Have you ever had mind-blowing sex?

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And did it effect how others compared?

@pollyglot Also just learnt what the word 'prurience' means. When I posted, I did think 'Are people going to think I'm a thigh-rubbing, heavy breathing man trying to do research into women?' XD

@Cakeandcoffee93 I'm starting to suspect this but, hey, I'm might wrong. I would imagine that the right balance of hormones, neurochemicals and endorphins would contribute to better experiences overall.

I guess I have been really lucky and had a lot of good sex, and mind blowing sex quite a few times. I have a high sex drive and do cum easily. Although, never counted 24!

I am much more confident in my 40's.

Sadly after 20 years of marriage of me making all the moves, DH has stopped making an effort entirely, which I find a turn off. As I am getting more adventurous, he is becoming more routine.

That said, I can still have a great time by myself.

24 orgasms?

I would be hospitalised at the very least. Mine are far too intense for more than 3 in a row to ever be enjoyable. I'm far too sensitive to bear to be touched intimately after that, and it's like every nerve ending in my skin feels alive. Right on the brink of too much and my mind is just enjoying the slowly diminishing sensations. If my husband went back down there during that, i'd hit the roof!

Yes.

So I married him. That's why we've outlasted every couple we knew at the time of getting together!

I'm (very) late 40s and my current FWB is the only guy I have physically enjoyed piv sex with, and when it is at its best, he really takes me to places I could not have imagined. I don't orgasm through it, but its a much deeper, more intense, more involved, just more 'urrrhhhhh' sensation that even an orgasm. It helps that aesthetically I find him absolutely fucking gorgeous.
For all sorts of reasons I should really dump him, but I just can't bring myself to give up that sex. TBH I think he feels the same about me

I’ve had mind blowing encounters and it’s the thing I miss the most about my ex.

You know that scene in When Harry Met Sally when he says “I took her to a place that wasn’t human. She actually meowed” - that!!

I would also have multiples, I would lose track but XDP would keep a vague count for me, and ask beforehand how many I wanted him to give me, as it was also a big ego boost for him. Like a PP I’m sometimes too sensitive after one, but with him I could go again and again, sometimes only one very specific thing would bring the last one out, and I’d be shaky, exhausted and unable to speak afterwards. Occasionally he’d make me orgasm just by kissing me, or just by touching my boobs. It was crazy.

Something about his pheromones was clearly very powerful to me and I struggle to imagine ever feeling that way with someone else tbh, but sadly his amazing bedroom capabilities weren’t matched in other areas so I had to let him go.

Happy to have experienced it for many years though.

Oh, and as to how it made others compare. It made me realise I had spent my life having shit sex. TBH until I came on mumsnet, I thought it was a lie invented by film producers and Cosmo magazine, that women enjoyed sex. I'm glad I had the chance in life to realise I can and do enjoy sex.

Same here divingskies - I’d had plenty of ok/good sex, but during my 12 year marriage previously I always felt I had a low sex drive as my XH wasn’t so attentive, so it just wasn’t as good.

It was still fine, but I usually had to ‘help out’ at the end if I wanted to orgasm. The only time I really felt like instigating it, was 3 times on the same day , which he was pleasantly surprised about. Turned out I got pregnant with DC3 that day, so he forever held it over me that I’d tricked him into it!

When I first met XDP and he made me orgasm the first time, I told him “it won’t always be like that!” But as it turned out, it got even better!

FWIW I think I was the best ever for him too, so I’m hoping he’s now regretting being such a cunt to me that I had to dump him, but somehow I think he’ll be doing fine and he’s probably just replaced me with someone else, having honed his skills on me

Yes @2LitreBottle, I used to get confused as I had a sex drive and fantasised about sex but rarely really enjoyed the actual sex. I thought the sex drive thing was a cruel trick played on women given how disappointing actual sex was!

My current FWB was the first guy I orgasmed with on the first time too.

I believe I have. Last time was my exhusband also Aussie.
I've been through menopause so sex never crosses my mind anymore.

I have a feeling if I saw him and sat next to him, I'd be hot and ready to go.

Just the perfect chemistry, pheromones

DH was my 11th sexual partner. Never had an orgasm before him. Never enjoyed oral sex.

He had only had 3 previous partners but is very well endowed, gets off on giving pleasure and is just amazing at oral. We had sex the next night after we met and after that I was done for. Best sex and orgasms so intense they are unbearable sometimes, seeing stars, weak legs, floating on a cloud afterwards still, 29 years and 5 DC later!

Yes. With my current partner it's insanely good, I've never felt anything like it. He just knows what I need and want and I'm not even present much of the time, I'm off just being. Bloody love him! 😂

yes, at least 4 times a week.
there was one time that I saw an explosion of colours when I came, that was new

I've had four long term relationships including my now DH.

Sex with the first two was ok, but with the third it wasn't mind blowing as such but we were just so compatible. He was actually very vanilla but I just loved having sex with him! I was so turned on by him that he was the only person I would even fantasise about if we were apart.

It came to a natural end though and shortly afterwards I met my now DH. He's gorgeous but not a sensual person the way my previous BF was. It took us a good while to find our thing but it's basically that he's very rude and completely uninhibited - a very different experience but no less satisfying.

Well, wow!! Respect to you!

Any spare Aussie barmen around?

I take it back about DP he pulled one out of the bag last night and it was a mind blower 🤣

Yup, a lot - clearly very lucky!

We have been together for quite a number of years and we have mind blowing experiences in a number of places. However before I got hitched I was able to orgasam and make my then partner orgasm a number of times that to me constotuted mind blowing sex. Also I had short term relationships with a few older lovers and they were incredible orgasmic experiences