Underwear showing up - 100% not mine

[iwanteggfriedricefuckingpronto]

I know there's been a lot of this on here recently, that's probably what's spurred me to post this. I'll try to keep this short but factual.

About six months ago I found a well worn black bra amongst some clothes that I was folding. Definitely not mine as both cup and back size was smaller than mine. We concluded that it belonged to his mum who stayed with us for a few days a couple months prior. Strange thing about this is that his mum claimed to have left some shorts that she would not stop hounding me for for months after, they weren't at my house.

Fast forward to a month ago. Once again, folding washing from the dryer and found some lacy black french knickers. Again, well worn, 3 sizes too small to be mine.

I asked him about them in a light manner, asked what they were all about to which he answered in humour saying "not this again!" Seemed almost repulsed at my audacity to ask him. He swore he had no idea about where they'd come from.

Now here's my issue. Firstly, I found them about a week or so after I'd taken my daughter on a 5 day holiday. Secondly, I've moved house numerous times since I left home so they're not my old ones or anything, plus even as a teen/early 20's I have never worn that size underwear.

I want to believe him because I can't imagine he'd do it but equally, where the hell have these knickers come from?!

@IShaggedAMarriedMan no they don't, they were from Asda!

I didn't offer it back because it was him that text his mum. But with how she's been before about random belongings I'm a bit confused as to
Why I haven't been hounded for the bra. Plus she's not a size 10.

They are pretty small fir a man to wear

[quote iwanteggfriedricefuckingpronto]@Sexnotgender yes I imagine they would. But I don't think that's what's going on.[/quote]
Would it bother you if that was going on?

Any other signs he might be seeing someone else?

Omg . I would be thinking the worst

@DoWahDiddy absolutely. Could not get on board with that.

I'd be very suspicious, especially since you were away from home on holiday before finding the 2nd item.

Oh actually it might be Asda.

Joking aside, it doesn't look good, and it's no laughing matter.

Could you have scooped them up on holiday?

Our dog used to find knickers outon its wandetings and bring them in. Any chance you have an enthusiastic pet with a fettish? Otherwise id be suspicious. Buy a spy camera on line!

You're awfully calm about all this OP.

How can he come out with “not this again’ as if there’s a logical explanation? It either belongs to him or someone he’s shagging

I wouldn’t ask him mum about the bra over text as she will just ask him what to say etc. You need to ask her in person or over the phone to get a genuine reaction.

You went away for 5 days and bra appeared? Classic OW plan for you to find out.

Why would a lover wear "well worn" underwear from Asda? If I were (young and energetic enough) to be having a tryst with a man I'd be wearing something far more appealing.

@jelly79

Could you have scooped them up on holiday?

Yep, that sneaky fortnight getaway to Torremolinos during lockdown has a lot to answer for...

Cos a woman who shags another woman's husband is a skank

@MartiniDry

Why would a lover wear "well worn" underwear from Asda? If I were (young and energetic enough) to be having a tryst with a man I'd be wearing something far more appealing.

Some would and some wouldn't.

Do you have a cleaner with access to your house when you are out maybe?

(Friends cleaner was using her washer dryer to do other peoples washing!....but it was the electricity bill that gave the game away)

Don't worry my user name is made up. I was trying to think of something that would have MNers clutching their pearls.

If you were going to leave them behind deliberately, surely you'd leave some that looked nice but were uncomfortable.

Check phone records

@DoWahDiddy IP said she had just come back from holiday?? I was wondering could she of picked up a friends or something!

Fil now wife twice put her pants into Fil dressing gown for mil to find. Step mil wanted her find out

Ok so just to clear things up. Me and my 6 year old went on a getaway. My 4 year old was on holiday with her Nan.

I have no pets.

I can't check his history as he has private browsing on.

Security cam isn't a bad idea.

My gut is hooker/escort.

I just can't see him doing it if that makes sense. Although, I hate to say it, he has form.

My pay a family member to clean my house, definitely not her.