Would this bother you? I feel like it shouldn't but for some reason it is

[Blushingm]

Been with bf a year.

We were both drunk last night......he told me that when he split from his wife he joined Grindr and hooked up with men on 3 occasions.

He was married 23 years - met her at 18

I'm not sure if I'm feeling weird as he hooked up as that's not his usual thing or that i feel weird because they were men?

He'd slept with 2 women before his wife and then me (he dated someone before me but didn't sleep with her)

I think I'm being unreasonable feeling odd about it.....could also be that I'm worried he likes men more than women so I can't compete

50450750q I would have thought that was obvious . I prefer to be with a straight man

@Blushingm It would 100% bother me and I would end it. If it doesn’t bother you then fair enough but he’s clearly open to men and that changes the dynamics for me.

No not obvious.

Why?

@CryIDareYou this thread is from 2023, just fyi.

Doubt original posters are still engaged.

This!

Nobody owes anybody any explanation about their past. If they choose to offer this information it’s another matter. If you have been happy the time that you have been together, that is what counts. it’s not a competition.