Meet the Other Phone. Only the apps you allow.

Meet the Other Phone.
Only the apps you allow.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Relationships

Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody

New man small penis

543 replies

fedupdotcomlo · 16/02/2020 20:02

Been together a couple months, only had sex recently. He has a small penis. I've slept with quite a few men over the years and none have been as small as this one. I really like him, we just click, he's so kind thoughtful literally everything I want in a man. I do fancy him, I do want to have sex with him but it's difficult, I can't feel it when it's in!! He seems to enjoy it but I don't. He's good with everything else, can please me in other ways but sometimes I just like a good seeing to if you know what I mean. Anyone had a relationship with a man like it?! Did you find ways to make it enjoyable?! How?! It's not a deal breaker for me, but I just love sex so this is a bit disappointing. I'd never tell him, he seems oblivious to it, so not sure if other women he's been with found it an issue!

OP posts:
managedmis · 17/02/2020 12:30

My mum recently told me......the size of it doesn't matter, it's what they do with it that counts grin

PoppyCOCK!

^

Weeps Grin

Whynosnowyet · 17/02/2020 13:11

Mysocalledlife do you suggest the op pours Babybio on the described small penis? Relationship may develop but his penis won't...

lilyheather1 · 17/02/2020 13:52

I've had a few partners with small penises. There was a real distinction for me between the ones I really really fancied and the ones I just sort of fancied. The one's I really really fancied I found it much easier to acclimatise because I felt more involved in the entire act of teasing to foreplay to sex, it just felt more encompassing. The one's I was more meh about I really noticed it.

Vanhi · 17/02/2020 15:42

Someone else has already mentioned this but I do wonder if a lot of people on here have watched porn and believe 8 or 9" and above to be the norm.

You'd have to be quite stupid to think that though. Plus, it has to fit in somehow and whilst i know bodies are adaptable, I just wouldn't want that.

chemicalworld · 17/02/2020 15:52

What a horrible, shitty thread. I get that no one needs to be with someone who they aren't satisfied by their partner, but any man reading this thread who was below average would quite rightly feel terrible about something they have zero control over.

A bit of empathy goes a long way, be kind - some of the comments here are appalling.

Username109876 · 17/02/2020 15:59

It's not going to change, I understand how you feel, though it's not his fault and not yours either.
If you can accept that this is how it's going to be when you're intimate with him then stay, if you really like him. If you know you will never be satisfied enough with what he's offering then the best thing is maybe to leave and find somebody else. It's your life and as PPs have said, he will without a doubt find somebody who is satisfied with it, as you will find someone who satisfies you more.

Username109876 · 17/02/2020 16:00

It doesn't matter what the normal size is or whatever, what matters is whether you enjoy the intercourse with him or not. If you don't, that doesn't make you a bad person, you know he can't help it you just aren't a match.

Grandmasterflush · 17/02/2020 16:01

Lots of women I saw on Fab swingers are demanding 8 inches +
Wonder if they ever find it?

lilmishap · 17/02/2020 16:14

Not sure if size is inherited
Two sons, same dad (above average)yet I have One son with a stonker and One with a not so much. They both fiddle with it the same amount that's for sure and No I haven't seen either erect

SimonJT · 17/02/2020 16:17

The size flaccid really has very little impact on the size erect. Someone can look decent flat and not at all change size erect, where someone can have a small flaccid penis but be very large erect.

Whynosnowyet · 17/02/2020 16:21

Once had a bf with a 12 incher. Me and my mate never looked at a paint roller the same again...
*obviously told my mate as I was... Shock
He was never fully hard as he occasionally passed out.

whatsthecomingoverthehill · 17/02/2020 16:23

I can only assume that the people who think 5 inches is small have either got used to a very big dick or don't measurements very well. As others have said, the average size is just over 5 inches anyway.

Grandmasterflush · 17/02/2020 16:25

Paint rollers are 9 inches

Whynosnowyet · 17/02/2020 16:26

Tape measure told me 12 inches.
I was young!!
Wink

VisionQuest · 17/02/2020 16:30

"My mum recently told me......the size of it doesn't matter, it's what they do with it that counts grin"

Your mum is talking arse, sorry!

I have seen a couple of disappointing ones before. Gorgeous men too, but too little length and girth for my liking. Not exactly micro penis territory, but no more than 4/5 inches.

DH has the most amazing cock AND knows how to use it. Lucky me.

RogueV · 17/02/2020 16:33

Just had to google a walnut whip Grin

And breached the flaps, sorry but 🤭😂

I can orgasm with just PIV so I would be mightily disappointed in a small cock. Love a quickie as well. I get bored with just foreplay

yourgaybestfriend · 17/02/2020 16:35

hi fedupdotcomlo here's some advice. we're one of you. we neither want nor have children but we relate to the struggle. toys. Wink

Username109876 · 17/02/2020 16:35

Also some of these posts are harsh. If it were men laughing at women who only have A cup boobs as opposed to double Ds, there would be outrage i imagine.

DelpheDaisy · 17/02/2020 16:39

Just waiting now for some bloke to come along containing his new girlfriend has small tits/big tits should he dump her and ever

How is that the same. When I have sex boobs are rarely actively involved, the dick is generally a key component

Username109876 · 17/02/2020 16:46

Or maybe that she's not 'tight' enough, cue more outrage.

SimonJT · 17/02/2020 16:46

Are boobs comparable though?

I orgasm from penetrative sex, but for that to happen my partner needs to be packing enough to make that happen, which he does. If he wasn’t the physical pleasure side of sex wouldn’t happen.

A woman having certain size boobs would have no impact on sexual function surely, just like the size of my balls have zero impact on sexual performance. So disliking small breasts would be purely a vanity issue.

Username109876 · 17/02/2020 16:47

That's true, but the problem is that some posters are laughing at something these men have no control over. It's ok to not be satisfied by it, but some are actively mocking it.

Grandmasterflush · 17/02/2020 16:54

The small breast comparison is so far wide of the mark.
There is no equivalent female issue to having a small penis. Women have other issues they worry about but not one directly comparable.

Ilikethemhotnearly40 · 17/02/2020 17:04

Daisy....🤣🤣

Connie222 · 17/02/2020 17:14

Sad but true story - I’ve only had one orgasm in my life and it was while shagging a man with a micro penis. Just hit the right spot I guess! He dumped me after so ever got to have one again! 20 fucking years ago now!

Please create an account

To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.

This thread is closed and is no longer accepting replies. Click here to start a new thread.

Swipe left for the next trending thread