I want nothing to do with you anymore ....

[deedds]

I've been seeing him for 5 months now.
This last two weeks have been awful.
Him picking and choosing when he spoke,being short with me,cold etc
He said you remind me too much of my ex.
Then today he just said "I want nothing to do with you anymore"
No explanation

Yes block him first.

Block him first. He won't expect that!

No, don't play silly games like that. Who cares what he would think, or what he will be expecting. Block him and delete him for your own sanity, not to get one up.

He sounds like a narcissist, run for the hills and be relieved it ended this soon
You deserve better

After looking at the narcissist traits I think he is.
He has zero empathy for anyone,he never has any emotions.

Thank God you have realised OP please block him on everything you have had a lucky escape, he will try to get you back don't fall for it , good luck.

It's a bit worrying you were trying to hang onto someone who was treating you very badly.

Narcs do that to us , it's all gaslighting, manipulation & guilt inducing BS.

OP... congratulate yourself on your very lucky escape...

this guy is playing mind games ... block him and cherish your great escape

He sounds avoidant to me.
Go total no contact, in a few weeks you’ll feel in a much better place

He sounds like an asshole to me.

I have found men to be far more bitchy and mind players than women due to their massive little egos. You are well rid.

Have a beautiful year!

What a nasty little pig!
You had a lucky escape.
I can bet money on trying to crawl back when you blank him though

oh please block him before he blocks you. Please! It would be good for you to do it and for him to discover you've done it.

Please don't waste your time and energy analysing him. Move on, move forward, look after yourself and never have anything to do with him ever again.

The only thing that you did wrong was picking a loser. He’s cold, mean, rude and selfish. The best thing he ever did for you was end it. You don’t need any reasons from him, they clearly will be bullshit anyway and will just knock your confidence. Pick yourself up and dust yourself off...

Please don't grovel to this weasel of a man, he is not worthy of you. Hold your head high OP and don't talk to him again, even if he apologies profusely, love bombs you etc. He will turn on you again in the future. You are well rid.

Take back the power, block him on everything first. Move on and enjoy your life, he sounds like a broken human.

I said to him that fair enough if he doesn't want things to progress further that's ok but how about friends.
He said all I do is "blag his head"
Friends don't do that.
He's twisting everything,the only reason I might "blag" his head is because he was blowing hot and cold and I wanted to know.
It was just like a switch went down on him and he turned cold towards me.

You'll never get an answer from all your whys. Easier said then done, but dust yourself off and don't look back

He likes having the upper hand and making you feel inadequate. You haven't done anything "wrong". Don't give him another thought!

Why did you tolerate his poor treatment? You should have dumped him long before now.

I said to him that fair enough if he doesn't want things to progress further that's ok but how about friends.

Why are you so desperate to have any kind of relationship, even friendship with a man like this?

It's time to look inwards and found out why you allowed him to treat you so badly...yet still want him in some form.

It does seem like you have low self esteem.

He wouldn’t make a very good friend.

Why would you want any contact with this person?

Block and delete.

He is a grade A wrong ‘un. Gets a kick out of manipulating you into feeling like you are at fault. He will no doubt also be enjoying your questions and wanting to be friends.

Sorry you have been used in this way. He was always going to do this to you. Be glad it has ended now rather than years and children later. Stop wondering what you did wrong. It is NOT you.