Have you ever had mind-blowing sex?

[momtoboys]

And did it effect how others compared?

I was wearing red chinos at the time.

And boaters.

Yes, with current DP. I’ve had a lot of sex with a lot of blokes and absolutely everything else pales in comparison. It’s been revelatory. It’s beyond amazing every time but some times REALLY stand out…I swear I’ve seen Jesus a few times now 🤣 the chemistry is insane and we just seem to be overwhelmingly compatible. It’s been 8/9 months now and it’s as intense as ever. I wish I could go back and show my younger self the standard I should have been holding out for!

Omg these posts are amazing to hear about. I have only had one partner who I've been with for many years and sadly sex has never been amazing. It was good at times but now we never have it. Let alone foreplay..

But what some of you describe... I want that!! It feels wrong to not have had this amazing mind blowing experience? It is important!

It's really genuinely making wonder... How can I get it?

I just can't see it happening with my man. It's always about him. Not cool. Very sad.

But these posts have inspired me. Relationship hasn't been good in the past couple years so...

Yes with DH, 15 years in sex is still mostly great. A particular weekend away from a few years ago sticks in my mind, we stayed in bed all day and it was the most mind blowing sex we've ever had, I was shaking and my legs were like jelly for hours after.
We've been together since our teens so We know each other, have grown with each other and know what we both like without having to ask for it.
I've only ever slept with DH and 1 other so don't have much to compare but I'm more than satisfied!

Yes, he’d make me squirt.

Yep, just split up with a guy who I had an amazing connection with in bed. We're both overweight 40-somethnigs and I don't really understand why he's ended it. But the sex - oral especially- and the way he could make me feel was utterly mind blowing. Currently I am just very sad but in time I'm sure I'll be glad it happened. Prior to him a couple of amazing ONSs in my 20s.

Yes, always great and mind-blowing sex for 17 years of married life.

Sexual compatibility (how often, how, and for how long, quality of sex) are very important for me.

Yes! Was pretty good about half an hour ago😁

You are blocking your possible future great sex.

It's best to say: 'My next mind-blowing sex is on its way'🙂and you will attract it soon if you put your mind and effort into it.

Sexologists say that a woman who knows her body well has mind-blowing sex every time if her husband/partner is sexually educated and if she also directs him, and shows him what she likes and prefers.

Good sex is usually when a woman doesn't know her full sexual potential yet. Great, amazing, mind-blowing sex is usually after she learns/finds out about it often on her own first, then during the sex act.

I actually disagree with this. I orgasm every time I have sex, without fail and most often through PIV. I know what works for me and I'm very comfortable sexually. But mind-blowing sex is about more than gratifying and satisfying sex. It's about the mental connection, the fission, the electricity. Which you can't create, it's there sometimes and not others. Even with a consistently fantastic in bed partner.

Yeah I have an orgasm with DP almost every single time, that’s not the same thing.

mind blowing is like… not even knowing what day or time it is, just being so so in the moment it’s all consuming. I don’t know why my stand out experience was so different, it just was like I had no inhibitions and like I was just in that moment and nothing and no one else existed apart from the 2 of us. And not just for the length of an orgasm, for a couple of hours while we were having sex. Everything they do just is exactly perfect. Like you move together perfectly. It’s like being in a movie of your Own life (not a porno 🤣)

I get flashes of this with DP for sure but not the whole entire length of time. almost once with him, 2 summers ago on a hot day. We still talk about this a lot

Yes with a few people, but last ex was so beautiful and we were weirdly obsessed with each other.
We had amazing sex a few times that I will never forget.
Shame he was a massive childish bell end.

Yes, but sadly always with absolute wrong 'uns. Maybe that's part of why it was so good, I don't know.

But I've had very good sex with decent men too.

I've seen a fair amount of traffic

I'm trying to find a connecting thread between you - would you say your sexual experiences occured because you are just very sexual women anyway? What are your usual sex drives like, once you settle into a relationship and the first excitment bit dwindles?

@momtoboys @Thighdentitycrisis @Cakeandcoffee93 @pollyglot @Alondra

Well, for me it was a long term (11 years) relationship and it lasted the entire time. Not every encounter was mind blowing but very consistently it was. It certainly may have had something to do with the fact that I was hopelessly in love with him.

All of you ladies who have this with your DH or partner I am so happy for you…and a little jealous.

You didn't tag me but I have quite a high sex drive. I could have sex every day, sometimes multiples. We don't because life gets in the way but I get angry and fed up if it goes a few days without us having sex.

When I was single I was really good at picking out what men would be good in bed and just dated the nicest or most interesting ones out of them.

I'm a little cautious about responding to you EarthSight, because your post sounds suspiciously like journalistic prurience.

Yes but he was prick 🤣🤣🤣

Yep. Nearly every time I have sex with my partner. We always had great sex, occasionally mind blowing. Now it's usually mind blowing and occasionally great!

I have only had mind blowing sex with my dh. The first 3/4 years after we met it was amazing. Now 15 years in it's still good but it hasn't been mind blowing for a long time. Hoping when kids grow up we might regain that. I think as well as dancing each other it was a right time in sexual confidence for each of us.

High sex drive all day every day lol never dwindles plus my bf is similar but I would say I’m more

@pollyglot No worries XD

Have a search for my name on Mumsnet. I have a fairly active posting history, mostly on the Relationships and Women's Rights boards.

@Natty13 Oh I remember your post actually. Couldn't find it when I was having a look at the responses the second time, otherwise I would have tagged you.