I want nothing to do with you anymore ....

[deedds]

I've been seeing him for 5 months now.
This last two weeks have been awful.
Him picking and choosing when he spoke,being short with me,cold etc
He said you remind me too much of my ex.
Then today he just said "I want nothing to do with you anymore"
No explanation

@Jiggles101 I don't actually believe she is now.
I think he probably turned her into it (whatever she was )

I said I respect your decision but can you tell me what I did wrong ?
Then I sent a few more as he just blanked me.
I just wanted a reason

You didn't do anything wrong and the reason is because he's a twat.

Lucky escape.

Oh, and if anyone treats you badly again - especially that soon in a relationship, dump them straight away.

You haven’t respected his boundaries.
He’s a bastard but you could be seen to have hounded and harassed him.

You can do so much better for yourself. You are worthy of a happy loving and fun relationship with a kind person. Save your love and attention for someone who loves to let you know they love you, through simple, kind gestures.

@Gutterton since he said leave me alone I didn't message
It was when he wasn't speaking or giving one word answers when I started asking questions.
Tbh my heads just been a mess,I thought we had something,at least a friendship anyway

Lucky escape

Tbh my heads just been a mess,I thought we had something,at least a friendship anyway

^^ please don't chase a 'friendship' with this guy. He's shown you his hand

@managedmis I'm done chasing anything with him now.
He has showed his true colours these last few days.

*Op, you’ve been posting about this guy over the best part of a year using many different usernames. Every single time people tell you to block him but you don’t.

Right from the off you were fwb, he never promised you anything and it’s got skewed in your head.

I understand the drama is intoxicating but this is a year of your life wasted.

I know you won’t block him. Something won’t let you do it and meanwhile he treats you horribly because you’ve given him all the power and he smells your desperation and it boosts his ego.

I hope this time you really do block him and find someone who suits you/your needs.*

Can you comment on MashedSpuds post please?

@Gutterton comment how?
There's nothing more I can explain about it than what I haven't already said really.

Sounds like my ex. You're well rid. Get your closure from knowing he's a c#nt.

So is this you?
Have you deleted?
Have you blocked?

Yes.I have actually blocked this time.
It sounds dramatic but I don't know how to get over this

Have you deleted his number?

FFS block the seedy vile rancid cretin.. he's a controlling prick enjoys rubbing your face in his other conquests... get some self respect and keep the fucker blocked.. Friends? don't lower yourself trying to stay friends in the hope he'll suddenly want to marry you.. he won't .. he's a User... you will find someone who will cherish you

Op, you’ve been posting about this guy over the best part of a year using many different usernames. Every single time people tell you to block him but you don’t.
OP please tell me you haven't been doing this, FGS

It is so humiliating for you . Have you no pride & self esteem left? Is this what he has done to you? Please, please, for your sake, find it inside yourself to block him once and for all. Good Luck.

I'm totally pathetic aren't I ?
Probably why he doesn't want me.

I'm totally pathetic aren't I ?
Probably why he doesn't want me.

No that’s why someone like him targets someone like you - power, control, devalue, discard.

But what are YOU going to do to build up yourself?

I am not going to agree with you because l am not a cruel hard hearted person but you really need to stop this now. I am not going to reply to you any more OP . Good Luck in the future .

@Gutterton I actually don't know what to do now.

I told him months ago I wasn't over my mums death.
I told him that I couldn't stand any more sadness,then he does this.
I could get over him not wanting me but this is cruel.
Sending me pics of himself with another woman.
Telling me he didn't care I was hurt.
I've never done anything wrong apart for get feelings for him.

I'd throw a parade to celebrate

So if you had blocked and deleted you would have moved on and focused on your own grief over the loss of your mother.

You have to take yourself out of emotional punching distance. It is your responsibility to do what you can. You sought advice repeatedly. It was unanimous. You didn’t take it. So are there any surprises.

Have you deleted his number?

His ex was probably just a nice normal person like you. He sounds like a serial player.

You know now that he's not worthy of you, but you developed feelings for hi when he was playing nice, so you just need time for your heart to catch up with your head.

Don't be looking at his SM etc and that will help. Block him on Snapchat so he can't entertain himself by taunting you

Nasty piece of work!

@Gutterton up until this point when people said this that and the other I always made excuses for him and convinced myself something was there.
The nastiness this time has proved that I mean nothing to him.
I have blocked him on everything.
Even Facebook.
I've wasted since may on him and for what just heartache.