I think there’s another phone

[Dissillusioned]

I may be paranoid but a couple of things lately have me thinking dp may have a secret phone.
I’ve looked but can’t find one, so I could be totally wrong but my gut is telling me to keep looking.
What I’m asking is, those that have found a secret phone, where was it hidden? I’m hoping there’s places I haven’t thought to look. I’m also hoping I’m wrong and just paranoid as I do have form for overthinking things, but I’m watching dp like a hawk right now.

I wouldn't ask him for the phone. Just keep watching and waiting.

OP trust your gut. When I was with my ex I felt like something wasn't quite right, there were lots of little things here and there that on their own seemed like no big deal but when added together made me really suspicious. I put them down to lots of coincidences but it turned out I was right and only found out years later (recently!!)

Fwiw I think the incidents you've mentioned all sound very suspicious and I'd be doing exactly the same as you in your shoes. Keep posting back here if it helps, ignore the posters being unhelpful.

I really hope it's nothing OP .

Very curious if you find it

There are tiny phones available that prisoners get smuggled in.

I heard of jail smuggling, with phones being inserted into rectums, vaginas &c.... and was imagining an iPhone 6 +

But no....Tiny phones are what they used . Much easier to hide.

{Look online for tiny sizes}

@Dissillusioned

I can pretty much rule out prostitutes. I really don’t think it’s that because we do have a very active sex life and he hasn’t had the chance to go out and see any. If anything it’s an emotional affair/texting it a dating site or may be open but I don’t think it’s porn either. Not all men look at porn.

Hmmmm re porn.

I think all men look at it, but the fact you have a good sex life is hugely in your favour.

Most straying men do so when the sex is dead with their current partner.

I hope there isn't a phone.

I have just seen this thread. Idk if you’re still reading. I’ve only read the first 1/4 of the posts and then just your posts. I think you’d benefit from therapy. You’re paranoid about a potential phone. Perhaps there is one. Perhaps not. Either way, you have an issue with trust. And you’re clearly suffering a great deal.

Could he have been sneakily smoking?

I used to do that. Sneak out of bed and have a ciggy when DH thought I'd given up. I'd stay outside for a while and then spray perfume, clean my teeth and put some hairsrpay through my hair...I'd go to SUCH lengths so I didn't smell. I kept an old coat to smoke in to protect me a bit...I even used to put a hat on to stop the smoke going in my hair!

I really hope after all this that there is a phone 📞 🙄

I hope you can either find the phone or let this go. It’s no way to live your life, how can you be truly happy. What would happen if you found it?

@oakleaffy

Do you not remember the Nokia 8210? Awesome phone of its era, would easily fit up the average rectum / vagina.

Trust your gut OP, sounds very strange.

Any updates ?

Yes any updates?

Everything ok OP?

Same ghost writer as the Instagram ghosted thread no doubt

My god you lot, the OP said she would come back when there was something to say but thought it might be a while especially if he realised that she was on to her.

The OP has a life outside of this thread, she doesnt have to even return if she doesn't want to.

Maybe people just want to check if she is ok... nothing wrong with that 🙄

She wasn't in any danger. People just want the latest update for the drama.

Yep its definitely up his arse

Has anyone said laptop bag?

You also probably do not want to be recording him in the bedroom either, there was a post here a few months ago of a lady who found her husband had set up a spy cam in the bedroom. She got the police involved and he was arrested.

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