Have you ever had mind-blowing sex?

[momtoboys]

And did it effect how others compared?

I’ve had a lot of very good sex with my DP but I once hooked up with a guy I knew and it was so intense and electric I would say it was the most mind blowing memorable experience I will never forget. I can’t even describe why, it just was. He said it was too but we just didn’t meet up again for various reasons

Yes but only with my DH, all the others were rubbish!

Yes. One of my FWB last year.

I have never known shakey leg, floating above my body "Oh.My.Word" like it. One session was his best sex too... We never worked out how, but he came 3 times within 5 minutes. Each a really good amount. We lay there laughing and cuddling for a good hour after that session as we kept reliving how good it was

He was a professional rock climber, which gave him such amazing stamina in his whole body and his fingers never cramped up from all the training he put them through. I'm sighing just remembering it all.

Current guy who I dumped FWB for is really lovely, but sex with him is nowhere near the same league. Too vanilla and predictable, even after less than a year. I keep introducing new things and ideas into the bedroom, which he's absolutely loving, but he doesn't give, and has never given, that sense of "Come round right now Jumpking as I need to give you the best night of your life". FWB...I had that sense every flipping time!

Yes I have. I left my stbxh early last year. We'd had a good relationship overall, but there were some unhealthy behaviours and the passion was gone. I felt I wanted more.

I then tentatively started dating a colleauge. Someone who, on paper, I'd never have gone for. I love and adore him. Our general connection is intense and we often talk about how lucky we are. He has a huge penis and I really think this makes all the difference. He is very experienced and takes the lead although I'm fairly open minded and confident in bed, and we often connect on this weird mind blowing level where I'm having a complete head rush and out of body experience and he's full of love and utterly focused on me. He also spent time practicing tantric sex in his past and can last for ages too. The deep connection is incredible and bizarre and something I'd chase for the rest of my life as now I know how amazing sex can be, I don't think anything would compare.

Yeah, the most disappointing sex I ever had was with an Aussie. Pity, as he was a really nice guy. He wanted me to enjoy it, he just lacked the... aptitude.

Tantric sex is something I have only experienced with one person and it was pretty amazing, he didn’t have to physically do much, there just seemed to be a connection which was mind blowing. We dated casually for a couple months but then he moved away. Sex with anyone else has been a bit disappointing since, I think about him a lot (well, the sex).

I've been lucky enough to have had this with 3 partners. 2 I was so in love with I thought I'd never get over them! The first was my first love and he was a "bad boy" in every sense. After we broke up it took me 10 years before I could see myself in a relationship with someone else again.(we remained friends until he passed away a few years ago and I still cry over him to this day. 2nd a FWB. It should have been more but my guards were up and I kept him at arm's length. The sex was amazing though!
And the last was my most recent ex. I hate that he still creeps into my mind sexually because he treat me very badly. Makes me sad because I thought I'd found my 'one" for a second time and at 42 I doubt I'll ever find it again.

Yes, a couple of times. It was an accumulation of circumstances and a build up of feelings, purely sexual, lots of talk about what we did and didn't like, we'd kind of got familiar, sexually with each other, and it didn't happen again even with that person. Sometimes I think the stars just align and it's amazing.

Yeah. I was in an extreme emotional state and starved in all sorts of ways and he is just very, very good at sex. It might have helped that he had several years where he was unable to manage PIV due to his size and found other ways. Haven't seen him for 3 years or so but I think about it every day.

It's pretty amazing too with bf, better than any other relationship, but the extreme edge isn't the same.

Yes, frequently with my long term ex. Unfortunately he was also abusive, but I honestly feel jealous someone else will be experiencing it and I'm not sure I'll meet anyone else I enjoyed it so much with.

I feel exactly the same. My ex had mind blowing skills. But he was abusive and controlling- I think the sex was the thing that kept us together- I had never experienced anything like it- before or snce.

In fact my ex used to say there is no such thing as a woman with low libido- just a lot of men who are crap at sex.

@Overthewine

i mentioned having MB sex at 17 and I most certainly haven’t had a shit sex life since. Not all 17 year olds are inexperienced…. I had had a few by that point 😂 and it was a one night stand. No regrets.

Me and my husband have fab sex and it’s probably a reason why we are still very happy together in comparison to many of my friends who simply just can’t be arsed for sex anymore and aren’t that keen on their husbands.

This what I think too! But I hope that won't be the case for either of us forever🙂

Yes, IMO sex gets better with age….

I regret not having an Aussie guy experience 🤪

I’m probably outing myself as desperately middle class here, but the most mind blowing sex of my life was in a field in Somerset one summer evening in the mid 90s, on 500ug of good LSD. I was the only one there.

Now, do I win a prize?

Not sure if the same applies to men.

Nope. I seem attract either asexual men or ones who last no longer than 30 seconds (wish I was joking).. I also lack feeling down there, probably from nerve damage from childbirth, so even if it's meant to be "mind blowing" I most definitely wouldn't feel it

to be clear, you had a wank in a field and you think that’s middle class?

That's great and I'm delighted for you, but it's the very opposite of a cliche. 😀

Yes absolutely. 14 years into our marriage and on holiday in Cyprus last year.

@thevanilla

I have to admit I was very confused when I read it, but I put that down to being working class and just presumed it was a MC past time to have a private wank in a field on LSD 😂😂😂

Yes! And I reminisce about them too.

No, it doesn't affect other people's performance because if I'm having sex with somebody then it's that person I want to be with.

I've had the hugest of the huge, and normal - both as good as the other as it's how I felt about the person that mattered.

I've also had sex that ended well for me (wink) and sex that did not, and again I enjoyed both because I was in love with the person I was with.

Never 😭 9 prior sexual partners, which were all total blah encounters, compromising:

virgin, virgin, selfish (didn’t really move much), inexperienced, micropenis (also then came out as gay a few months after!!!), ED (to the point it didn’t really count at all!!), inexperienced, ED, micropenis (but also inexperienced).

And then I married someone inexperienced, who came with a whole load of emotional baggage, had zero sex drive, is either asexual or closet gay, as well as a total pessimist in life generally. We never should have married. When I was lovely/young/slim, he didn’t want sex because he was tired or “felt fat himself” (he wasn’t). Then for a few years I comfort ate because of feeling totally undesirable and then he told me that I was the fat one he “didn’t find attractive”. He actually signed me up for WW 😂 It took a couple of years to shed a few stone of fat, but also 13st of him!!

I’d love to have mind blowing sex just once in my life. After all of the above though, I just don’t think I can be bothered. I don’t have the time or energy to invest in having rubbish sex.

That's what she said 😁