I have found out that one of our neighbours appears to be having an affair. He is married with a child. We don't really know one another although I know his and his wife's names. I don't know the woman I saw him with.
I don't know whether to post an anonymous note to his wife or not.
I also don't know if my own experience is affecting my judgement. Years ago, one of my neighbours tried telling me my own husband was having an affair. She didn't do it directly and I didn't cotton on so it was only later when I found out about his affair that I realised what she had been trying to tell me. I felt grateful she had tried to intervene.
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If you saw a neighbour having an affair?
CheeseOnToastFan · 03/01/2023 09:30
bestchristmasever · 03/01/2023 09:32
How do you know the woman he was with was an affair partner?
bestchristmasever · 03/01/2023 09:34
I embrace and kiss my brother, my male best friend and female friends. We are not having an affair.
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WandaWonder · 03/01/2023 09:42
The only way you could think it is is a good idea is if you expect to be thanked nicely by the person being cheated on (if that was the case)
So in a way it is about your feelings not theirs
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