round and play with the rest of you at the same time - far nicer.

I have as a younger woman. Don't really see the point and fortunately neither does my dh! You need to be really relaxed. It's ok, but pretty dull, ime!

OR, do it in the shower to try it first and see what you think! I did once, and couldnt feel a thing.

If you trust your DP and are not appalled by the idea, give it a go and see how you feel. SOme women love it, some hate it. Tell him to use lots of lube and go slowly.

Also, suggest getting a dildo and doing the same to him (not in a man-hating revenge style but because a lot of men actaully LUUURVE being done up the bum by a girl). Good luck. And don't indulge just after a hefty curry.

Roffle at 'don't indulge after a hefty curry'.

Yes we do need a sex section for this kind of thing.

So does a women get any pleasure out of it at all?

The going to the loo before hand worries me. I will be so nervous I wouldn't be able to go, iyswim .

I'm probably not that adventurous. I don't own a vibrator.

What lubricant can be used there?

Another thought. What about piles . I've had them in the past.

Lubricant?

Butter.

It wont be a pretty sight for him if you have

Does size matter? I'm a petite size 6. He's 6 ft and big built. Am I talking rubbish now.

I would like to try it but am apprehensive.

Lube, lots of it. Make sure he enters veeery slowly - not gonna lie, it does hurt, but once the initial 'entering' is over with, as long as he takes it slowly, then it can be quite enjoyable Don't tense up, as hard as it is, it's natural to tense up when you feel something going into something that normally only has things coming out

Lying on your back and putting your ankles/legs onto his shoulders while he kneels infront of you is a good position for anal.

Be prepared to feel like you have alot of wind afterwards, especially if you try it in the doggy position

Baby oil?

Screwedup: basically that whole area of your body (fanjo, bumhole and perineum ie the bit in between) is packed with nerve endings, all of which can benefit from stimulation. So it can be genuinely pleasurable of itself as well as the thrills some people feel about doing a sex act that's still kind of taboo and naughty.
As to the going to the loo beforehand, well some people recommend an enema first, but others think that's a bit excssive. WIthout wishing to get really TMI about this, if you are, erm, regular in your bowel habits and usually only 'go' after breakfast, your lower bowel will probably not be full at bedtime. Mind you, if he does get a bit of poo on the end of his tackle it's not the end of the world, sex often is messy.
As to lubricants, I'd rather advise an unscented one - you can get them from Boots or fancier stuff from your local sex shop if you like visiting it.

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Lots of pleasure to be had around that area! (or so I've heard) If I where to do it now I'd make sure nothing went too deep.

SLeepycat: some women really do like anal. And there is no harm in trying it, which it sounds like the OP wants to do.

try a finger first to see if you like it or not?