Have you ever had mind-blowing sex?

[momtoboys]

And did it effect how others compared?

Yeah. First time I had great sex I was 19, I'd just ended things with my childhood boyfriend who I had boring sex with, so was pretty inexperienced. It was with an Aussie barman who was spending a year in the UK. I fancied him like mad and we ended up seeing each other for a few weeks before he went back to Australia. Let's just say I knew what a good shag was after my time with him. I have amazing sex with my husband, but Aussie barman sticks in my mind as the one who showed me how great it could be.

Yes. I married him sharpish!

Yes plenty of times pre husband and with my husband.

Most memorable pre husband was the 17th birthday shag!

No, I’ve had good sex where I did orgasm and average sex with none but I am truly mystified as to what other posters mean when they talk about mind blowing sex. What exactly differentiates between good and mind blowing?

Yes, with a younger partner who I was infatuated with and he was with me, but I wanted a child and he wasn't ready.

Incredible memories but I wouldn't give up my child for more of those memories though under any circumstances.

Fuck yes* and I'd sell my granny to have it again
*I'm a lesbian.

Oh yes. Not for a while though 🤷‍♀️

Sounds like a cliche, yeah whatever, but after 15 years of marriage and 3 kids, I'm 40 and dh is in his 50s, we are having THE best sex of our lives! It's amazing. I can't remember enjoying sex this much even when I was a young thing!

Yes, when I was in my early 20s, I was in a relationship with a much older man in his 40s. I’ve never experienced anything like it since.
It was so loving and passionate, he’s the only guy who’s made me orgasm through piv sex and I’ve had a lot of sexual partners.

I enjoy sex much more now in my 40s than ever before (been with my husband nearly 20 years, so it's pretty much always been with the same guy!) For me I think the biggest revelation has been coming off the pill for the first time since I was about 17. I had very little sex drive on the pill (unsurprisingly, now I think about it!) and now I'm starting to worry about how it'll be post menopause 😟

But to answer the actual question- yes, I've had sex that's so good that you genuinely forget where you are, and properly float back down to earth afterwards.

Yea and I'm still happily married to him.

*Yes

Not really, no. Sometimes all very nice etc but couldn't ever describe sex as mind blowing - having had more than the average number of partners. Probably I'm ultimately not all that bothered.

For me personally it was 24 orgasms in a row when other partners have struggled to get me there once and it has involved a lot of me doing/thinking things to get me there.

She just 'got' me. She knew how my body worked, she knew what to say and what to do and drove me insane. I've had it with two people actually but one of them had the edge, just.
It's making me sad as I feel I may never experience it again

You first, op...

Yes

@WalkerWalking

like you, I have had “out of body experience”. sex. Still hoping to replicate it nearly 40 years later!

Yes, one was a three night stand and the other was with a regular boyfriend. I still hope to have it again!

Sex definitely gets better when you hit 40

I got into Catholicism so should wait till marriage really, anyway. Then I might discover on my wedding night that they have an impotent micropenis.

24 orgasms. You were counting them as you had them?

24?! I thought I was doing well having 4 in one sesh 🎻

Only once!
About 6 months ago. I replay it in my mind all the time. It was completely different from any other sex I've ever had.

Even other times with the same man were amazing, he is a very giving lover, but not quite as mind blowing as that first time. Everything was heightened somehow. Will remember it for the rest of my life.

I actually broke it off with him yesterday. Feeling rather sorry for myself. Even though it was 'just' a casual thing. I will miss the sex.