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Ex dp, ds, fake name, extra kids, second thread

793 replies

Fedupofitnow123 · 28/11/2019 22:47

Thank you for your continued support, I'm starting this thread regarding the impending court hearing tomorrow, if someone could link my previous thread that would ne highly appreciated!

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AFairlyHardAvocado · 29/11/2019 12:07

Thinking of you and willing you on. Fuck me, you're resilient. And your boy sounds wonderful. Best of luck for today Thanks

Beebeequeue · 29/11/2019 12:16

All the very best OP. You’re a great inspiration and I hope you get the peace you deserve from today x

Didntwanttochangemyname · 29/11/2019 12:17

Wow OP, you are so strong. I've just read both of your threads and I'm completely knocked out by you. I hope things go OK today, you deserve so much more in life x

Unusualsuspicion · 29/11/2019 12:22

AFairlyHardAvocado has it spot on - fuck me, what resilience indeed! You are remarkable, and your son too. Best of luck for today.

Prawnofthepatriarchy · 29/11/2019 12:29

Crossing my fingers for you. If this doesn't go your way there's no justice in this world.

RandomWok · 29/11/2019 12:34

Another poster just here to say that you are an amazing woman and mother. Best wishes today. Flowers

stucknoue · 29/11/2019 12:41

Thinking of you, i followed the first thread, when I initially posted it looked like a typical story of a man being a jerk, but turned sinister quickly. Makes us wonder how we can protect ourselves from fraud essentially

T0tallyFuckedUpFamily · 29/11/2019 12:48

Good luck, OP.

ffswhatnext · 29/11/2019 13:10

Another one wishing you luck

Fr0g · 29/11/2019 13:12

Hope the day is going well.

Icanflyhigh · 29/11/2019 13:19

Thinking of you today, stay strong xx

DowntownAbby · 29/11/2019 13:23

Just read your previous thread in full.

Thinking of you, @Fedupofitnow123 Flowers

You're so bloody strong! What an inspiration to your lovely son!

Whattheduckisthis · 29/11/2019 13:24

You my girl are a bloody inspiration. Your son sounds like a beautiful soul. Your amazing. Good luck x

TheSecondMrsAshwell · 29/11/2019 13:32

Skimmed through your threads and I wish you all the very best. I hope he gets toasted.

ChrisPrattsFace · 29/11/2019 13:33

Have just read the whole thread, what an incredible woman you are!
Your son is very lucky, hope things continue upwards for you OP.

LL83 · 29/11/2019 13:39

Good luck today OP. You are doing so well.

sunshinefinally · 29/11/2019 13:46

Good luck today - I have been watching the threads and just want say you are amazing!

IndieTara · 29/11/2019 13:46

I have everything crossed for you OP X

Daisy7654 · 29/11/2019 14:05

Good luck. You've been through so much and it started when you were only 19. Same age as my daughter. You've been so strong.
I hope so much that it all goes well in court.
Sending big hugs x Flowers

TheGonnagle · 29/11/2019 14:09

Another who just read both threads in one go. I take my hat off to you, your strength shines through in your writing. Best of luck to you today and going forward, you brave woman you Flowers

oatmilk4breakfast · 29/11/2019 14:14

What an incredible thing you’re doing! Fingers crossed for a happy outcome for you and your son. Stay strong! X

AngelOfDeathNix · 29/11/2019 14:37

I read your threads earlier and have been keeping you and your two little ones in my thoughts today, really hope that it all went well and you can all make a fresh start x

Fedupofitnow123 · 29/11/2019 14:37

I have it for 1 year and it's going to trial.

So many lies told.

I feel absolutely exhausted and like I just want to cry! Cry cry cry.

I wish none of this ever started, I want my family back, I don't want to be fighting in court, this isn't what I want.

I feel so weak today now, I feel like the fight in me has gone, I feel the lowest I have felt for a long time.

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carly2803 · 29/11/2019 14:41

OP i have read both threads

You are INCREDIBLE.

he deserves jail time for what he has done. Please do not give up

KEEP GOING

MulticolourMophead · 29/11/2019 14:44

OP, you need to rest now. It's great you've got the order, that gives you lots of time to get you and your boys settled.

Hopefully he'll do jail time, meaning more time free of him.