Hello, im not really sure what im asking but want some recognition that my situation is crap.
Husband (48) and his drinking. Hes a daily drinker anyway. He has a full time job. No issues there. Over the last week or two, hes drank daily more so than usual because hes been off work and its Christmas/NY. Id estimate around 20 units a day (today for example its been a bottle of wine and 4 strong beers).
he does not see a problem with his drinking but i think its just too much. Even in a normal week, i think he drinks too much (beer after work). He would say he doesnt have a problem as he isnt drinking spirits. I find it really boring as we dont do anything with the children. I mean i do take them out but i do a lot of things on my own with them, he does his own thing (usually involves mates and pubs). Already feel like a single parent in a lot of ways.
if i try to bring the subject up, he doesn’t want to discuss it, gets angry and agressive and makes me feel like im blowing it out of proportion.
am i? Do your other halves drink daily? I bet they dont Christmas or not.
im wondering about calling it a day
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Husband and his drinking
Helen901 · 01/01/2023 21:24
Spanky123 · 14/01/2023 09:58
Divorce him straight away, today (will say most of mumsnet)!! The poor man needs help and his family should be there for him.
Adviceneeded200 · 01/01/2023 21:27
No. My husband will drink a bottle of wine on his own - apparently it goes off? But not if he's driving next day. So that rules out nights with work next day and if we are going anywhere.
He's probably drunk like this 4 times in 10 day holiday. Once back to work, one night a week maximum
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