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Been together a couple months, only had sex recently. He has a small penis. I've slept with quite a few men over the years and none have been as small as this one. I really like him, we just click, he's so kind thoughtful literally everything I want in a man. I do fancy him, I do want to have sex with him but it's difficult, I can't feel it when it's in!! He seems to enjoy it but I don't. He's good with everything else, can please me in other ways but sometimes I just like a good seeing to if you know what I mean. Anyone had a relationship with a man like it?! Did you find ways to make it enjoyable?! How?! It's not a deal breaker for me, but I just love sex so this is a bit disappointing. I'd never tell him, he seems oblivious to it, so not sure if other women he's been with found it an issue!

Penetrative intercourse isn't the part that really pulls my little red wagon, so I'd be very happy with a guy who was good at foreplay and we clicked in other ways.

A lot of women say how important sex is before you have children, but there are a huge number of posts from women with children who say sex has receded into the background under the pressure of jobs, children, marriage.

So maybe it's first on your shopping list now, but in the future it may slip down the list? Maybe having a lovely kind, funny man who is a great dad and provider and who loves you is more important?

My mum recently told me......the size of it doesn't matter, it's what they do with it that counts

I don't know about that, yellowallpaper. I always imagined those kind of women were never all that fussed and just became less so. Sex has always been high on my agenda. This wouldn't bother me too much though unless he was a crap shag in general.

My current partner if alone two years has a small penis. I know it's something he is conscious about (I've never made it an issue). He is extremely considerate in the bedroom and always makes sure I'm satisfied. I find the best position for me is with me on top and I find I can and do climax in this position.

As others say it's about the connection you have with a person. Overall our relationship is amazing, the emotional connection means that any sexual interaction is good between us.

I personally would rather be in a relationship with a loving and caring man with a small penis and certainly wouldn't end a good relationship because of it. As we read on MN daily good men are hard to find.

Exactly @yellowallpaper . I'm looking for a life partner. But, sex is important to me in a relationship. Not the most important but it's something I wouldn't be happy without. I like a random quickie, I like a good fucking. I don't want all foreplay. It's really annoying :/

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I'm one of those women who isn't concerned about this. My DH is on the small side , but I get more pleasure from foreplay than PIV intercourse. DH is the loveliest man in every way, so this would never be a deal breaker for me.

@Gwenhwyfar Nobody deserves love, marriage or family you're right. But imagine realizing as a teenager you'd be unlikely to have any of those things purely because the overwhelming majority of the opposite sex found an otherwise functional and healthy part of your body unattractive?

@Aureum There's such a thing as "reversion to the mean" which governs inheritance in things like this.

The average erect size is 5.2cm, according to the most reliable data out there. 6 inches is already in the highest 90% percentile - it’s very big. “Small” would less than 4.5 inches, eg smaller than approx 80% of men. And flaccid size only loosely corresponds to erect size. Incredible how ignorant some people are about this stuff. And they say men watch too much porn! Or did those 15cm rulers at school just looks bigger than they in fact are.

5.2cm

Ironic typo 😂

No. No. No. My ex many moons ago had a very tiny penis... I hated it so much. He used to beg me to have sex with him and I did just to shut him up but I never enjoyed it... couldn't feel it at all. It was honestly the size of a pinky finger and very thin, limp like a maggot. Condoms was pointless because they never fitted him. He acted like he had a monster cock with the way he went on about how much he loved woman with big breasts (mine are average sized). His friend one day was telling me how all of my ex's ex girlfriends complained of his tiny equipment and if I ever wanted to have a big one inside me,I can sleep with him instead... After the way he treated me, I wish I did now.

Don't be cruel.

If his technique improved, would that help? Circular motions, using fingers etc?

"Nobody deserves love, marriage or family you're right. But imagine realizing as a teenager you'd be unlikely to have any of those things purely because the overwhelming majority of the opposite sex found an otherwise functional and healthy part of your body unattractive?"

It's the same for anyone severely obese or severely underweight or with many kinds of physical 'differences' isn't it? There are lots of things that make us less of a catch in the eyes of some of the opposite sex.
And then when you grow up you find out that even what job you do has an impact.
On another thread, there is a woman about to reject a man because his curtains were not fully open when she visited so who knows what can put people off!

I wouldn’t be interested.

You’re not being unreasonable for breaking off a relationship for any reason.

This would be a massive (ironically) dealbreaker for me.

Don't be cruel

It’s not cruel to be honest about sexual incompatibility. Technique can’t improve lack of inches, which for some women is important. Women don’t have to deny themselves in the sake of the men’s feels.

I do think that some men (and I know one) who are hung like donkeys believe that because they have a huge dick they don't need to try hard to please

This is very true. Good pounding is much needed now and again but ultimately it gets a bit boring if you never get to finish.

Not sure if size is inherited.. Mil took great delight in telling me fil had a small one ..
Dh is well hung (very ) and ds has followed suit it seems...
Personal preference ime.

They may start big or may start small but they nearly always end up small & shrivelled in the end op.

the emotional connection means that any sexual interaction is good between us. This.

they nearly always end up small & shrivelled in the end

They do indeed - I'm always surprised by how tiny they can become afterwards.

Fallsballs
Life is too short for a micro cock.
Good country and western song title.

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My mum recently told me......the size of it doesn't matter, it's what they do with it that counts grin

PoppyCOCK!

A lot of women say how important sex is before you have children, but there are a huge number of posts from women with children who say sex has receded into the background under the pressure of jobs, children, marriage.

So maybe it's first on your shopping list now, but in the future it may slip down the list? Maybe having a lovely kind, funny man who is a great dad and provider and who loves you is more important?

What about him?

A lot of men say their wives o linger want sex or intimacy (years) after having had children. But sex remains very much on their shopping list!

If u click that well then its worth not giving up on him. Sex is something that can improve with time the more u get to know each other.