Have you ever had mind-blowing sex?

[momtoboys]

And did it effect how others compared?

Yes with my ex . Never saw what the fuss was about until I met him .
Had 8 years of great sex - shame he turned out to be a weak pathetic cheat in the end .
Does make it more difficult to get over though - fear I won't experience as good again .. sad

@Electricmouse

24…wow….24

I’ve never experienced anything like this with a partner. Nothing close.

Yes, with myself 😆

What constitutes “mind blowing sex” exactly?

A proper knee-trembler@LuckySantangelo35. Out-of-body sort of feeling.

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Yes, with my husband. Been together 16 years and the only person I’ve slept with. It definitely gets better the longer you’ve been together and the more you get to know each other. It’s nice knowing what the other person wants without them needing to tell you all the time.

@LuckySantangelo35 Things like staying 'up' and carrying on coming for ages (my best sex has been when I can stay up in an orgasm that continues for what feels like quite a long bit of the shag- coming continuously.)

Come to think of it, the older guy who'd studied tantric sex was one of the best. People deny it, but how long the guy can carry on for makes a big difference to me.

Also orgasms where you feel like the top of your head has virtually blown off.

A few times pre DH and a few times with DH.
I've completely lost my sex drive the past few months and am feeling quite sorry for myself and DH. I miss it and would love to have my libido back but it's like I'm dead down there ☹️

Ditto!!

Literally seeing stars .....

I'm so sorry this happened to you @me4real I hope you're in a better place now

Yeah, for real! Sex in your 40's rocks! I am experiencing the same, plus anything would be enjoyable lol because it's not with my ex partner 😆

• My ex H in the early days before he got feelings
• A guy I met online after we broke up. I think we exchanged about 50 words to each other that were not sexual.
• a ONS I met in a bar in a dry spell and thought "fuck it"
• my DH. I wasn't super sold on him until we had sex then that was it. On the second time I came so hard for so long I thought I was having a stroke (hands numb, totally speechless).

I have to say I have had a lot of sex in my life and could count the not as good experiences on 1 hand. It's a joke among friends I have had since my uni years that I am a magnet for men who are good in bed/I can pick the filthy ones out of a line up.

Life is too short to have crap sex.

I've had a good few sexual partners but never had mind blowing sex until my husband- first date too (shock horror) and now been together 10 years and luckily still get to experience it over and over again 🤣 may explain the 3 kids in 4 years lol

Ha ha yes. Everyone deserves mind blowing sex.

I was in a fairly brief relationship with a handsome guy who was really fun to be with, had an athlete’s body, gorgeous smile and happened to be hung like a horse. He had an Aussie bartender vibe for sure 😂 We both moved on but he set the standard that I’ve been fortunate to experience again since multiple times. For me I think it’s about stimulating all the senses and the brain at once. It’s how they look, smell, taste, move, sound, how they touch me.

Yep, a few months ago.

Don’t worry about post menopause. I’m 55 and part of my HRT regime is Tostran, testosterone, it’s bloody marvellous. Put it this way some nights I’m banished to the spare bed so he can get some sleep 🤣, bless.

The man I’m with now. Been together three years. Sex is mental. Most days. I just want him constantly. Had the orgasms nearly everytime, crying orgasms, screaming ones. Done everything position wise. He’s amazing at oral.
i think I got lucky ahahahahahha
my ex bf called me a nymph and when I remember the sex ew ew ewwww

Also to add he is hung and we have a good connection I think. He just knows me and I guess I know him. It’s weird

the one time I went to a swingers club

Yes. And also the one who went down on me forever.

Damned right I have, not just dh. Just tell them what you like, it doesn't have to be cringey, just some guidance will do.

Only with myself.

We'd stop for a couple of minutes. She'd cuddle with me, talk and then start again. Each time I thought 'she's nuts, I can't do it again! I'll stop her in a minute '...
I was wrong.
I'll never forget it. About 6 years ago. I have a miserable sex life now and it makes me sad.

Yeah, a few times with a guy who knew he was really gay but hadn't ventured to act on it - he had a lot of sexual energy that was I guess, unused?! As he'd only had a couple of brief encounters before our relationship. And he was just gorgeous and amazing with hands and sort of like flipping a switch, you could just look at him a certain way and he'd be ready to go. There were definitely times when I was so caught up I didn't know what he was doing and it was like an out of body as pps have said. (I know it doesn't make sense that he was gay - I helped him come out and it all ended happily - I just think we had an unusual chemistry and I was sort of an experiment for him to see if he might be straight.)